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DannyDemanding -> RE: Ever try the other side? (11/24/2008 12:50:32 PM)
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
True, zero insight, and the creepy Silence of the Lambs imagery was a bit over the top. I apologize for that, my style of writing and my sense of humor sometimes comes across as entirely wrong.
No harm done.
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I still don't follow how a dominant doesn't comprehend the submissive mindset. They are typically so good at figuring out how we tick
One needs only be a good communicator and observer to figure out how another ticks. Consider the people who do this to an extreme, and for a living- FBI profilers. Surely they understand what makes serial killers tick. They undertand why such people do what they do. Yet surely, they must regularly say (to themselves if no one else), "How can someone do such things?" (And with that, I apologize for the creepy comparison.)
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I guesss I understand that what you were saying is you can't relate or appreciate it on a personal and visceral level.
Precisely, and well said. Thanks for putting it better than I have thus far managed to.
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as Cali said, can you BE the motorcycle? Taking it apart, knowing every inch of the motorcycle won't make you one....
No, but the act of doing so can certainly make you feel a connection with the machine. And make you feel as though all is right in the world.
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The next question that comes to mind...is can you manage to purr between the thighs for the one riding you? Honey, if you're riding a motorcycle that purrs, you're on the wrong kind of bike! [:D] To answer your question, though, I'd sure be willing to give that a try! [;)]
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