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Geoffozi -> Set of rules... (12/3/2008 12:08:51 PM)
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I have been trying to put down my list of rules and I am curious as to what other people like. By that I mean are my expectations realistic or no...if you could please take a look at what I have written down and give me your opinion...it would be greatly appreciated.
External Interaction
- Relationship
- Communication
- Submissive may address the Dominant by name in the presence of company where "Master" or "Sir" is not appropriate (ie. Parents, Bosses)
- Conflict Resolution
- Vanilla issues will be resolved without influence of the D/s relationship
- All other issues will be resolved at the discretion of the dominant
- If appropriate, the dominant may choose to punish the submissive immediately
- Personal Freedoms
Submissive may think as she wishes Submissive may choose company of friends Submissive may choose activities not involving the Dominant
Must first ask permission for each night to avoid conflict
Priority is given to the Dominant
- Sexual Interaction
- Submissive will adhere to all sexual requests regardless of location, occasion, schedule or company.
- Image
- Dress
- Clothing
- Will dress classy and sexy at all times unless told otherwise
- Jewelry
- A tight necklace will be worn at all times
- Jewelry appropriate to outfit will be worn as needed
- Personal Hygiene
- Hair and makeup must be tactful at all times
- Legs must be shaved even if not being exposed
- Body Modification
- Behavior
- Movement/Poise
- Submissive will consider the Dominant's needs before her own at all times
Includes, but is not limited to
Serving food/drinks Providing comfort of sitting or standing accommodations
- Speech
- Submissive will address the Dominant as "Master" (or "Sir", according to preference) according to who is around
- Public/Vanilla Interaction
- While out with friends
- Submissive will consider the Dominant's needs before her own at all times
Includes, but is not limited to
Serving food/drinks Providing comfort of sitting or standing accommodations
- While out to dinner
- As a couple
Submissive will not eat or drink until Dom gives permission Submissive will sit where Dom commands
- With others
Submissive will not eat or drink until Dom gives permission (by nod or other pre arranged signal) Submissive will sit where Dom commands (points or pulls out chair)
- Other activities
Internal Interaction
- Relationship
- Communication
- Submissive will address the Dominant as "Master" (or "Sir", according to preference) at all times
- Submissive will ask permission to speak or ask a question before continuing
- Conflict Resolution
Punishment
If disobeying a rule set by the Dominant
Spanking till ass is all red Whipping till ass is all red Tied up, blind folded, and left kneeling on the floor for an hr conversation If relating to a vanilla topic, it will be talked about and worked out like a regular relationship without influence of the D/s relationship
- Personal Freedoms
- Submissive can think what she wants
- Submissive is entitled to her own opinion, but the Dominant's opinion outweighs hers
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- Sexual Interaction
When, How, Where
Submissive is responsible for waking the Dominant at the prescribed time every morning by initiating oral sex. Who can initiate
Submissive may initiate sexual interaction without waiting for the Dominant to grant permission in specific situations
Restrictions (orgasm, masturbation, etc)
Submissive will ask permission before being allowed to climax Masturbation is prohibited, unless specifically requested by the Dominant Incorporating others
Shall be discussed on a case by case basis Physical Domination
- Safe words
- Safe word will be established in the beginning of the relationship
- Consent
- Hard Limits will be set at
- Children, Animals, Family, Feces (excrement), Drawing blood
- Limits requested by Submissive are also be taken into consideration
- Image
- Dress
- Clothing
- Panties are worn only at the request of the Dominant
- Dress is sexy but classy unless otherwise specified
- Jewelry
Collar is worn while in private Cuffs are worn at the Dominant's discretion Tight necklace at all times
- Personal Hygiene
Genitals must be shaved smooth at all times
Legs must be smooth and soft Must smell good Submissive will maintain a healthy weight and diet Body Modification
Dominant will grant permission regarding location and design
Behavior
- Movement/Poise
Submissive will sit, stand or sleep when and as requested by the Dom Submissive will stand chin up, shoulders back looking straight ahead Submissive will sit or kneel on the floor, palms up, legs parted, head bowed. If the submissive is allowed to sleep in the bed with her Dom, she will be cuffed, collared and blindfolded. Otherwise, the slave will sleep on provided cushion on the floor at the foot of the bed.
- Speech
- Submissive must call Dom by proper name before each sentence
- Submissive must not raise her voice
Responsibilities
- Daily Chores
- When walking in, if no other command is given check and do the following:
Check the kitchen
If dishes in the sink, wash them and put them in the dishwasher If dishwater is full and clean empty If the counters are dirty, then clean them Check bedroom
If bed is not made, then make it If clothes are on the floor
If dirty, put in hamper If clean, hang up or put in dresser Check bathroom
If towels are on the floor, fold and hang them up If sink and/or tub is dirty, clean it Look at the floor, if dust is collection use wet rag or swiffer to clean Check the furniture, floors, counters
If dusty and/or dirty, clean them
- Meals
- Times for meals will be establish and followed
- Extra time will be granted on a meal by meal basis
- The content of the meals will be discussed/determined ahead of time
- Preference going to the Dom
- Entertainment/Events
Internal Interaction rules override External rules unless otherwise specified Dominant Privileges
- Dominant maintains all privileges not specifically given to the submissive
- Dominant reserves the right to add new rules with the consent of the submissive
Submissive Privileges
- All activities will follow safe, sane and consensual guidelines
- Submissive may choose whether to consent to or participate in activities prohibited by federal, state, or local law
- Activities not agreed upon beforehand are subject to safe words and actions
- Submissive does not require permission to speak when using safe words during any activity in which she is not comfortable. Dominant may not punish or in any way retaliate for the submissive's use of safe words at any time.
- "Red" for stop immediately;
- "Yellow" when the tolerable threshold is reached (Dominant may continue current actions, but must not proceed any further)
- In situations where the submissive is unable to speak, safe actions will be used instead. It is the responsibility of the Dominant to watch for these actions.
- A waving, open hand signifies "red."
- A waving fist signifies "yellow."
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