AlexandraLynch
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Joined: 3/24/2008 Status: offline
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I'm new enough that I haven't felt my way round all the fetishes yet to check on some of them. I do, however, feel a big responsibility as a dominant about safety and sanity. I don't intend to do anything to a bottom that can't be fixed easily, if it must be fixed at all. So I'll bruise him and scratch him and cut him, if he's into that, but I won't cut anything off. I also don't do breathplay, because that can go very permanently wrong very fast, and that is something I don't like. I won't do any type of specialty play until I am comfortable with it. Have I seen a fireplay demo with flash cotton? Yes. Am I comfortable enough to do that to a bottom yet? No. And I decide when I am, I'm not going to push my comfort levels just so that a pushy bottom can get his fetish on. If he wants me to do it, he can wait for me to get where I think I'm good enough to do it to a human being, and confident in my ability to deal with it if it goes wrong.
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