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sobayblackmaster -> RE: on command (12/2/2008 9:04:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl i havent read the whole thread.. possibly because its been discussed before. but.. here is my world on cumming on command. i do it, have for years and years. the whole flushing, panting, moaning, drenched between my legs, ect. i dont need to be touched, or worked up. it can happen when i am happy, sad, mad, yelling and screaming.. doesnt matter. if it has been long enough between orgasms, i will even squirt. i have had men command me to cum in my sleep, and i wake up to a full blown orgasm and im ready to get busy. this connection was established initially over the phone.. to both our surprises... then its translated to on line.. wow.. a shock that a typed word could get a response. when i flew to california to meet him, it was my first test. he barked the command into my ear as we were getting into his car. he was well pleased with the response. since then, this man and i have parted ways, and it seems i am highly sexual. others have been able to produce the same results. no, i dont require stimulation. but there does have to be a trust on some level. ahem! that's a pretty hot response-I like highly sexual females. as to the trust aspect, shhhh,... don't tell anyone but I 100% agree. I couldn't go there with a woman I couldn't trust either. not that I haven't tried a "for sport" session, but the level of intensity just wasn't there.

tazzygirl -> RE: on command (12/2/2008 9:06:31 PM)
lol.. sorry.. just edited that post ~winks~

sobayblackmaster -> RE: on command (12/2/2008 10:28:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl lol.. sorry.. just edited that post ~winks~ not to worry at all. I made the mistake of checking out the "related threads" and I see that the topic's come up several times previously. fartz! nothing's original anymore. lol

NoFury -> RE: on command (12/2/2008 10:36:10 PM)
I will believe it when I witness a man "cum on command." Until then, it's a parlor trick as far as I'm concerned.

sobayblackmaster -> RE: on command (12/2/2008 10:41:37 PM)
I hear ya. It's kinda not worth debating anyway. if you feel good however you get there, nothing else matters!

NoFury -> RE: on command (12/2/2008 10:43:27 PM)
sobayblackmaster, Have you noticed that our pics are like total mirror images of each other? Hilarious!

sobayblackmaster -> RE: on command (12/2/2008 10:58:41 PM)
kindred indeed. lol

tazzygirl -> RE: on command (12/3/2008 5:57:33 AM)
havent found a man that responsive to your commands yet? i like palor tricks, and kitchen ones, bedroom, living room, bathroom, movie theater, restaurant, park... heck.. i can cum anywhere.. god.. i love being me!

vanessa73 -> RE: on command (12/4/2008 7:26:41 PM)
Interesting subject, i can cum on command, but only during stimulation or right after, or after being denied orgasm several times. i can't imagine what it would be like to be able to without any stimulation, how amazing that would be. In the beginning of my training, i had to have a special mental connection with my Master, that type of connection is no longer necessary as long as there is physical stimulation. Now to cum at any time that would be excellent, but i think i'll probably learn to pull a rabbit out of a hat before that happens!

faithfulfemme -> RE: on command (12/4/2008 7:34:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit I always cum on command! But I guess it doesn't count when you are playing with yourself. [sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif][sm=LMAO.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=dancing.gif]

sobayblackmaster -> RE: on command (12/4/2008 7:37:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: vanessa73 Interesting subject, i can cum on command, but only during stimulation or right after, or after being denied orgasm several times. i can't imagine what it would be like to be able to without any stimulation, how amazing that would be. In the beginning of my training, i had to have a special mental connection with my Master, that type of connection is no longer necessary as long as there is physical stimulation. Now to cum at any time that would be excellent, but i think i'll probably learn to pull a rabbit out of a hat before that happens! interesting scenario. tell us more.

vanessa73 -> RE: on command (12/4/2008 7:55:11 PM)
about pulling a rabbit out of a hat? haven't learned that one yet. lol. As far as cumming on command i may be in the baby stages of it, but i think it would be fairly easy for anyone to learn or teach. i think any girl could probably even teach herself. In the beginning he would keep his finger in my ass to "time" muscle spasms. There's also no way for your girl to fake it that way. Are you wanting to learn how to train your girl or just interested if it's possible?

