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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 8:56:11 AM   
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Hey, marie... I never did learn what denomination you are.  Maybe we could worship together sometime?
 
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Why not simplify this whole thing, John?    

How about you be God, and just leave the worshipping part to me?


Would that include a tax free religous status? 
 
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Only if you actually perform miracles.



Well, several victims... errr... partners have remarked, on occasion, that I'm miraculous.  Does that count?
 
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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 9:09:02 AM   
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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 10:14:22 AM   
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Sense of smell can be extremely stimulating to me in an aphrodesiac kind of way.  I always get turned-on immensely in church; the combination of frankincense, myrrh, and cedar drives me absolutely wild.  Not a good thing during weddings and funeral services, however.  I always come out horny as hell and wanting to get beaten and fucked on the altar.


marie2--I'm with you on wanting to makeproper use for worship, my kind of worship, on a church altar.  :> 

OP--Certainly, all senses are important.  I would say that scent and hearing are most important and most erotic for me. 

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 10:25:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		Happy to see that I am not the only person who can't handle perfumey odors..  Strong scents=instant migraine for me..

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 10:40:12 AM   
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I agree, strong, chemical perfume scents: headache for sure. 
Naturals (Via essential oils, good quality candles/incense are fabulous). 
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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 10:48:10 AM   
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Cheap perfumes or really strong scents make my eyes puff up and water and my sinuses instantly stuff up. Not pretty, hard to do much when you can't breath

I find alot of music just distracts me or irritates me. So alot of the time is a huge mood breaker.

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 10:54:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh sage is great, as well as many other types of herbs and flowers. I use a lot of oils and incense. Candles are a given. Oddly I am allergic to perfumes and colognes, but can handle the flower sprays.

This week I will be attending a Catholic Mass, since my daughter asked me to go with them. Now i got new visions to think about while they do their service. Thanks Rover, Marie and Davan for the visuals. :)

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 11:57:48 AM   
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Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab makes a variety of room sprays that are rather nifty. They have some that are specifically and deliberately sexual (and rather BDSMy) in theme. 
 
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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 12:06:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have a serious problem with scent and a cheap perfume or even deoderant or pine cleaner will have me running for air.  But I love scent.  I found that if I put stick incense in something (not burning it) and have that close to the bed or in a room, it gives a scent that I can handle as long as they aren't the sweet or perfume scents.  If it is a problem they can be removed and most of the time I have had no problem with them and they do scent the room better with less affect than other things.

I love setting the stage so to speak, from what's cooking in the kitchen to texture of things I am using in play.  I love rabbit fur and scratchy stuff... blindfolds to enhance it all and food is just yummy done without the messy aspects... Hard, cold, warm, soft... scent and taste... yummmm

I forgot... oil based perfumes are easier for me to handle on someone or myself.  No more headaches and breathing challenges.  If there is alcohol in perfume... forget it!

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 12:35:07 PM   
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Smell is especially stimulating..(bits deleted)... Anyone have a similar perspective?


Well... barbeque flavour comes to mind, the BBQ is on my deck, next to the playroom . Cheap perfume makes me dream of hot Longk Island blue collar chicks, I go weak at the knees. Mixes well with BBQ flavour, too - works very well in Oztralian, Barbie smell..

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 12:40:01 PM   
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I always come out horny as hell and wanting to get beaten and fucked on the altar.


Damn! nice visual!

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 12:45:36 PM   
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Lately I find that setting the mood for a session adds more layers of sensuality. The look, the smell, the feel, all tactile aspects seem to enhance the moment, so I like candles & incense as part of the setting. Smell is especially stimulating, I love the scent of burning sage, it seems to compliment the natural aroma of sex. Anyone have a similar perspective?

i love creating a mood/setting for enhancing intimacy and other related activities and every sense is important. i burn alot of incense - patchouli and frankinsense being my favorites - never thought of sage...
 
Infact getting ready to do a "house cleansing" with sage this afternoon - now i will be thinking sex! oh good grief!

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 12:47:16 PM   
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... for instance, I like to let some chocolate melt in my mouth and then give a long, deep kiss.  Use different tastes to make each kiss a surprise.
 
