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PeonForHer -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/6/2008 6:25:55 PM)
The one thing I don't want to hear is "Ow! That HURT!" because... let's face it - DUH! - If I didn't think it was going to hurt, I wouldn't DO it! What about "Bollocks!!"? Cos that's just about bound to come out of my mouth a few times.

MsStarlett -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/6/2008 6:28:22 PM)
If it came out of YOUR mouth, I'm sure it would be adorable. Although, you might send me into such a fit of laughter that I might forget what it was that I was doing at the time.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/6/2008 7:25:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: yourMissTress quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I truly despise the word "cunt". Not to derail this thread, but...WHY? I love that word. It is one of my favorite words to use. As far as calling a man a cunt...hmmmmm, I'm watching Deadwood lately and they use it a lot, usually towards men, and it works really well for them. Calling a man a cunt and turning him into one? HOTT!!!! That's a damn fine question, and I wish I had the answer. It's just some kind of visceral thing that I can't explain... I hear it all the time in those dang Brit movies I watch (IS there another epithet in use in Glasgow??) and it makes me cringe. Go figure!

MsDonnaMia -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/6/2008 7:57:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crxmale Are you an audiophile? Do the sounds associated with a scene stimulate or arouse you? Do grunts, moans, sighs, a frantic plea get you going? How important are these noises when interacting with your sub? To me they are very important. I might even put them above visual and physical. The sounds of her authoritative voice issuing commands, demands, and instructions. Her spoken affirmations of her Dominance and my submission. Certain words are key and hearing her speak them forcefully or mockingly is like a mini orgasm, for lack of a better explanation. BITCH, WHORE, CUNT, FUCK, SLUT and phrases containing these words really stimulate me and raise the level of the intensity of our interaction. In short I really need for the Domme to be verbally expressive. It may seem redundant during our play but I NEED to hear them again and again. It really puts me in subspace. Does it do the same for you as a Domme? Male suffering is music to my ears..nuff said. [;)]

AlexandraLynch -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/6/2008 8:48:18 PM)
There is nothing as beautiful as a whimpered plea that is nonverbal because he is past the point of words and fully in your power.

malloves69 -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 6:22:53 AM)
being in a womans power is amazing indeed [:)] her in control ....love it indeed [:)] have fun mal

vampchick88 -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 6:49:02 AM)
I absolutely love the sounds of submission from pet. When he has a ball gag in his mouth and moans in pleasure for me....Mmmmmm my head starts spinning and I just lose myself in the moment of things.

thetammyjo -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 7:09:03 AM)
The only words that have true value to me are "Mistress" and "yes" and the first of those is limited to only the ones I own. Anything else is a matter of the specific dynamic and what we are doing.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 7:18:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crxmale Are you an audiophile? Do the sounds associated with a scene stimulate or arouse you? Do grunts, moans, sighs, a frantic plea get you going? yes to all questions. hearing him moan and whine as i grip hard his cock and ball ...squeezing until he's forced to his knees - i better stop getting too excited again. ahhhh, that alone arouses me. quote: How important are these noises when interacting with your sub? if i don't hear these noises from him, then neither one of us is not enjoying our time together. more the he moans the more he gets to hear me whisper seductively in his ear as well as the more aroused i get.

crxmale -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 10:14:56 AM)
I totally agree. The intensity of the session is proportional to the amount of audio stimulation. If you are a sadist and spank/whip your sub and you get no auditory response, no verbal response (cries, moans, begging) then I believe the session would be rather dull and boring. Certain KEY words may increase the satisfaction for you. As in "PLEASE MISTRESS" uttered in a frantic or desperate tone of voice.

crxmale -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 10:23:46 AM)
My point is that certain words may key a positive response or a negative response based upon your feelings. You are not the only Domme or woman that I have run across that doesn't like the word cunt. And I am sure that your subs know not to use this word in your presence. I don't really know why but "You Fucking Pig!" does not do it for me but "You Fucking Sow!" does.

