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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/28/2005 10:37:54 AM

JohnWarren

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i know i found somewhere.......and cant find it right now dammit...there was 'a' site..that stated
to be a real sub/slave..these are the rules
to be a real dominant..these are the rules of d/s

Cites can say anything.

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/28/2005 10:40:59 AM

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What if I go set up a site right now with a list of rules for BDSM relationships. Will those become the new rules and the other site won't matter any more?

Akasha

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from what i have seen of You..i thought You already did THAT.
You have a shitload of ..what a male is . is not, supposed to do...
i thought You WERE an authority...? or so i thought i heard You claim...

Where did I claim to be an authority?

What I have on my site are suggestions. My site doesn't preach female supremacy. My how-to articles are written in a down to earth, humorous way.

There are no "rules" on my web site.

So where are these rules, and who gets to be the rulemaker? And why should anyone care or follow anyone else's rules?

Akasha

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/28/2005 1:24:14 PM

veronicaofML

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between YOU and SweetDommes..and SHE turned Pro..
the damned two of ya claim to be know it alls. i thought i'd start selling tickets to watch you 2 walk across this lake here come july...

YOU have had SO many many posts setting yourself as an authority on everything and YOU and SD have been riding my ass since i got here..........

i myself see NOTHING ... YOU ever wrote on your site as funny...maybe you got that dry british humor...
so far YOU and SD have always claimed to be all high and mighty....
according to YOU TWO there is nothing you dont know........
watch how YOU TWO post...and see if i am lying.

according to YOU TWO i aint goddamned human...

the both of ya sound like my 3 ex wives...i'm waiting for ya to come here and walk across this lake..

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/28/2005 1:28:56 PM

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Um, could we kind of get back on topic here? I was enjoying reading this thread (as a Domme seeking a service only sub, I'm interested in what subs have to say on the subject), until it turned into a rather personal quarrel which would (IMO) be better taken to private mail.

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/28/2005 2:03:39 PM

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which would (IMO) be better taken to private mail.

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yes'M

tried that route
she turned coward and blocked me coz she cant handle truth
but YOU are right.

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/28/2005 2:07:09 PM

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On a side note, is it just me, or is it harder to find a woman looking for a "service only submissive" than it is for a dominant to find a willing sub? Seems to me like 95% of the people on this site are only interested in the 'kinky sex' side of things, and not so much on the 'use a slave to do work I don't want to do' side of it.

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/28/2005 2:11:36 PM

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in MY eyes?

yes

but
there are NOT a lot of subs/slaves that will do any work.

all the boys Ms has brought here..pretty much just have their hand down their pants and ask do me...\
i have YET to find one other male like ME that does actual work...
you should see the messages She gets...all those sex fantasies....but not one says can i do anything...

good luck
take care

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/28/2005 4:47:17 PM

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Absolutely :( It's very depressing. As veronica says so aptly, most just have their hands down their pants. Others have specific fantasies they want fulfilled (spanking, doing housework naked, being sissified, sex toy), and it's truly about the fantasies and not much about submission. In fact, it's very hard to find the submission at all in many of those fantasies.

And even the ones that seem sincere in their desire to serve... and I had one, actually, that I'd been talking to, he wanted to come up and clean my house for me, no strings. He was ready to jump in his car and make the 2-hour drive. Then I asked for: his real name, his real email address, his home address and phone number (as a prerequisite to giving him my own such information). It's been... hmmmm.... a week and a half? Yep, you guessed it. Nary a word. He must have run for the hills!!!

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On a side note, is it just me, or is it harder to find a woman looking for a "service only submissive" than it is for a dominant to find a willing sub? Seems to me like 95% of the people on this site are only interested in the 'kinky sex' side of things, and not so much on the 'use a slave to do work I don't want to do' side of it.

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/28/2005 10:16:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

i know i found somewhere.......and cant find it right now dammit...there was 'a' site..that stated
to be a real sub/slave..these are the rules
to be a real dominant..these are the rules of d/s

i found it a long time ago...
it sets up a standard...so that if ya dont measure up..people know you are playing games.

just like my 1st Ms told me...
1st rule is She is always right
2nd rule is She never makes mistakes,...She is a Pro and has seen it all in 30 yrs...
3rd rule is slaves cannot change #1 and #2
4th rule is dont speak unless spoken to
5th rule is never ever be out of ear-shot...and never ever leave Her sight w/o asking
6th rule is...and this is the same here..at present..never ever leave the property w/o permission...i am not allowed to go anywhere w/o advance notice. and never w/o Her, except in extreme cases when She is not here.

one thing i was told...if any sub/slave cannot be there for hands on 24/7...they are not real d/s people. no one can help a domme online..you have to be there in person to serve...

these are just some of what "I" was taught.
i was broke in..by a Pro...right off the street.
just like...
sex is not allowed at any time.
slaves sleep on the floor...in a separate room.
slaves are not allowed ANY money.
there will be NO romantic notions. She has a hubby...the 1st had Her 1st boy there.

take care

Now I'm going to have to bust a few of those "Rules" as being nowhere near universal or correct.

1st rule is She is always right. considering that this rule conflicts with reality in any human's case I think it goes without saying that it's busted.
( My personal rule that coincides is I am not always right but I must be obeyed.)

2nd rule see reply for rule #1 conflicts with reality.

3-6 are personal rules an hardly universal.
#4 My slave may ask a questions of me at any time reguardless of if I have spoken to her or not, the only limitation is when I say enough then the questions stop for the time being and the actions must start.

Last thing I have serious conflict with is:
"you have to be there in person to serve..."
I make my basic argument to this idea based on a simple question rooted in the realities of slavery from biblical times and before.

If I own a slave and that slave is serving me at my home in Tuscany I however am living in Rome at that particular time are they any less a slave than if they serve me in my home in Rome?

Managing that slave is more difficult but they are no less owned.

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/29/2005 9:18:26 AM

veronicaofML

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i do understand Your view...

i merely stated what "I" have experienced...

and they were mainly from my 1st domme which was a 30 yr pro...
and they WERE Her rules.

Your "busted" idea is ok..but She honestly felt just the way i typed em. She said She never makes mistakes...and She is never wrong...
it was Her way or the highway....either ya did things as She wanted or you were a fake and didnt belong.
She had 30 yrs as a pro and said there is nothing you can say or do that She hasn't seen or heard before..

take care

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/29/2005 11:20:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: PSB2k4

On a side note, is it just me, or is it harder to find a woman looking for a "service only submissive" than it is for a dominant to find a willing sub? Seems to me like 95% of the people on this site are only interested in the 'kinky sex' side of things, and not so much on the 'use a slave to do work I don't want to do' side of it.

I've noticed that too.

I was also looking for a service only submissive, that I could train as my manservant and who would eventually be a live-in, but I was not offering that up front in my profile. In fact, I didn't say much in my profile-I've found over a number of years of using "internet personal ads" that nobody reads it anyways. Might as well be blank.

I sure heard from a lot of subs who just wanted kinky sex and/or scening. And most of them had already decided on the scene they wanted and told me how to do it.

I was fortunate, though. I also heard from two lovely boys willing to be trained as manservants.

Now comes the hard part. There can be only one.

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RE: Slave rules was RE: Service only submissives - 12/29/2005 10:16:09 PM

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Now comes the hard part. There can be only one.

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i but guess..whichever one has any experience..and if neither...
maybe a test of initiative?
see which one is more inclined to be a self starter?
i don't know..throwing out ideas out of the dark..
which one is closer? or..which one can actually relocate?

good luck to You

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