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How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 7:13:52 PM

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I have always thought that engaging in this scene would be a very binding activity. But practically speaking, what do you do once you convince your partner for it?

Will foreplay change, if yes then how? What if you just want the some quality time when in the scene, without sex. What kind of activities can you engage in to pass the time?

Big question, how do keep yourself and your partner entertained, if you are in the scene, and the 15min initial rush has passed by?

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 7:17:01 PM

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I have no clue what it is you are asking, exactly. Maybe I am just missing it, but are you asking how we stay entertained if we do this all the time? Or are you asking about longer scenes?
Do you mean lifestyle when you say scene? They are not the same thing, after all.

I'm confused, some clarification would help

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 7:21:55 PM

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What do you mean by binding? Physically or do you mean that sharing kinky sex should being you closer together? Because it no more will do that than playing tennis will. Lots of people play casually.

As far as 15 minute initial rush, that's barely sufficient time to warm up and get fully aroused. Stop thinking of orgasm as the goal. Start enjoying the journey. Figure out what activities appeal to you and your partner and start exploring. Don't like something? Do something else. Start slow and light and slowly work up to more intensity and then start tapering off. Start with more easily tolerated implements and work up to the more difficult ones. Then go back. Don't just start wailing on someone and then abruptly stop.

And the cuddling afterwards takes more than 15 minutes by itself and is just as enjoyable as the rougher stuff.

Or are you specifically asking about pet play?

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 7:58:17 PM

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Wait, you said you convinced your partner for this. That implies that you had something in mind. What happened?

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 8:11:14 PM

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That's kind of like asking me to tell you and your girl how to fuck in a way that's enjoyable for both of you.

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 8:43:35 PM

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I apolagise, I should have been more specific.

'Binding activity', should actually say 'bonding acticity'. Didn't catch that in the first draft. And yes, I am referring to pet play, puppy play to be exact.

I personally need a lot of activity to keep entertained, sexual or not, and expect the same from my partner. In normal play, i.e., you can cuddle and talk to your partner in between breaks. But in proper puppy play, if your partner is deep into that mind-set, communication is limited.

So what I was asking is, how do you make puppy-play more interesting? Which props to use, what to include in a foreplay if involved in puppy-play, punishment(aka funishments) and how to administer training if one so desires?

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 8:45:43 PM

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How do you play with any pet? You do things with then which is enjoyable to both of you. DStart buy throwing a ball for the pet to chase, retrieving a stick is good too and og courtse having a wait/bark/sing-a-thon is grreat fun too. OIf course you need to be sure that neighbouring dogs don't get involved...

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 8:59:13 PM

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It's still just a subset of Mad Rabbit's answer

It's up to you if you want to define what "proper" puppy play is and whether or not communication is limited

If you want to use a buttplug-tail, fake ears, and she can only bark, that's great for you. I prefer to let puppies talk since I really like verbal play. But it's up to you what works best for you.

Do you want her to be a playful pup who needs to be trained? If you were into that sort of thing, you can paper train her. Personally, seeing someone pee on papers in the corner wouldn't do it for me. That's not to say I've never had a puppy have to go in the yard, but you define what you like.

Those who enjoy discipline like the idea of using a rolled up newspaper rather than spanking or another implement. I don't like the idea of punishing in puppy play, but you get to choose.

Playful pups sometimes like to play fetch. I like the mindspace of a dog in heat, on all fours thinking about nothing but being filled. I find that more fun than tossing a ball, but to each his own, and they aren't mutually exclusive anyway.

To me, more interesting is a progression. Some combination of collars, leashes, bowls, crawling, tails, ears, humping to come, peeing by lifting a leg, playing fetch, rolling over, and all the other things you've read about here and other sites. Pick what sounds interesting to you, try it once or twice, if you like it, keep doing it

No need to overthink it and assume you have to do it perfectly each time.

And you can certainly cuddle. Puppies are affectionate, it's one of the main reasons people get the things. So you can certainly be warm and affectionate during puppy play if you'd like without breaking the scene/headspace. And even if you choose to not allow her human speech, you can talk to her and get all kinds of communication back that you might enjoy and find informative.

Have fun and good luck

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 9:45:25 PM

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quote:

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How do you play with any pet? You do things with then which is enjoyable to both of you. DStart buy throwing a ball for the pet to chase, retrieving a stick is good too and og courtse having a wait/bark/sing-a-thon is grreat fun too. OIf course you need to be sure that neighbouring dogs don't get involved...

I grinned at this. Yep, I've been known to have to fetch a tossed ball (which ended up in both of us laughing hysterically and then he was bored of it after about 3 throws). Heel, fetch, sit, stay, roll over, bark, howl, balance a treat on his/her nose, sit up and beg, lie down, bring the paper/slippers (crawling with object in mouth, of course), give the pet a bath (complete with an excited "wanna baaaaath???"), chase his/her tail (a tail butt plug helps), scratch the belly, walk on a leash, crate train, paper (potty) train, bop on the nose with a rolled newspaper, eat and drink from a bowl on the floor...the list goes on. Have fun!

