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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/8/2008 4:15:26 PM   
yourMissTress


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How has time and experience changed your view/practice of WIITWD?


I thought there was "one true way".  I found out there is, for me, and it changes as I do.
 
I thought that the people who were into the same kinds of things as me were just like me.  I found out that some of them are similar and some are not.
 
I thought that safewords were law and the only way to play.  I found out that I am better and happier without them.
 
I thought that submissives were X and slaves were Y.  I found out I was right, but only for me and my own desires.
 
I thought that BDSM was a wonderful way to live, love, fuck, play, enjoy, and be.  I found out that for me, the only way that I can be truly happy in a relationship is to incorporate all of me into it, which includes but is not limited to BDSM.

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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/8/2008 6:01:01 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

I had a nice post thought out and my internet ate it.


and I bet it was the absolutely best post ever............... It's a shame that so many of those posts go that way.  I had more than a few do that to me.  If only it didn't happen... the rest of you would realize how brillant I am

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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/8/2008 6:09:32 PM   
oceanwynds


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Status: offline 		I found out that i am really a submissive. Personally, I never figured I would last in D/s. I discovered that I like pain.Never have been in BDSM, just abusive relationships, prior to my marriage.  I discovered that my marriage had a lot of D/s characteristics but I was to stubborn to see. I discovered that I have peace within me now, since I have stopped running from me. I discovered there is no laws and truisms in BDSM.  I am in a Ds relationship, even without a collar. I discovered not everything out there in this lifestyle will interest me, and also I not stupid to say this can't change.  
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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/8/2008 7:35:44 PM   
magdelyn


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Status: offline 		Sex has become less important to me.

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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/8/2008 7:49:18 PM   
lighthearted


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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/8/2008 10:00:43 PM   
Aszhrae


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Status: offline 		For me also, but it is certainly nice to enjoy once and a while. Not with current mistress and master, they are happily married. Have to go elsewhere and of course, something else that has to be earned to be able to do.

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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/9/2008 5:14:41 AM   
SteveAndJaz


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Status: offline 		Sex has become more important to me!

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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/9/2008 12:23:15 PM   
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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/9/2008 1:41:45 PM   
chezzy71


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Status: offline 		I have made a complete 180 from where i was at the beginning and now.I have always had a keen interest in a small handful of activities in BDSM.I am hoping we will be able to act on a couple of them but other than that..i need to be molded in someone elses eyes..that is what i know for sure.I do not need training overly but a firm and knowledgable hand to guide me  through this journey and share a life.I am thrilled to say i have that now at its infancy stages and i am quite thrilled and happy.

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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/9/2008 3:29:10 PM   
CatdeMedici


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Status: offline 		Knowing your Mistress as I do, there is no doubt that you are now guided with a firm hand--and the more devotion you give, the more She will adore, guide, and protect you.

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RE: How has time and experience changed you? - 12/9/2008 3:43:07 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Sex has always been an important aspect for me to,, lack of it and having it. I am actually struggling with the idea of how to spell out what I want sexually but still attract the quality of man I wanted when I was single. Because so many want insta sub and insta sex, and that's not how I do it, so I don't talk about sex, but then you cheat yourself sometimes.

I guess you could simply say I seek a very sexual relationship, but on my terms at first?

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ORIGINAL: SteveAndJaz

Sex has become more important to me!

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