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moonvine -> Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:02:20 AM)
you actually really mean it when you say it, even though thinking about it later you realize it couldn't possibly have been true? Yes, I'm bored today. Waiting for football time.

Lynnxz -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:04:13 AM)
If I think the cat is upstairs, and I tell C the cat is upstairs only to find out that the cat is actually outside... I didn't lie to him. shrug You can't help if things change.

stormgirl -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:05:24 AM)
No If it was half my papers would be lies!

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:07:26 AM)
It's not a lie; it's an error. It's okay to be wrong as long as you admit you made a mistake. A lie is a deliberate deception and never okay.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:09:40 AM)
Nope. I do not think it's a lie if you say something believing it's true, and then find out you were wrong.

moonvine -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:12:34 AM)
So, if I say "Yes, I can play with you (generic) without getting emotionally involved" and then find out wow, I am really, really emotionally involved, that's an error?

GreedyTop -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:13:36 AM)
EDIT: honey... as long as you're honest about the change in your feelings.. it's not a lie. (and prep yourself for the fallout, if any..BIGGEST HUGS)

SimplyMichael -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:18:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: moonvine So, if I say "Yes, I can play with you (generic) without getting emotionally involved" and then find out wow, I am really, really emotionally involved, that's an error? Moon, it isn't a lie if you actually believe it in your core when you say it but most know they are lying when they say that. I haven't had anyone lie to me in that way but I have had them make that mistake. It is why I am so reticent about allowing casual relationships.

moonvine -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:46:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop EDIT: honey... as long as you're honest about the change in your feelings.. it's not a lie. (and prep yourself for the fallout, if any..BIGGEST HUGS) The fallout has been horrific. However I do feel this is my fault. So now what I need to do is put on my big girl panties and assess what I did wrong so that it doesn't happen again. Probably this shouldn't have gone in PORS.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:53:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: moonvine quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop EDIT: honey... as long as you're honest about the change in your feelings.. it's not a lie. (and prep yourself for the fallout, if any..BIGGEST HUGS) The fallout has been horrific. However I do feel this is my fault. So now what I need to do is put on my big girl panties and assess what I did wrong so that it doesn't happen again. Probably this shouldn't have gone in PORS. BIG HUGS - I'll bring the icecream and chocolate and sit with you in the fallout shelter until it is safe to come out, if you want?

chamberqueen -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 11:56:50 AM)
Sometimes our heart gets more involved than we ever expect it to. We didn't set out to have that happen, and it is not necessarily something that needs to be guarded against. If things like jealousy came out of it then you can guard against that, but simply caring for someone more than you expected you would is not wrong and not something that you want to make sure never happens again. I'm sorry you had bad fallout from it.

GreedyTop -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 12:03:01 PM)
big hugs honey...if you need an ear, I'm here

moonvine -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 12:07:31 PM)
Yes please! I just defrosted the freezer so we've plenty of room for ice cream. On the other hand I am also sick so wear your biohazard mask too!

BKSir -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 12:09:32 PM)
Have to agree. Not a lie, just an error or a 'whoops'. They happen, no matter how much we don't want them to HUG

Raechard -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 12:10:27 PM)
If you tell a lie in the forest and no one is around to hear you will the tree still fall over?[8\|]

moonvine -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 12:11:23 PM)
I don't know, I don't go into the forest alone....

Raechard -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 12:13:41 PM)
Not many forests left sadly I blame nursery rhymes for giving them a bad reputation. and or fairy tales even, since I don’t know many nursery rhymes about forests...

lunadancer -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 12:25:28 PM)
but the forest is your friend... so full of lovely, dark corners and spots [:)]

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 12:46:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: moonvine Yes please! I just defrosted the freezer so we've plenty of room for ice cream. On the other hand I am also sick so wear your biohazard mask too! alright, 1 gallon of ice cream, two spoons - and what's a few sniffles between friends? WinD

NormalOutside -> RE: Is something a lie if... (11/29/2008 12:49:01 PM)
I'd go with no.

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