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hmm...a few things i have been thinking about for a long time. i hope to get others to think about these things too and maybe shed some lite on why it is not talked about anywhere that i have seen. yes, that's right folks my mind has been running again and i just can't get these two topics out of my mind. it ya get upset oh well...i'm good at upseting and surprising people. ready for this?
Welcome to the forums. To answer your 'thought' on the below topics - You just have to learn how to work the search function here. These topics have been discussed pretty often.
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my first and longest thought, perhaps even want (?) runs along the lines of a poly house but not really. that will make sense to you as you read this. how come it is okay for a Dom M or F to have multipul subs but a sub cannot have multipul Doms?
It's totally cool. Lots of people do it/have them. OK, it might be a minority but it's not an altogether strange concept.
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if a Dom needs many subs to care for them and keep them happy then why can't a sub serve as the single in a house of Doms?
I never see it as a 'I they can do it so should I be able to'. It's more a case of - this is what I want so I find people compatable.
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if it is what keeps the subbie happy then i say do it. and for those Doms and subs who disagree, i don't care but please post your thoughts.
We are all for everyone in a relationship getting the best from each other and everything else.
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also, is there anyone on this site that does do that? i'm not meaning those that rent or share their subbies with others. i mean a really multi-Dom house.
Yes there are.
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it is something that has been eating away at me. yes, it is something i would like to experiance, true i will be sexually worn out, physically exhausted and probly really confussed for a time but i think it might be a great challenge for even the most robotic brainwashed slaves... a challenge that i am very willing to under go and very ready to prove that this can work.
Sexually worn out only if that is the only kind of service you can offer. Service doesn't = submission - that is a big thing to realise. But even if it did, not all households or dominants require sexual service. Again, it is simply down to compatability. You want to be used sexually by multiple dominants, go for it! If you do end up in a state of 'confussion' then you need to evaluate whether you are communicating properly and clearly and whether the confusion is healthy or you. As long as our gaining good support and growing, it all rocks.
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i know this is odd coming from someone that is against multi-sub homes. i guess that is just because i am jealous and think i require a lot of attention. which i guess i do, or so i have been told.
Jealousy isn't necessarily a bad thing unless it has a negative impact on your growth and the growth of the relationship or anyone else. It's how you handle jealousy that matters.
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my other idea... are there maso Masters and sado slaves?
Yes there are. Hello.
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if so, which again i'm sure there is, why isn't this ever touched upon?
It is touched on quite often. I have plenty of experience of it, so maybe it is just the people you know and the places you visit? Consider broadening your contacts maybe?
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i for one get a rise out of hitting men 'nilla or life. well, that is if it is something that want or a dare to try and hurt them because they have such high pain thresh holds. i have debunked a few people that say that can deal with whatever i could give them. then again i have only done it to two. but i did enjoy it. it is not something i could do everyday UNLESS it was required because my owner liked it either because they are into to recieving end or because they know that i have worked hard to make them happy, even when i've been angry at them or upset and kept serveing the best i could.
I don't get a rise out of hitting people. I get aroused by causing pain to people who enjoy it or who want to experience pain. For me it isn't about debunking their thoughts, it is about causing the pain.
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i like to take my frusterations out on the back or belly of a man. not because i truely want to hurt people by any measure, but it just feels good.
Personally, this concerns me - but it could just be the way you have typed it along with the typos. It feels good and it turns you on or because you take out frustrations and it turns you on? Personally, I wouldn't go near a person if I was pissed off or taking it out on a person. I am allowed to channel it through a person, but that is a different action and requires being in control of your actions.
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i am far from a fighter, at least i'd like to think. maybe it is because i was always the one in school getting beat on and screwed with. i don't know.
anywho, enough about me...please let's talk about this stuff. i just want to know if anyone ever thinks about these two things. if you live like either or both of the things listed but wish to keep it private, them message me here and we can talk.
much love, thanks, and respect to all ~mara~
From you postings, you have a very negative view, which I can't comprehend because I tend to be pretty upbeat. You are even pessimistic about your responses. Just try to remember that people who participate in BDSM are people from the world in general and therefore have the same foibles, judgements and yumminess that are in the whole world. BDSM peeps are any deeper, aren't more understanding and are just as diverse as human beings are in general.
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