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What a fabulous idea! i will have to try that

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 1:30:51 PM   
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Oh sage is great, as well as many other types of herbs and flowers. I use a lot of oils and incense. Candles are a given. Oddly I am allergic to perfumes and colognes, but can handle the flower sprays.

This week I will be attending a Catholic Mass, since my daughter asked me to go with them. Now i got new visions to think about while they do their service. Thanks Rover, Marie and Davan for the visuals. :)

oceanwynds


Always glad to be of service, oceanwynds.  If you happen to find a hot priest while you're there, I'd be rather in your debt if you'd send him my way; you see, I have this little 'corruption' fantasy.... 
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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 2:04:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Smell is the only sense that feeds directly to the brain without logic sensors processing it. Which is why a scent can trigger such strong emotional responses from good to bad. There was a thing they tried at I beleive USC where they would use various scents and nothing more and mixing recognizable scents could create a mental image in the subjects and even in some cases get emotional responses.

For me, I tend to use sounds more then scents in playing. . much more controlable and finite. From scene music to noises such as the sound of clinking chain to a zipper. . .I use the noise to try and create the mental image of where I want the subs mind to be.

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 2:12:16 PM   
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Oh sage is great, as well as many other types of herbs and flowers. I use a lot of oils and incense. Candles are a given. Oddly I am allergic to perfumes and colognes, but can handle the flower sprays.

This week I will be attending a Catholic Mass, since my daughter asked me to go with them. Now i got new visions to think about while they do their service. Thanks Rover, Marie and Davan for the visuals. :)

oceanwynds


Always glad to be of service, oceanwynds.  If you happen to find a hot priest while you're there, I'd be rather in your debt if you'd send him my way; you see, I have this little 'corruption' fantasy.... 
Davan
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I will be more then happy to send Him your way:)


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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 2:19:16 PM   
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Sense of smell can be extremely stimulating to me in an aphrodesiac kind of way.  I always get turned-on immensely in church; the combination of frankincense, myrrh, and cedar drives me absolutely wild.  Not a good thing during weddings and funeral services, however.  I always come out horny as hell and wanting to get beaten and fucked on the altar.

I have a really strong reaction to perfumes that are sweet and flowery. I use to have a real problem with it in public places when a female would walk by with a great smelling perfume. Of course back then if the wind blew, I got aroused too. It still gets a pretty strong reaction but I can control it a little better than I use to lol. If you happen to see me at a BDSM event somewhere and I'm sniffing the air..you'll know what's up..


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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 3:01:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: oceanwynds

Oh sage is great, as well as many other types of herbs and flowers. I use a lot of oils and incense. Candles are a given. Oddly I am allergic to perfumes and colognes, but can handle the flower sprays.

This week I will be attending a Catholic Mass, since my daughter asked me to go with them. Now i got new visions to think about while they do their service. Thanks Rover, Marie and Davan for the visuals. :)

oceanwynds


Always glad to be of service, oceanwynds.  If you happen to find a hot priest while you're there, I'd be rather in your debt if you'd send him my way; you see, I have this little 'corruption' fantasy.... 
Davan
(Who watched "The Thorn Birds" at a very formative age apparently)


I will be more then happy to send Him your way:)




Yippee!!!  < doing the mental equivalent of jumping up and down and clapping my hands with a big grin on my face >
  Davan

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 3:08:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Since you guys want to be serious about this, I am surprised nobody has mentioned planting suggestions beforehand to set the mood, perhaps with a note secreted someplace they are sure to find hinting at what is to come, or perhaps slowly dropping hints to confuse/arouse/terrify someone prior to getting together.  Or of giving some instructions for a task in the same vein.

Or of setting the mood by throwing the furniture around and throwing things on the floor so when she comes in and you are wearing a mask...

Even just a blindfold accompanied by strange unknown sounds or even voices could be interesting

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RE: the mood - 11/24/2008 4:31:47 PM   
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Hi, BSB----
I agree, strong, chemical perfume scents: headache for sure. 
Naturals (Via essential oils, good quality candles/incense are fabulous). 
Davan

Even essential oils and candles or incense are no-no's for me I'm afraid..

"Or of setting the mood by throwing the furniture around and throwing things on the floor so when she comes in and you are wearing a mask... "
If you really wanted to see me in the fetal position, holding my knees and rocking back and forth, staring into space..Perfect way to do it! LOL

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