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RE: Concerns about virginity - 12/2/2008 6:14:07 PM

RainydayNE

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I was far more impressed with sex than I thought I would be

i can definitely relate to that :) haha

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Sex, for me, is about emotionality in addition to bunches of other good stuff. :>
Davan

and i agree with this, too
i didnt have my first consensual experience until i was like... 22? and the guy was someone i was madly in love with =p so i didn't and still don't regret it even though he ended up being less than glorious in the long run =p haha

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RE: Concerns about virginity - 12/2/2008 6:17:00 PM

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I was raised in a strict Irish Catholic family, and virginty was a girls gift.
I'm not so sure I really agreed, but I did hang on to the ole hymen till I was twenty-two and tired of the "prude" jokes.
It was more of a sigh of relief than fun or pleasurable.....I haven't done it since.

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RE: Concerns about virginity - 12/2/2008 6:29:40 PM

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Currently, I'm having discussions with some one about virginity and sex in general. (She's 28, believe it or not.) She looks at it as something to cope with.

As a woman, how did you deal with your virginity, how did you feel about it? After you lost it, how did you feel about THAT?

Scott

well i know for me in comparison to probably most i put a high priority on keeping my verginity as long as possible but the best thing for me is that my Master accepts me for who i am and the conditions of how i lost it and that i have been completely honest of all past experiences and i do also know that the goddess has blessed me with a clean streak of never gettign an std expecially through all the expeirences i have been through including many "doms" that didnt handle me as theres appropratly.

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RE: Concerns about virginity - 12/2/2008 6:46:19 PM

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I was far more impressed with sex than I thought I would be

i can definitely relate to that :) haha

Ditto...

Can you say oral fixation?

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RE: Concerns about virginity - 12/2/2008 6:48:37 PM

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that is an interesting one. I think that as you get older and still have your virginity, you start to get really protective of it. I would say if she wants to stay one, she should...but if she wants to screw..go for it! I was very young when I decided it would be fun to get rid of mine...should have waited! I think that after it was all said and done, I wish I would have waited for "the one" to be my one and only one...but you know, life happens. Just because you have sex, you don't become less of a person..just like when you have your first date, you don't become something different either.

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RE: Concerns about virginity - 12/2/2008 7:05:07 PM

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I had sex with a girl for the first time (as an adult...I don't count my younger experiences) it was a big deal to me as a step in our relationship. I wanted my first time to be with someone I loved. The first time I had sex with a man, he was super sweet, waitied until he was sure we could spend the wole next day together. It was as much about love for him as it was for me, and while we didn't wait till our wedding night, we did ultimately get married. Sappy, I know.

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