Lockit -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 10:35:42 AM)
What about the sounds of submission outside of play? The silent expressions written all over his face... the little sounds that come as a surprise like an intake of air or the release of it... the contented sigh or the excitment of kneeling next to you and the words 'yes mistress'. The sounds in play are great, but anyone could make them in the right circumstances. The one's that really push my buttons are the one's that come from love and devotion to me and the relationship and I happen to think those last longer.

cjan -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 10:59:00 AM)
I think it's important, and delightfull, to bring all our senses into play as much as we can. Whether in the dungeon, the bedroom, or anywhere. Sound, sight, smell/taste, touch ...in all degrees, from the strongest to the most subtle. Being fully present is the key.

Madame4a -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 11:02:40 AM)
I so like... "boy" ... in any context... "mine" works for me as well

LadyPact -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 11:27:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit What about the sounds of submission outside of play? The silent expressions written all over his face... the little sounds that come as a surprise like an intake of air or the release of it... the contented sigh or the excitment of kneeling next to you and the words 'yes mistress'. The sounds in play are great, but anyone could make them in the right circumstances. The one's that really push my buttons are the one's that come from love and devotion to me and the relationship and I happen to think those last longer. I can't agree with this more! I love that sigh of contentment as clip settles down at My feet. The look of peace that crosses his eyes as he closes them while he hugs My leg or rubs My foot. The way he looks up at Me when I smile down at him. Don't get Me wrong. I love those great sounds made during play, but there really are both sides of it. I have a friend of Mine who helps out in the club I frequent in Atlanta. One evening when I was between scenes, I was sitting in the lobby chatting a bit with her, as I tend to do. There was a scene going on that you could hear from the other room. She looked at Me and said, "you know, after working here for a while, you can tell the difference between the sounds that are made because they are authentic and those that are played up."

Lockit -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 12:07:38 PM)
ROFL LadyPact... that just brought back some memories of the difference between the authentic and the played up! One time really stands out in my mind! lol I want to thank you for the memory and at the same time... I am not so sure I want to hear that in my mind again! A blend between laughter and disgust! lol

DrkJourney -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 12:27:10 PM)
I'm definitely into sounds, especially with light instrumental type music in the background. Not much into hearing any of my commands, I like to hear everything from him....whimpering, crying, heavy breathing, begging.....those kinds of sounds. Along with seeing the muscles in his arms and back react to whatever I am doing to him. boy, it just got really hot in here...lol

NefertariReborn -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/7/2008 2:56:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crxmale Are you an audiophile? Do the sounds associated with a scene stimulate or arouse you? Do grunts, moans, sighs, a frantic plea get you going? How important are these noises when interacting with your sub? To me they are very important. I might even put them above visual and physical. The sounds of her authoritative voice issuing commands, demands, and instructions. Her spoken affirmations of her Dominance and my submission. Certain words are key and hearing her speak them forcefully or mockingly is like a mini orgasm, for lack of a better explanation. BITCH, WHORE, CUNT, FUCK, SLUT and phrases containing these words really stimulate me and raise the level of the intensity of our interaction. In short I really need for the Domme to be verbally expressive. It may seem redundant during our play but I NEED to hear them again and again. It really puts me in subspace. Does it do the same for you as a Domme? quivers Um yes! Yes! and YES! All of the above. hard c words are My favourite. Cunt! Cock! (I have no hangups about the word cunt actually, no matter which way it's directed. ) I love talking and sounds and noises and goodness I'm getting hot all of a sudden! Let's see who can talk the dirtiest. Now that's a challenge I'd gladly take on with Mine.

Aszhrae -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/8/2008 12:48:23 AM)
Girl would be lousy in such a competition. It is not within me to be so demeaning. Most of the time just try to contain whimpers which usually results in tears from my eyes. No time to moan when you are trying to reply, 'Yes Mistress'.

Reigna -> RE: THE SOUNDS OF SUBMISSION (12/8/2008 5:44:31 PM)
I'm kind of partial to, "OWWWW ... ... ... ahhhhhhh."

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