sobayblackmaster -> RE: on command (12/4/2008 8:53:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: vanessa73 about pulling a rabbit out of a hat? haven't learned that one yet. lol. As far as cumming on command i may be in the baby stages of it, but i think it would be fairly easy for anyone to learn or teach. i think any girl could probably even teach herself. In the beginning he would keep his finger in my ass to "time" muscle spasms. There's also no way for your girl to fake it that way. Are you wanting to learn how to train your girl or just interested if it's possible? truthfully what I think got me hot about my past experience was not that I "commanded" her to cum but that we connected and as you infer, I was able to get to a level where I was more sensitive to her subtle nuances and the chemistry did the rest. I think it's more about connecting than controlling, per se. there's obviously assertion/aggression on the part of the dom but it's more than that. after all reaching orgasm for many women is no a forgone conclusion, being comfortable with the person touching you weighs pretty heavily. I believe you ladies have to give yourselves permission to go to that level-we guys? ahem! that's another matter. lol training? now that's another topic altogether. how would one train you to cum?

vanessa73 -> RE: on command (12/5/2008 11:25:10 AM)
Well, i think it would be fairly easy to train any woman. at least it was with me. i'm currently trying to show my new Master how to train his wife to do this. (the way i was trained) i had never realized how fun it could be to teach :) It's easier being on top and of course always asking to cum. Not being allowed, which is so difficult if peaking. He would stop me from moving until the urge was going away(if i was disobedient and did cum he would stop completely and bend me over his knee) but if i was able to hold off then he would start again slowly. After being denied several times, and succeeding he would pull me down really hard and tell me to. that's how it started. It takes pretty awesome self control, i still can't understand how the mention of a word could do it with no stimulation. i'm also wondering what technique could be used to teach a man this. I'm not a switch at all, but seems like it would be fun to learn. Do you have any input on that? i think it would still be possble to be sub and achieve this, if Master is openminded about it. Do you have any suggestions on how a sub could approach the subject? It's crazy but i feel a little selfish, it seems like the sub gets so much more sexually, i know it's pleasing to him, but i would think it would be even more pleasing if he could have more quantity(and quality) in his orgasms as well. aaah the delimma. lol.

sobayblackmaster -> RE: on command (12/7/2008 11:14:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: vanessa73 Well, i think it would be fairly easy to train any woman. at least it was with me. i'm currently trying to show my new Master how to train his wife to do this. (the way i was trained) i had never realized how fun it could be to teach :) It's easier being on top and of course always asking to cum. Not being allowed, which is so difficult if peaking. He would stop me from moving until the urge was going away(if i was disobedient and did cum he would stop completely and bend me over his knee) but if i was able to hold off then he would start again slowly. After being denied several times, and succeeding he would pull me down really hard and tell me to. that's how it started. It takes pretty awesome self control, i still can't understand how the mention of a word could do it with no stimulation. i'm also wondering what technique could be used to teach a man this. I'm not a switch at all, but seems like it would be fun to learn. Do you have any input on that? i think it would still be possble to be sub and achieve this, if Master is openminded about it. Do you have any suggestions on how a sub could approach the subject? It's crazy but i feel a little selfish, it seems like the sub gets so much more sexually, i know it's pleasing to him, but i would think it would be even more pleasing if he could have more quantity(and quality) in his orgasms as well. aaah the delimma. lol. first of all offer him your pussy and your clit-stand before him and shamelessly spread your legs and hold your lips apart. establish that your cum is a gift to him from your body, from your psyche; then let him know that thoughts your sessions of teasing and denial have begun to consume you. tell him once you feel his teasing touch and know that your release is near you care not how long he makes you wait, or how you have to beg. swear to him that you will fuck whatever he does to your pussy-hard and wantonly. you will hold back your explosion with all of your might-until he gives you permission, in the form of a stern command: cum now bitch! finally remind him how excited he'll get knowing the power he has over your orgasms and how eager you are to surrender to his will.

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