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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 3:58:15 PM   
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Spanking does arouse me yes, but NOT the flicky icky stingy thing (a 42" horse training whip). This has ben known to turn my cunt into something resembling a clam for which nothing short of a car jack will prize my legs open.



For some reason, I flashed back to a nature channel show explaining how the male otter will diligently and ingenously hammer away at the clam, until it breaks open for him.  Can I just say, NOT a pleasant mental image in context with your post! 

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 3:59:16 PM   
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I took the time to compile this comprehensive reply so that newcomers will not mistakenly think that the OP is “unsupported by fact” as hardbodysub claims.  I offer you these links to verify for yourself the extensive pudendal nerve research.

“pudendal nerve” links

"pudendal nerve" + "sexual stimulation" links

There is some interesting reading in those links and you will learn of the connection between the G-spot, pudendal nerve and orgasms. 
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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub
You might try reading my post again, slowly this time. . . . .

Ok, I read your post again. . . “slowly”.  It still quotes the OP and KoM’s reply making the a comment that you didn’t think KoM’s opinion about it being irresponcible was valid but instead felt the OP was "unsupported by fact and illogical”.

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I specifically said that I DON'T consider your post irresponsible. Someone else said that, earlier, and I disagreed with it.

What the fuck are you talking about?  I never said you thought I was irresponsible.  In order, I quoted KoM (“I think it is Irresponsible to suggest otherwise”) and you ("unsupported by fact and illogical")… and in order I replied.  Perhaps you need to take your own advice and reread this real “slowly” ? 

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In regard to the "unsupported by fact and illogical", take a look at this quote: "I have found spanking is pretty much universally sexually arousing. I can even spank most people into orgasmic bliss." I seriously doubt that your sample of spankees is representative of the universe. They probably wouldn't be letting you touch them if they weren't inclined to be turned on by spanking in the first place. Concluding that you can "spank most people into orgasmic bliss" is quite a stretch, and clearly not supported by anything but your own small (in relation to "most people"), unrepresentative, unscientific sample of partners.

That makes the conclusion illogical.

You are wrong and that is a misleading lie because it wasn't the conclusion of the post! 

But first, are you really saying my replies to other people had something to do with your comments about the OP being "unsupported by fact"?  You have replied two different times in this thread now stating that you were replying to KoM’s post about the OP being “irresponsible” saying you didn’t think KoM’s opinion about it being irresponcible was valid but instead felt the OP was "unsupported by fact and illogical”.  Now you want us to believe your comments, which would still be incorrect, were directed at the previously unmentioned post # 6?  I don’t think anyone can read “slowly” enough to believe that convoluted bullshit. 

My good sir, I do not call you a liar but instead point out that the words you have spoken are untrue.  Making up a concordance to my other comments to try and justify it won’t sell very well on these forums.  wow . . . just wow . . . 

Even if you could change target of your words mid breath, you can’t pluck a few words out of context and claim they are a conclusion.  How in the world do you expect readers to believe you and that the supportive opinions I expressed were a “conclusion”?  Allow me to explain what my comments in the reply you mention were about. . . if you read "slowly", I am sure you can keep up. 

Post # 6 was in reply to littlewonder who said spanking wasn’t sexy when “it just friggin hurts” but if she was “in the mood” and it is “done for pleasure” then it is sexy.  I stipulated that “if you do anything brutally enough it becomes painful” and concluded that “if you were approached right and your man turned you on first” it could be sexy.  Further, I support the conclusion that approach is important with comments about my own approach saying, “I have found spanking is pretty much universally sexually arousing” and “I can even spank most people into orgasmic bliss”.

I know for a fact you are educated enough to know what a conclusion is.  I see you make them yourself.  For example, in the Age and BDSM thread, post # 87 you said,
”As everyone knows, nobody over 40 could possibly maintain a youthful physique, look much younger than their years, and be in any way attractive. It's just impossible,…” [and then you make this conclusion] “so nobody under 35 should even consider anyone over 40. Period.”

See, that is what a conclusion looks like.  Speaking of conclusions, I have made some of my own.  As you now know, I did a thread history on you before I chose which attitude to adopt while writing my response to your second unfounded reply in my thread.  I am left with these questions after assessing your post history and deriving your behavior pattern from it. 

So what really happened?  I mean, you went through all that trouble to quote KoM, disagree with him and jump on his a “bash the OP” wagon.  Did you google the pudendal nerve and discover the mountain of clinical sexual studies and information about it that made your comments looks foolish? 

/you just been spanked and I bet it wasn’t sexual stimulating

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 4:09:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
For some reason, I flashed back to a nature channel show explaining how the male otter will ......
Speaking of otters, I am a big fan of theirs because I am a fan of sex and violence.  Otters mate in the water and the male otter will bite right through the females nose to hold her in place during their vigorous bout.  Unfortunately, it gets so intense, females occasionally drown in the violent mating ritual.   Otters are so sexually intense, their matting ritual comes with a statistical death toll… dayum!
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look, I'm helping hijack my own thread . . . LOL  Next thing, clams will bring up the food topic and that will be the end of it! 

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 4:55:49 PM   
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Whatcha say RS that we have a spanking conference at your house and I will volunteer to be the demonstratee!


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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 5:12:11 PM   
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oooohhhhhhh    -   foooooooddddddd  * purposefully moves to kitchen to see what is good to eat*

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 5:31:11 PM   
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And here I thought a pudenda was one of those cute bear-like critters from China that only eat bamboo. Ya learn something new everyday...

