Lockit -> RE: What to do if your in the Bible Belt (11/30/2008 1:21:01 PM)
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The last time I checked SD had under 800,000 people state wide. I have been to concerts with more people than that! It may be difficult to find partners simply because of the numbers. This has already been said, as well as the following. Kinky, sexual and naughty people are everywhere and some fill those church benches. What is harder to find in my opinion is people who are honest about themselves and how they live. Hide the naughty, hide the bad... never let anyone see it because of some social standing where others who hide maybe something different, will judge you and make life difficult. Everyone has naughty in them... whether it be what they do in bed... what bed they are in... how they communicate or treat others or how much they eat. Personally when I decided on where to live, I researched and made sure I wasn't going to an area like SD that wasn't big enough to have a large choice in partners for me. You want it all, then go out and get it all, but you can't change those hidding naughty people or have much selection in a place where there are fewer naughty people. You don't have to be a pioneer to seek out new territory or set out to make a dream come true and you don't have to sit holding your family or their roots within your hand. There is a big bad world out there and no reason to be unhappy. Don't sit in frustration and not fully live, because at the end of your life, you don't want to be sorry your days have ended... you want to say... what a friggin blast I had while I lived... I am happy, I REALLY lived! If you can't create it or find it... move on if it means that much to you. But LIVE!
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