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THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 7:57:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		Are you an audiophile?  Do the sounds associated with a scene stimulate or arouse you?  Do grunts, moans, sighs, a frantic plea get you going?  How important are these noises when interacting with your sub?  To me they are very important.  I might even put them above visual and physical.  The sounds of her authoritative voice issuing commands, demands, and instructions.  Her spoken affirmations of her Dominance and my submission.   Certain words are key and hearing her speak them forcefully or mockingly is like a mini orgasm, for lack of a better explanation.  BITCH, WHORE, CUNT, FUCK, SLUT and phrases containing these words really stimulate me and raise the level of the intensity of our interaction.  In short I really need for the Domme to be verbally expressive.  It may seem redundant during our play but I NEED to hear them again and again.  It really puts me in subspace.  Does it do the same for you as a Domme?  
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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 8:51:25 AM   
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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 9:48:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh yes, I need/want/desire to hear the whimpers, cries, begging, and pleading of my sub.  

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 9:58:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Those'd work, though not as powerfully for me.  (Apart from "cunt": I think I'd have a sort of unwanted intellectual rebellion against "cunt" - a voice would start arguing "but a man just can't be a cunt.  It's inaccurate!" )

But also, diminutives: "boy", "puppy" and so on. 

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 9:59:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yep, it works for me too.  I love dirty talk and absolutely adore it when my Lady engages me with it and not only says things, but makes -me- say things.  hawt hawt hawt



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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 10:09:13 AM   
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Sorry, Peon, but I had to do it for the laugh.


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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 10:23:04 AM   
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What about if a sub burst into song while you were thrashing away, LP - say, a deep, rich baritone rendition of "Land of Hope and Glory"?  Would that send you the express route to domme space?



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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 10:39:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mistress and I are very engaged by each others voices and sounds. Mine are essentially a gauge for her to calibrate by and hers feed and fan my arousal and raise my tolerances. Plus she just likes to hear me make weird noises. We cannot sit next to each other alone for more than a few minutes without me being poked or tickled or bitten to illicit odd warbles and coos.

It's awesome.


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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 10:44:23 AM   
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Arf, woof, growl!  

What about if a sub burst into song while you were thrashing away, LP - say, a deep, rich baritone rendition of "Land of Hope and Glory"?  Would that send you the express route to domme space?



I can't say I've ever run into the issue.  I do happen to love a good baritone  who can sing, but probably not when playing.  My pet had a lovely singing voice, but we saved that for karaoke.  There are better sounds to be had when the floggers fall.


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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 12:12:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think that's why it works, Peon.  Being called a cunt and turned into one or being used as one. 

I like the puppy, puppy, puppy and dog works too, but rat, maggot, and scum don't.  They create a negative response.

The sound of high heels clicking on a hard wood floor is great.  The sound of her heavy breathing, her grunts, her moans....just toooooo much.

The thud of a paddle striking bare flesh...........mmmmm....so good.

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 12:33:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		"rat" would make me think of James Cagney and "maggot" would sound a bit silly to me.  "Scum" works, though.  These things are very area-specific, though.  What's going to work for you in Houston, USA, isn't automatically going to work in SW England.

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 1:12:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I truly despise the word "cunt". 

I am not big on the name calling, but I am always talking, making sounds, and eliciting same.  How tedious it would be if my playmate never made any sounds!  Even those changes in breathing are exciting...  Another reason why I prefer to not have loud music (or any) when I play.

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 1:30:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		when my mistress fists me yes i make sounds  moaning ...telling her how great it feels as she makes her way deeper inside of me  when shes in deep inside of me im totally at her mercy until she has her way with my ass and prostate   she knows both well i must say  when i start to moan she asks me if everythings ok and when i say yes she pushes a little bit deeper until i get used to her being that deep also when shes fucking me with the bam strapon she likes to hear my moans as it slides in until its all the way in ...that feeling is amazing being filled up like that  mal

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 1:46:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think I'd actually amplify what I felt deliberately.  Not just to communicate with the domina (per Aidan's point) but to help amplify the feelings too.  But the best sounds are going to come from her exertions.  No contest.

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 1:49:05 PM   
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I truly despise the word "cunt". 



Not to derail this thread, but...WHY?  I love that word.  It is one of my favorite words to use.
 
As far as calling a man a cunt...hmmmmm, I'm watching Deadwood lately and they use it a lot, usually towards men, and it works really well for them.
 
Calling a man a cunt and turning him into one?  HOTT!!!!

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 1:50:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I think I'd actually amplify what I felt deliberately.  Not just to communicate with the domina (per Aidan's point) but to help amplify the feelings too.  But the best sounds are going to come from her exertions.  No contest.


Does this mean that I don't have to worry about wheezing? 

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 2:01:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Fine, so long as you sound sweaty.  I don't quite know what "sweaty" sounds like, mind.  And if you can manage to go through a session without lighting your pipe, that'd help, too.

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 5:31:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		If I could hear sweat, I would run!  That would be one scary thing I would think.  I like my men big, but king kong... a sweaty king kong... I am gunna be long gone!

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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 5:58:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hmmmmm.... love to hear those little noises coming from my boy.  Let's me know I'm doing a good job.  Can't imagine why anyone would want to gag a toy.  Those little gasps, whimpers, "Yes, Ghoddess" or "Please" whispered between clenched teeth...  Heaven.   My dear sweet Wall-e used to purr his darkest fantasies in my ear in a deep, breathy tone that sent me into orbit.  Oh, so sweet.  My best beloved Westie so rarely makes a sound that when he does yelp its like fireworks and cheerleaders.... I can hardly contain myself.  And that evil look he gets in his eyes when I know it's all he can do to take one more stroke without slapping me back is divine... I know that 'inner beast' is lurking so very close to the surface I can taste it. 

Damn.. Y'all keep getting my seat all wet.   Yes, my own typing excites me because my head is filled with memories of the sights and sounds and wonderous sensations of my best boys.

The one thing I don't want to hear is "Ow!  That HURT!"  because... let's face it - DUH! - If I didn't think it was going to hurt, I wouldn't DO it! 

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As for singing, Peon, you can practice "Sit on my face" for me. I do make lovely little 'grunting' sounds when I swing my flogger... sort of like when I'm lifting that last 5 reps.  That always seems to get the attention of the other men near me at the gym.  I have no idea why.


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RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION - 12/6/2008 6:23:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hmmm.  The smell of sweat, though.  That'd be good . . . 

But think of a King Kong when it comes to house moving, Lockit.  He'd literally be able to move your house without your even getting out of your armchair!



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