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 5:45:49 PM   
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And here I thought a pudenda was one of those cute bear-like critters from China that only eat bamboo. Ya learn something new everyday...

You mean like the movie, Kung Fu Pudenda???    The Chinese Pudenda is an endangered species because they have strange mating habits.  Apparently you have to spank them first. 

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 6:15:31 PM   
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Exactly. Thanks for clearing that up. I'm sure that's why the artificial insemination of Pudendas in captivity doesn't work very well. Ya gotta spank 'em first !

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 6:21:43 PM   
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if someone was so inclined, how would they find the nerve on a body please?  (without doing the dissection that was so nicely pictured)

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 6:22:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: nhite

if someone was so inclined, how would they find the nerve on a body please?  (without doing the dissection that was so nicely pictured)


i guess you could aways just start smacking away until you here a AH! in a good way

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 6:24:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

-=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=-
Yes.  Spanking stimulates the pudendal nerve which causes sexual arousal.  The pudendal nerve is a nerve in the pelvic region that innervates the external genitalia of both sexes and spanking someone’s ass can lead to good sexy fun.  In fact, accidents causing damage in pelvic region can cause sexual arousal for the same reasons spanking does.  Manswers (Spike TV) wraps it up neatly in this video segment called Does Spanking Lead to Horniness?



References:
www.pudendal.com
nature.com - Autonomic dysreflexia in response to pudendal nerve stimulation
wikipedia.com - pudendal nerve  spike.com - Does Spanking Lead to Horniness?  

Not for me it doesn't. Just pisses me off.

Now...if you were instead to give me a good hard, swift, kick...that's a different story all together

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 6:25:42 PM   
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(sighss) all this talk of violent sex and spankings, is really making me miss my happy place and (pudenda) bear hugs...If only the euphoria lasted as long as the bruises.   To top it off, I'm now in the mood for oyster/clam bisque.  How weird is that?

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 6:26:27 PM   
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I'mma guy & I find a light,lengthy spanking (Erotic) pleasurable. anything harder? no thanks.."Me no likey" heh.

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 6:35:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

(sighss) all this talk of violent sex and spankings, is really making me miss my happy place and (pudenda) bear hugs...If only the euphoria lasted as long as the bruises.   To top it off, I'm now in the mood for oyster/clam bisque.  How weird is that?


Not weird at all. In fact, perfectly understandable. you're simply missing that protein rich, hot, creamy jolt.

You got Pudenda bear hugs ??? No wonder you're nostalgic. Here, climb up into my lap and I will kiss it better.

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 6:39:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cjan

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

(sighss) all this talk of violent sex and spankings, is really making me miss my happy place and (pudenda) bear hugs...If only the euphoria lasted as long as the bruises.   To top it off, I'm now in the mood for oyster/clam bisque.  How weird is that?


Not weird at all. In fact, perfectly understandable. you're simply missing that protein rich, hot, creamy jolt.

You got Pudenda bear hugs ??? No wonder you're nostalgic. Here, climb up into my lap and I will kiss it better.


Now THAT is an invitation I'd love to accept!  (snuggles)  Yes, I'm nostalgic - seriously nostalgic - and jonesing for that happy place.  ARRGGHH...I need to stay away from these spanking threads. I seriously do.  At least until the sub-drop levels out. 

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 6:41:03 PM   
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i totally agree with you, as i am the same way

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 7:58:10 PM   
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Yeah, lol.. didnt need a study or video to tell me! For me yes.. spanking can turn me on. I enjoy the feel of the sting, but moreover, I enjoy the feeling of loss and control as my Mistress pins me down, or forces me, or commands me.. to obey her. The actual physical act of spanking, combined with the emotional aspects.. just mmmmm! *fans himself* 

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 8:05:29 PM   
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Now THAT is an invitation I'd love to accept!  (snuggles)  Yes, I'm nostalgic - seriously nostalgic - and jonesing for that happy place.  ARRGGHH...I need to stay away from these spanking threads. I seriously do.  At least until the sub-drop levels out. 


just nerve up, C and eat your clams.
how did we get from clams to violent sex to my wet cunt in just one page...oh right the pudendal nerve...

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 8:28:25 PM   
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  Start spanking her in the “sweet spot” (where the ass cheek meets the thigh).  Spank her with more follow through creating deeper and deeper impact and vibrating her guts.  Spank the far cheek of her ass, cup your hand so the heel of it hits her pussy (which should start splashing by now).  Reach up and wrap your free hand around her throat choking her a bit or stick your fingers in her mouth or ass.  Spank her with steady slow strokes that move her body with each stroke . . . then tell her how much it would please you if she cums for you . . .   (or tell her if she has to cum or die because you’ll strangle her to death) and you should end up soaked from her gushing orgasm that splashes all over as you spank her. 


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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 10:20:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: nhite
if someone was so inclined, how would they find the nerve on a body please?  (without doing the dissection that was so nicely pictured)


The pudendal nerve actually has many branches, I just don’t recall how many.  I do recall my general impression which was that if you are creating sensation on the ass cheek, you are sending signals through the pudendal nerve.  There are either 1,500 or 15,000 nerves that run between your ass to your genitals, I just don't recall if they are all part of the pudendal nerve group or if there are sacral groups in there too.  Some of these nerve groups you have probably heard of like the Perineal branch of the pudendal nerve.  Is there a doctor in the house that recalls this information and clarify this? 

Here is that obligatory medical dissection photo you mention.  

Male – basic pudendal nerve graphic
Male – detailed pudendal nerve graphic
Another pudendal nerve graphic
Plan of sacral and pudendal plexuses

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