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SleightofHand -> Strong Sub (12/2/2008 11:26:30 AM)
Looked around, perused and sought other's opinions. Read books and articles. And I feel a little out of step. I have an aura from the depths of my being to be submissive. Although, I am burdened with conflict as I am generally strong, assertive and know what I want. I have strong dislikes, likes and opinions. But, at the same time feel I must let these traits and feelings give way to the hand of a deserving other. I feel letting my strong will go, letting it be absorbed and overruled by another creates an overarching energy that raises both my hand and the hand of another to amazing heights in a journey shared together. However, it seems this is out of step with other subs. Thus I feel out of step. Is it possible to be a strong sub? Although, I feel submissive, do these strong traits suggest my feelings deceive me? Mistress' how do you feel about such subs? S

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 11:27:53 AM)
Hmm. It seems to me that we have covered this turf before... Short answer---yes, most of us like strong men with brains.

OttersSwim -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 11:32:27 AM)
Why do you feel you are out of step? There is nothing wrong with submitting from a position of strength, in fact I believe that one way of creating a D/s dynamic (not every way, mind you...just one). When a submissive, male or female, is strong and secure within themselves - powerful in their own right - and chooses to engage in power exchange and give that power over to another, it can be a pretty wonderful thing. You don't have to be a wimp to be a male submissive. [;)]

thetammyjo -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 11:35:39 AM)
I've never understand the attraction of a weak person submitting to me... what do I gain when they do? Being strong in mind and will, being strong in self-motivation, can work great in a Ds dynamic if you find a good match and you both take the time for solid training.

sleuthingsub -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 11:37:28 AM)
Dude, you're fine. You can be a confident and strong person, and still be personally submissive. Don't be so dramatic.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 11:53:58 AM)
Oh, garçon... I'll take a strong sub with a side of personality, please. Oh, and can I get some honesty and intelligence with that? Thanks.

MistresseLotus -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 12:30:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SleightofHand Is it possible to be a strong sub? Although, I feel submissive, do these strong traits suggest my feelings deceive me? Mistress' how do you feel about such subs? S I've always appreciated that my submissive has been strong in his gentelness and gentle in his strength.

Dilseachd -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 1:19:53 PM)
My last Mistress used to say "its better to have a tiger on a leash..than a tabby cat"...so yea..its good to be a strong submissive. Regards.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 1:22:55 PM)
I love a man in a kilt... Just sayin', I am hijacking randomly today.[8D] Honestly, OP, have you seen any lady on these boards wish for a limp little milquetoast? Why would you think any of us would NOT want someone strong?

Dilseachd -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 2:55:22 PM)
re-enacts taunting..um..flirting..scene from Braveheart FLASH.. :) Seriously though. In all my years in this lifestyle...I have found few female dominants that prefered doormats to someone with some spunk. Whats better...a Knight..or a serf? both serve a higher cause...but not the same by a long shot.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 3:02:58 PM)
My former slaves SN was HerCenturion. MAN do I miss that. (Not HIM, just having a centurion!)

Dilseachd -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 3:51:13 PM)
My second Lady gave me the current name I use in the lifestyle..but she called me her Chevalier. Yea..I can sympathize with you. ..and no..Im not trolling...your way up there and I am way down here.. :) Respects and Regards.

SleightofHand -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 3:56:06 PM)
Thanks for everyones feedback. Good, shows what I know, I guess I am not a step off after all, and instead now I have a bounce in my submissive step.

MsStarlett -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 3:56:31 PM)
I always wanted that bumper sticker "My sub can beat up your dom."

AlexandraLynch -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 4:28:33 PM)
Absolutely I want a strong sub, male or female. Submission as a gift is much more valuable when it comes from a person who can stand alone, but chooses to give their submission to me. I value the horse I ride for his strength, his grace, his agility, his stamina.

chaos9071 -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 4:34:54 PM)
I guess I am what you would consider a strong sub.

DominaSusan -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 4:35:30 PM)
You are just like my slave and it’s wonderful to tame a strong man. Where’s the fun in caging a pussy cat anyway. Seems though that you might want to connect on the sub pages-you’ll find lots of folks just like yourself. I love a man in a kilt too! there is something sexy about having ready access to the naughty bits. Oh I want the same bumper sticker as Ms Starlett and I have a mighty big sub. How about my sub is an honor roll student at SpankU.

Lockit -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 4:39:37 PM)
LOL I love the bumper stickers! We may need a thread of ideas on them!

chaos9071 -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 4:41:08 PM)
Do you need another kilt wearing sub? Because that sounds really hot.

LPslittleclip -> RE: Strong Sub (12/2/2008 7:15:40 PM)
as a submissive in the army and a nurse it is a great relief to be able to submit to another. to be able to go from being in control and responsibility and the worry to releasing it all and simply enjoying how i make my M'Lady feel. she enjoys the fact i have a personality and opinions, respectfully stated of course. enjoy the gift of submission that you can give.

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