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windchymes -> RE: Old Dom resurfaces... (11/28/2008 7:05:43 AM)

I thought about this thread in the car yesterday (which seriously tells me I need a hobby, but anyway...) and it occurs to me that you want all these things like stability, but what you want is for everyone else to GIVE it to you. 

What you need to do is put on the Big Girl Panties and make a damn decision for YOURSELF.  If you don't want contact with him, stop having it!  If you don't want to feel one inch tall around him, stay away from him and stop feeling like that!  If you haven't slammed the door, slam it!  It's time!




Passion357 -> RE: Old Dom resurfaces... (11/29/2008 11:25:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rover

GoodFeathers, as I read this thread from start to finish I observe that you're a very agreeable person.  So much so that you agree with everyone who posts, no matter what they say.  You even go so far as to agree with your ex. 
 
You need to learn how to say "no", mean it (to yourself first), and live with it.  Period.  End of sentence.
 
John
 
P.S. - Please don't post that you agree with me... just do it.


He's right.




Aswad -> RE: Old Dom resurfaces... (12/5/2008 7:03:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Why do you allow him to control you?


Why do we care, now that it's obvious she's made her choice to leave her reins flapping in the wind?

Hopefully, the new guy will grab hold of them and do some good by her.

Seems unlikely she'll grab them herself.

Health,
al-Aswad.




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