rexrgisformidoni -> RE: Invisability of 'whiteness' (12/5/2008 11:27:44 AM)
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ORIGINAL: hizgeorgiapeach I never found being caucasion to be particularly Helpful to me - quite the opposite in fact for the Majority of my adult years. Keeping in mind that the Majority of those years were spent poverty striken, raising a severely handicapped spawn on my own, and for the most part unemployed (employers didn't want to risk me having to leave work for medical emergencies concerning the spawn, when there were candidates who either didn't have any kids or whose kids didn't have massive health problems) - I spent a lot of years in the system. The assumption was always that - since I was White (I didn't attempt to rely on my NA heritage - it doesn't much show Physically, and I'm not on the rolls) - I must simply be to Lazy to do something about getting off the system - while the assumption at the same time was that those who were of "racial minorities" of any sort who were in the same office were there because "whites" were keeping them supressed. When I was in college over the years - I've been a perpetual student since the spawn was a toddler, off and on, attempting to increase my employability - I couldn't qualify for a lot of otherwise really good scholarships and grants - because I was white. Oh no, many of those were (are) reserved for blacks, or hispanics, or asians, or those on one of the tribal rolls - I would have to make due with Pell and Student Loans which they qualified for as much as I did - no racial preferences there by gods. The assumption in achedamia is that if you're white - you'll have money from your family to go to college on, and therefore shouldn't "need" scholarships to help pay for it - but if you're "a minority" you won't have that to fall back on. There's also the assumption (due to political correctness) that that if a scholarship specifies it's for "blacks only" or "hispanics only" or "asians only" that it's all fine and dandy and we should all be collectively Pleased that it exists - but gods help ya if you ask if there are any scholarships that are for Whites only (since there are so many Other racially specific ones out there) - you're a bigot, and filled with race hatred, and must be some sort of neo-nazi skinhead who wants to force a return to slavery. People Assume that being caucasion - or even Looking caucasion - brings an automatic advantage. Such is simply not the case any longer except in very isolated areas, and in fact has become the opposite of the truth to a large extent. I could go on to say a lot more, but I would prefer to keep this on track and Not allow it to devolve into post/counterpost about biogtry and prejudice. Other than the having a child with health problems and being in the system as an adult, (was when I was a kid, dad was hurt for a long time.), this has been my experience as well. When I brought up the other day in class how people think they can make it in the real world without speaking proper English, (I live in a predominantly urban area with a basically 50-40 white/black mix) I was immediately branded a racist. I knew I was starting a shitstorm, but so what. I also ask a kid who should be failing but isn't because he is a damn cheater why he was even in school if he didn't care about class, he replied because he didn't have to pay for anything because of his scholarship. I have never once received a scholarship, not even for acedemic achievement, because it always asks race. When I moved here from Idaho, it got even worse. Try getting a local government job that you are qualified for, its impossible. Listen to high school kids when I substituted and hear them laugh about being on welfare from having 3 babies by the time she was 17, all with different baby daddies. Hear them laugh how they are going to college with a 1.9 gpa because they'll get an "economic disadvatage, racially disadvtaged""scholarship". I am infuriated. And I think there should be a white history two months. I am sick of being blamed for keeping people down, I am not doing anything to them, and it wasn't me who did any of the bad things that happened. I know not everyone is like this, and for the most part it most minorities are decent, hardworking people, but those who are not make my blood boil. The same go for whites who blatantly take advantage of the system, and have no real reason to. So yeah Peach, I am with ya. its BS.
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