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 11:39:09 PM

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Aye, it is indeed a lengthy list whicvh my two canines add to weekly, perhapds my Mamalute boy and Malamute/Husky girl should reply too lol.. Seriously though, it is difficult to give a helpful responce to the OP when it be unsure if the relationship is M/s or D/s and if the said "pet" is a pony girl, dog, cat or any other dynamic ikr just collared as a persaonal pet, which always make me think of "trophy girl" rather than a living, breathing, working slave boy or girl. (I supose that trophy girls and boys live and breath too but one is never quite sure if the "Owner" has purchased a sex and display android)..

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 11:49:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Aye, it is indeed a lengthy list whicvh my two canines add to weekly, perhapds my Mamalute boy and Malamute/Husky girl should reply too lol.. Seriously though, it is difficult to give a helpful responce to the OP when it be unsure if the relationship is M/s or D/s and if the said "pet" is a pony girl, dog, cat or any other dynamic ikr just collared as a persaonal pet, which always make me think of "trophy girl" rather than a living, breathing, working slave boy or girl. (I supose that trophy girls and boys live and breath too but one is never quite sure if the "Owner" has purchased a sex and display android)..

I am greatly jealous of you for having two Malamutes, by the way. :)

The OP later clarified about puppy play, which is why I listed what I did. But you're right - there are a myriad of pets and a myriad of ways to play with them.

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 11:54:53 PM

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Love is a Malamute ~ When you get a Malamute you get as lifestyle and float in a world of soft white hair, huge wet sloppy kisses at any hour of the day or night, share your bed with one or two Malamutes who "allow" you to sleep there, Enjoy loud "singing" along with Police, Ambulance oe Fire Brigade sirens at all hours and a "Good Morning" Choral by them at some ungodly hour like 6am.. You also get a household supervisor who will tell you when you are not doing things right and love to nurse you when you are sick.. Aye Love is definatly a Malamute..

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/5/2008 11:56:57 PM

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/6/2008 9:25:47 AM

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But in proper puppy play, if your partner is deep into that mind-set, communication is limited.

PROPER! There is your problem right there. Your view of all this is WAY to rigid. Lets step back a second. What the fuck is proper about having sex with your partner as an animal? I mean really!

So, as many have pointed out, figure out what makes it hot for both of you and play with that and ignore the rest because it doesn't matter. Mount her like the little bitch she is, brush her hair like the spoiled little kitten you love, touch her "inappropriately, I don't don't don't get hung up on some image of what it is "supposed" to be. YOU decide what is "proper" and go from there.

Me, I like giving my sweet little pet a saucer of special cream, pulling her into my lap and brushing her fur till it is as pretty as can be. Then when she gets all comfortable in my lap I roll her on her belly and start slowly petting her lower and lower and lower...

Or I grab her by the scruff of the neck and despite her cries and flailing claws, I force her down and mate with her only letting up when I am done and walk away, letting my seed spill out of her torn and bruised body.

YMMV...

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/6/2008 9:54:40 AM

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I hand it to Iron Bear on this one. How do you play with any pet? Don't make this more complicated than it is.

What rewards do you give a pet? You make a pet comfy with toys, pillows, treats, grooming, etc. Visit a pet store for props/ideas. This does mean that you, as dominant, will have to be actively involved, and accept that the pet may not be constantly entertaining you.

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/6/2008 10:25:02 AM

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Reading Michael's post, fanning self.

Beyond that, if your partner goes deep into puppy headspace, you can just sit and read the newspaper while she chews on her new toy/your slippers, curls up in her cage, humps a stuffed toy.

My question is what about hair? I have never understood how you drink from a bowl with hair down to your ass. Or do you just braid it and tie it up first?

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/6/2008 11:03:02 AM

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Hi Des,

My hair is below my shoulders and at times to the middle of my back, so, medium to long. I'd toss it to one side when in such a position. Sometimes I'd hold it with one hand while balancing on the other hand to lean forward and drink/eat. Sometimes I wasn't allowed either and my hair would just get wet. I wasn't allowed to tie my hair back, so that was never an option for me or I'd have taken it every time.

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/6/2008 7:00:37 PM

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Me, I like giving my sweet little pet a saucer of special cream, pulling her into my lap and brushing her fur till it is as pretty as can be. Then when she gets all comfortable in my lap I roll her on her belly and start slowly petting her lower and lower and lower...

Or I grab her by the scruff of the neck and despite her cries and flailing claws, I force her down and mate with her only letting up when I am done and walk away, letting my seed spill out of her torn and bruised body.

Meowwww!!!!

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/6/2008 9:01:44 PM

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I missed you two. I'm glad I'm back.

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RE: How to do you play with a pet? - 12/7/2008 9:03:20 AM

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Hi Des,

My hair is below my shoulders and at times to the middle of my back, so, medium to long. I'd toss it to one side when in such a position. Sometimes I'd hold it with one hand while balancing on the other hand to lean forward and drink/eat. Sometimes I wasn't allowed either and my hair would just get wet. I wasn't allowed to tie my hair back, so that was never an option for me or I'd have taken it every time.

If he announced I had to have my hair in my food, he'd get bit. I get a little weird by hair in places it shouldn't be, especially my mouth.

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