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Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 5:26:54 AM   
sirjohn666


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Status: offline 		Ive had two subs for nearly 3 years now, Sarah is happy with worshipping mine, other masters and other mistresses bottoms, where as Brenda to say shes coming out her shell with worship my bottom but not females, whats the difference, would love feed back on this one ?
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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 5:33:44 AM   
GabrielleSlave


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Status: offline 		Personally i love to worship my Master's bottom *giggles*, but i am sure i would not like to do it to anyone else.  However, i would have to wait and see as He has not asked this of me yet.  i am straight, so doing it for a Mistress would be very hard for me *looks over shoulder and hopes Master is not reading this*

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 5:45:00 AM   
RainydayNE


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Status: offline 		agrees with gabrielle =p

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 5:47:04 AM   
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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 6:03:40 AM   
CatdeMedici


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Status: offline 		Perhaps to her that represents lack of devotion to You?

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 6:15:26 AM   
mystickoolaid


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Status: offline 		I can see the point that if she is "coming out of her shell" doing it with you once she has become more comfortable or devoted to you, but not wanting to do it to random other people/strangers if it is not something she is comfortable or used to in the first place.

It would be like someone losing their virginity to you after being in a relationship of some sort for a period of time, and not wanting to go out and sleep with all your friends. I would appreciate the fact that she has opened up that special part of herself and given this to you, if I were you.

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 6:23:45 AM   
GabrielleSlave


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Status: offline 		Another thought.  If as You say,  she is just coming out of her shell with regards to this, it may be asking too much to make her do this with others just yet, even is she is bi or curious.  Take Your time and she may well surprise You.  i know if Master wants to do something that He knows i will find difficult, at least in the first instance, He will take things slowly with me.  He knows He will get what He wants eventually, but He trains me to be a willing participant, as it makes for better service. 

You have owned her for 3 years, you know her better than anyone here how best to get what You want out of her...

ETA - mystickoolaid got there before me lol!

gabrielle x

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 6:24:11 AM   
DesFIP


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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 6:30:14 AM   
GabrielleSlave


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

One has an ass fetish, one doesn't.


Didn't think of that D'OH! 

One way of thinking could also be that if she is a sub and not a slave, forcing her is not an option....so OP you may just have to live with it...

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 6:40:56 AM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		Let me begin by saying I am an enthusiast of this act.  Took particular pleasure in doing it for my most recent partner. 
Some people don't like (And I don't mean just sexually) members of the opposite sex; perhaps she doesn't like women.  Lest I become surrounded by flames here (Which I'm okay with regarding anything I post but will explain none-the-less), I have many close and trusted female friends but I've always been more of a 'guys chick'; very Alpha.  It would need to be a special woman, indeed, for me to entertain the idea of doing that for of my own volition; now, them doing that for me, much less of an issue (Same of oral slightly further forward too) though not a priority in my sexual universe.  Those acts (Me doing either bit of oral for a female) feel like acts of submission to females, which does not (With very rare specific mental jaunts) do it for me. 
If My Master asked such a thing of me (I do not have a Master at present), he would understand the magnitude of my doing so (As we would be in a relationship and he would understand that and other idiosyncrasies I have) and I would comply with his wishes. 
Davan

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 11:34:25 AM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		Did you expect them to be the same?

Perhaps she likes your bum because it's attached to you?

A bum isn't just a bum.......they have people attached to them and that could just be enough to make it tricky.

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 11:48:30 AM   
toddlefeet


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Status: offline 		Is this only for Doms to enjoy? or can it be for Subs too? I know this is something I enjoy but not rimming or 'Salad Tossing." -shudder-

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 12:30:39 PM   
servantheart


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirjohn666

Ive had two subs for nearly 3 years now, Sarah is happy with worshipping mine, other masters and other mistresses bottoms, where as Brenda to say shes coming out her shell with worship my bottom but not females, whats the difference, would love feed back on this one ?


Can't think of anything new to add.  Whatever You do, don't force her to do something she's not ready for. 
 
**goes back to daydreaming about Sir's sexy, perfect behind...mmmmmm
***also hoping Sir doesn't catch His slave posting here on CM when she's supposed to be studying for her final exam or her butt may glow in the dark tonight after He turns it bright red!!

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 12:52:25 PM   
cjan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: toddlefeet

Is this only for Doms to enjoy? or can it be for Subs too? I know this is something I enjoy but not rimming or 'Salad Tossing." -shudder-


*ponders how one can do ass worship without rimming/salad tossing*

I think that's called ass kissing and is more appropriate in the office than the bedroom, eh ?


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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 12:57:06 PM   
lusciouslips19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan

quote:

ORIGINAL: toddlefeet

Is this only for Doms to enjoy? or can it be for Subs too? I know this is something I enjoy but not rimming or 'Salad Tossing." -shudder-


*ponders how one can do ass worship without rimming/salad tossing*

I think that's called ass kissing and is more appropriate in the office than the bedroom, eh ?



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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 12:59:43 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		She has been with you for three years and you cannot ask her, the expert in the situation?  Why does this not make sense to me?

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 1:36:57 PM   
celticlord2112


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quote:

**goes back to daydreaming about Sir's sexy, perfect behind...mmmmmm
***also hoping Sir doesn't catch His slave posting here on CM when she's supposed to be studying for her final exam or her butt may glow in the dark tonight after He turns it bright red!!

I don't recall MY anatomy being a part of your final exam review.....

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 2:43:41 PM   
DavanKael


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan

quote:

ORIGINAL: toddlefeet

Is this only for Doms to enjoy? or can it be for Subs too? I know this is something I enjoy but not rimming or 'Salad Tossing." -shudder-


*ponders how one can do ass worship without rimming/salad tossing*

I think that's called ass kissing and is more appropriate in the office than the bedroom, eh ?



Yeah, I'm with you; I was certainly talking about salad tossing. 
  Davan

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 3:08:14 PM   
cjan


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Status: offline 		Dressing is on the house...

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RE: Bottom worship - 12/8/2008 3:55:25 PM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		i have obviously been "sheltered"...never would i ever have equated salad tossing with ass play...
 
For me, not sure any dressing would do!

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