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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/26/2008 10:30:56 PM

hardbodysub

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ResidentSadist, you're right about one thing: I needed to read your response to me again, slowly, and see that your complaint about the "irresponsible" comment was directed at KnightofMists's post, not mine. My bad.

Otherwise, you're all wet.

I'm not going to ramble on in response to your rambling on. I'll just comment on one issue: you argue that you know what a conclusion is, in the language of logic, but clearly, you don't. Your statements that “I have found spanking is pretty much universally sexually arousing” and “I can even spank most people into orgasmic bliss” are obviously conclusions based on inductive generalization. For crying out loud, it doesn't have to be a syllogism written in the form "if x, then y", for "y" to constitute a conclusion.

And the "/you just been spanked" comment? Just go on believing that, if it makes you feel better.

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/27/2008 12:59:16 AM

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Some people get turned on by being spanked. For some people it's a complete turn off.

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/27/2008 10:23:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Start spanking her in the “sweet spot” (where the ass cheek meets the thigh). Spank her with more follow through creating deeper and deeper impact and vibrating her guts. Spank the far cheek of her ass, cup your hand so the heel of it hits her pussy (which should start splashing by now). Reach up and [snip]...stick your fingers in her mouth or ass. Spank her with steady slow strokes that move her body with each stroke . . . then tell her how much it would please you if she cums for you . . . (or tell her if she has to cum or die [snip]) and you should end up soaked from her gushing orgasm that splashes all over as you spank her.

Did anybody say anything after that? I heard, far off in the distance, something about Merc and a grant... *scampers off to dig in the couch cushions for coins to help fund the study*

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/27/2008 7:35:12 PM

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Girl does not need an explanation as to why girl gets aroused being spanked. Hell, girl gets aroused from experiencing pain of any kind, and if the after effects are lasting, girl will remain wet with arousal.

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/27/2008 9:12:38 PM

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i'm actually quite happy you posted this topic -- although the descriptions did make it most difficult to read; somehow the eyes got foggy

i had wondered for a while if there's some sort of nerve involved somehow because how the impact travels if someone has a clue on how to hit 'the spot' not that i know what 'the spot' is... i just know very very well where its NOT

so yeah my daft little theory turns out to be not so daft.... cool :D

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

quote:

ORIGINAL: nhite
if someone was so inclined, how would they find the nerve on a body please? (without doing the dissection that was so nicely pictured)

The pudendal nerve actually has many branches, I just don’t recall how many. I do recall my general impression which was that if you are creating sensation on the ass cheek, you are sending signals through the pudendal nerve. There are either 1,500 or 15,000 nerves that run between your ass to your genitals, I just don't recall if they are all part of the pudendal nerve group or if there are sacral groups in there too. Some of these nerve groups you have probably heard of like the Perineal branch of the pudendal nerve. Is there a doctor in the house that recalls this information and clarify this?

Here is that obligatory medical dissection photo you mention.

Male – basic pudendal nerve graphic
Male – detailed pudendal nerve graphic
Another pudendal nerve graphic
Plan of sacral and pudendal plexuses

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/28/2008 12:17:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DogGoneBad

Some people get turned on by being spanked. For some people it's a complete turn off.

Quite. For me it is a big turn off and I can honestly say I have never been aroused by a spanking. So not sure how I fit into the "universally arousing" bit.

Different things have different effects on people.

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/28/2008 6:46:42 AM

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Hello,

Hmmm !!!! This is an interesting topic although i do have a question if i may ask ?

Does the Dominant experience the same pleasure & arousal as the one being spanked ?

Thank You

Respectfully,
girl

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/28/2008 7:18:16 AM

Lordandmaster

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Yes, but not THE SAME pleasure, of course--you might say COMPLEMENTARY pleasure.

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ORIGINAL: bratb

Does the Dominant experience the same pleasure & arousal as the one being spanked ?

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/28/2008 7:21:37 AM

Icarys

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

quote:

The pudendal nerve is a nerve in the pelvic region that innervates the external genitalia of both sexes and spanking someone’s ass can lead to good sexy fun.
There must be a similar nerve connection from my hand to my genitalia because it has a similar result for me as a spanker.

For the benefit of science I'd be willing to offer myself be the subject of a long term study and commit to spanking asses for as long as it took.

That's truly admirable.

On topic:
I also get aroused with spanking or any other time I'm causing pain to a female for enjoyment. It doesn't always lead to sex though.

< Message edited by Icarys -- 11/28/2008 7:25:38 AM >

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/28/2008 7:51:27 AM

bratb

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Lordandmaster,

Thank You for the reply , it's nice that You have a sense of humor lol.

Respectfully,
girl

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/28/2008 7:55:24 AM

bratb

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Good morning Icarys,

i agree that it doesn't always lead to sex but is a treat if it does hee hee hee !

May i ask if You find the same arousal when giving a spanking for punishment ?

Thank You.

Respectfully,
girl

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/28/2008 8:19:39 AM

Icarys

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bratb

Good morning Icarys,

i agree that it doesn't always lead to sex but is a treat if it does hee hee hee !

May i ask if You find the same arousal when giving a spanking for punishment ?

Thank You.

Respectfully,
girl

Good Morning, bratb.
(this of course is in the actual punishment department and not play)
I do get aroused but it never goes to sex. I get excited about giving the pain, period but not so much for what I'm having to give it for.

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/28/2008 8:55:38 AM

bratb

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Icarys,

Thank You , i do understand .

In all honesty spankings do sexually arouse me however not when they are giving for punishment and i cannot sit down for awhile .

Respectfully,
girl

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 11/28/2008 9:07:21 AM

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If I'm going to receive a spanking, first thing I get is a towel folded over wherever it is he's administering said spanking. Bed, his lap, our bench, the table, over the back of the sofa... Anytime his bare hand is on my bare butt is a turn on. If it's for punishment, when he's done, he gives my face a few slaps and fucks my throat and won't allow me to masturbate. He leaves me in a state of arousal that's worse than a singletail on the puss.

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 12/29/2008 6:19:33 PM

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not just yes but HELLLLLLLLLLLLL YESSSSSS!

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 12/29/2008 6:25:56 PM

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i am not a pain slut at all... i dislike stingy pain especially, preferring thuddy.

But.... try this: The Master/Dom sits in a chair. The sub/slave faces away from Him sitting on His lap then leans forward until her head and arms are on the floor... This means she is face down over His lap but not side to side... her legs are around His hips or splayed out to the side. Then, He starts slapping, all over... as if He were playing bongo drums almost. Something about that position vibrates the pelvic floor in such a way that most girls will be able to orgasm from it. i have never watched it done, only been the one who was spanked in this way so i can't say exactly what technique He uses. Just that the slaps range from upper thighs to ass cheeks and don't really seem to sting.

Heavenly!

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 12/29/2008 8:00:27 PM

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Hell yes it does!

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 1/3/2009 9:37:12 AM

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Yes...a spanking arouses me sexually...a lot!!!

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 1/3/2009 10:34:37 AM

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bringing this thread back up after a month, makes me think there are some girls who need a good spanking, myself included. it has been almost 3 weeks, but who's counting.

may we all find our bliss.

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RE: -=Does spanking lead to sexual arousal?=- - 1/3/2009 11:02:29 AM

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I dont overanalyze it but I unabashedly LUV to spank. To me, its not about turning a subbie bottom an angry red or bruising it. Its about that lovely little rythym in my head and the lovely pink bottom across my lap, switching implements and running my hand across the warmth.

Just so happens that spanking is a good precursor for anal play but its also a very nice interlude in itself.. ;)

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