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pompeii -> RE: What to do if your in the Bible Belt (11/29/2008 10:44:42 AM)
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Your issue is probably your location, not the fact that it's in the Bible Belt
While his location might be the problem, I tend to think it's really more the fact he's a guy. That's it. He's a guy, looking for a submissive female. Join the hordes. It won't matter whether he's in NYC or in the middle of nowhere (which is, apparently where he really is). He's still a guy. A guy looking for a submissive woman. The fact that he found out most people he contacted "don't respond that often" is what happens to guys. No matter where they live. Hell, I'm near San Francisco, the self-professed haven for BDSM and the genesis of the munch, and I find that most people I contact "don't respond that often". It's what it is. Join the club (of guys, that is).
Now, if you're a guy (and you are), then your job is to go and find a female. You already figured out you're not gonna' get that perfect sub chick by sending out sporadic emails to the Collarme crowd. Likewise, this post, in and of itself, isn't gonna' get you your legions of subs clamoring to get in line to knock on your door, so, um ... what do y' do to get a gal?
Same thing all the rest of us guys do. You look here. You look there. You look damn near everywhere. Somewhere, somehow, in some God-forsaken place maybe even, there's a gal for you. That perfect sub slut or the demure librarian just hankering for a guy to slap her tits around, she's there. She's somewhere. You must always keep that in mind because the minute you give up, you lose. She isn't gonna just stop by and knock on your door. You need to be persistent. You may need to be inventive (starting this thread was a good beginning). You need to be everywhere you can be. You might even turn into a spammer. Hell, it works. It's not for me (I write too much) but it's for most guys. They spam spam spam. They go to events left and right. They lurk. They follow. They leer. They lech (had to throw that one in). If nothing else, they're damn persistent.
Come to think of it, finding a good faithful subbie isn't so different than finding a regular faithful gal in the real world, is it. There is a woman just for you in wherever the hell it is you are from ... but she isn't gonna just jump in your arms 'cuz you emailed her. Good luck to you, to me, and to all us guys!
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