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RE: when you know its right - 12/26/2005 3:44:13 AM

MasterLark

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Congratulations. If you care to share any indicators of how you know, that would be of interest. Otherwise, enjoy.

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RE: when you know its right - 12/26/2005 4:06:38 AM

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Well i am far from new myself ive been in two other long term Master/slave relationships , one spanning over 13 years the other a year and a half. Relationships fail, i am very aware of this, but it wasn't the reason for the post. This relationship is more than Master/slave. It is a relationship that includes family, and loved ones. It is a friendship, ownership, and filled with love. I know its a keeper , because i feel it. If Master ever doesn't want it any more it will certainly be a huge loss in my heart. I was posting this mostly because ive seen others ask " how do you know he is the right one for me?" It basically was a answer in some ways. You just know, simple as that. From your deepest core of your being you feel a intense ache to serve him, and want him to take charge , and simply love you for who and what you are, because you love him .
I hope this clarifies things.

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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

i see a good deal of sense LA,in this ecspecially when one is still new. i may change owners several times along my journey into finding what exactly it is that is right for me. right now where i am at works and i am committed to Master(maybe i'm more committed to training ,to learn how to serve, who knows) maybe i will seek new challenges to learn.there is so much about myself i have yet to discover.shudders at thought of having to beg release one day.Master has been around the block(and can teach me alot) but one never does know whats ahead.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I think there's a large distinction between "knowing" something is right and "feeling" something is right.

There's also a differerence between knowing something is right "for now" and knowing it's right "forever."

We have such a need to make things permanent, to feel it's a failure if it ends before death. I see relationships as very different- I see them as organic creations between at least two people at a time. And as an organic thing, it grows, it matures, it changes, and sometimes ends naturally.

THat's not meant to be cynical or defeatist, in fact I find a deep sense of joy from it.

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RE: when you know its right - 12/26/2005 4:14:12 AM

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Hello Master Lark and thankyou,
Indicators for me are simple, He connects on all levels with me. From simple things like checking to make sure my ears are covered in the cold ( adjusting my scarf) , to volunteering to bring my daughter to practice three days on his vacation, to taking time to remind me of things i need to get done, And most of all the look in his eyes when his eyes connect with mine. He is thoughtful , intelligent, caring, and very loving. These enhance and help the Master/slave part of us. We are humans first , Father, and mother, then we are Master/slave. We can't be the latter first or it will fail.

jennifer

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Congratulations. If you care to share any indicators of how you know, that would be of interest. Otherwise, enjoy.

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RE: when you know its right - 12/26/2005 4:26:59 AM

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Congrats and thank you for sharing your happiness with us. It gives me hope that I to will some day find the one I am ment to serve.

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RE: when you know its right - 12/30/2005 3:24:43 AM

MasterLark

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Ah, so. It is the soft subtlities that give shape to knowing love. Well said.

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Hello Master Lark and thankyou,
Indicators for me are simple, He connects on all levels with me. From simple things like checking to make sure my ears are covered in the cold ( adjusting my scarf) , to volunteering to bring my daughter to practice three days on his vacation, to taking time to remind me of things i need to get done, And most of all the look in his eyes when his eyes connect with mine. He is thoughtful , intelligent, caring, and very loving. These enhance and help the Master/slave part of us. We are humans first , Father, and mother, then we are Master/slave. We can't be the latter first or it will fail.

jennifer

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ORIGINAL: MasterLark

Congratulations. If you care to share any indicators of how you know, that would be of interest. Otherwise, enjoy.

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RE: when you know its right - 12/30/2005 3:37:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

thanks and merry xmas.
I'm trying to figure out how to get a pix of me in collar on here instead of my avatar.

Hello There,
If you have a profile photo you can go into the settings here and select to use your profile photo instead of the avitar.
Good luck

And for you sweetpetjenny,
Congratulations, I wish you peace, health, and to be happy in your new relationship. As you begin the journey of really getting to know one another I wish you great joy on your journey.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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