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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 12:32:37 PM   
sobayblackmaster


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ORIGINAL: mozartsfuneral

i am Master's slut...i always turn into a animalistic fuck toy when i'm with Him. i want it rough, i want Him to call me cunt, fucktoy, cock whore...it just makes me wetter and makes me want to please Him even more. But i am always looking for ways to push my sluttiness. :-)


(his) animalistic fuck toy. how that resonates. thanks lady

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 12:41:53 PM   
Mercnbeth


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thanks for your reply.
 
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...sexually comfortable and open to new experiences, particularly the experiences I want her to have...


do you think it would please you more for her to passively anticipate those experiences, or do you think you would prefer suggesting, begging, pleading or something even more aggressive on her part?

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 12:49:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

is it even possible to be "slutty" within a monogamous D/s, M/s or even a conventional relationship, without,at the very least, having sex or participating in scenes with others?



It is absolutely possible! Being slutty within a relationship, for me, means lust with total abandon. Passionate, sexy, primal, hungry, ready any time, any place, any how, and giving everything I can give to pleasing him sexually. It means having an insatiable desire for the man I am with, and never feeling I can give or do enough, sexually, and getting off on that fact! And also getting off on his pleasure. It means exploring any new avenue with him sexually, and loving anything he wants to do to/with me.

Yum.


NuevaVida,
 
thank you for your reply.
 
the fervor in which the lust and desire manifests itself...other than passively awaiting instruction or use, can you think of or have any experience with outlets for it, when not actively in use or specifically following instructions?
 
this slave has thought of filling a sketch-book with pornographic cartoons/scenarios or writing sexually-explicit poetry dedicated to Him...things along those lines...what do you think, can arts and crafts be "slutty"...or no?

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 12:55:00 PM   
Mercnbeth


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thank you for your response!
 
indeed, words used in a hurtful way can be difficult to overcome!!!
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...It is okay for me to be slutty enough for Sir only...
 
would you be so kind as to share any examples of being "slutty enough" for your Sir?

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 12:59:50 PM   
Mercnbeth


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thank you for your reply.
 
quote:

...i always turn into a animalistic fuck toy when i'm with Him. i want it rough, i want Him to call me cunt, fucktoy, cock whore...


cunt, fucktoy and cock whore...hmmm, this slave might have to start a whole new thread on how to be all those enough as well!!!

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 1:02:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

the fervor in which the lust and desire manifests itself...other than passively awaiting instruction or use, can you think of or have any experience with outlets for it, when not actively in use or specifically following instructions?
 

beth,

My sluttiness with my former owner was not at all passive. I actively demonstrated the yearning and longing from within...by begging, by the looks I would give him, by body language, and by the words I would use to express myself. Nothing like nuzzling your face between your owners legs and whimpering with need! Since I wasn't allowed to touch without permission, I would show my cravings for him with my behavior and words.

When we were actually engaging in sexual acts, I was involved, full board, throwing my everything into it. My body would respond with orgasms, gushings, blushes, sweat, teary-eyed with need, squirmings, tongue hanging out, you name it!

When we were not together I would write to him in crude and lustful detail of my cravings, and send him photos that sometimes shocked even myself, lol.

Sometimes there were instructions, and often times nature just took its course. I was never instructed to thrash & writhe around and cry out while cumming, but I did. His response to that fed the behavior so it worked out well for us. Pushing myself for him to the point of physical/mental/emotional exhaustion was never instructed, but I did so, because it was in my nature to do so. When allowed to orally please him I wouldn't limit myself to one body part, but would consume all of him while pressing myself against him... always begging for more, always introducing new ideas to explore.

Definitely an active participant in the slut-factor, lol.

quote:


this slave has thought of filling a sketch-book with pornographic cartoons/scenarios or writing sexually-explicit poetry dedicated to Him...things along those lines...what do you think, can arts and crafts be "slutty"...or no?


I once made obscene ginger bread men and women, heh. Yes, arts & crafts can be slutty! You can make sex toys, you can write poetry/stories if he enjoys them (I explored a lot of new ideas this way, by pushing my mind to delve further each time). Just have fun with it and let loose! The more creative ways to express oneself, the more fun you can have. :)

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 1:08:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
so, sort of a wanton, feline "in-heat", sex-slave mindset and accompanying behaviors, then?  was it better to be agressive and pawing as opposed to passively panting & fidgety?


HE liked it when I was a mixture of both Merc might like a different concentration, but mine was about 30% 'aggressive' and 70% 'passive'

That is, I would actively paw and ask, but just as I was begging and whimpering and literally becoming as ready as I could at all times.

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 1:21:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		My sluttiness with Sir is raw sexual energy, where the rougher it is the better. Nothing he can request from me would be consider beneath me to do. I am a slut and radiate my sexualness out to him.  More he requests the more intune i get with this wild slut within me, who so wants to come out and play. I am an exhibishnest as well, so Sir gets to see that side of me, when he wants too. I am not camera shy and will be glad to take pictures of us, when he asks.

Pretty much, i am Sir's fuck toy to be used as he wishes, but i also totally enjoy it, especially cock worshipping. Sir likes to get the animal in me awaken and alive.

Another area that i express my sluttiness is through cooking, baking and other things i do in a kitchen over a cauldron. Certain spices and herbs put into a crock pot with other ingred. make a great sensual oil. I do a lot of kitchen things.

That is a little about me, surprise it wasn't hard to write about.
oceanwynds

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 3:10:53 PM   
Mercnbeth


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for your explicit response.  it has given this slave much food for thought!

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 3:13:05 PM   
Mercnbeth


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thank you for your detailed reply!  lots of good ideas in there...especially with the cauldron in mind!!!


Edited to add (Merc): With all these wonderful suggestions for my slut, I just may have to go home from the office early today!

< Message edited by Mercnbeth -- 12/8/2008 3:15:28 PM >

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 3:16:25 PM   
Mercnbeth


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ORIGINAL: aravain

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
so, sort of a wanton, feline "in-heat", sex-slave mindset and accompanying behaviors, then?  was it better to be agressive and pawing as opposed to passively panting & fidgety?


HE liked it when I was a mixture of both Merc might like a different concentration, but mine was about 30% 'aggressive' and 70% 'passive'

That is, I would actively paw and ask, but just as I was begging and whimpering and literally becoming as ready as I could at all times.



aravain,
thank you for explaining!!!  this slave is collecting all the ideas shared here in her quest to be slutty enough and very much appreciates your input!!!
 

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 3:57:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

do you think it would please you more for her to passively anticipate those experiences, or do you think you would prefer suggesting, begging, pleading or something even more aggressive on her part?


Well, beth, if I didn't think you were hot before, this line certainly got me.

I see "slutty for me" as wanton, ready, wanting, desirous, begging for it and then more, the smoldering eyes, the pouty lips, mmmm yeah, that all does it for me.



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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 4:14:56 PM   
mozartsfuneral


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Status: offline 		You are most welcome!!! i always wondered if i was too slutty, but i absolutely LOVE when Master has this big grin on His face when i come up with a dirty suggestion...

GREAT thread!!!! :-)

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 4:17:02 PM   
mozartsfuneral


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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 4:32:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
I once made obscene ginger bread men and women, heh.


Hah!  You may have revived my interest in holiday cookie baking with this thought. 

To me, being slutty isn't so much the actions.  Any woman can give head ... a slut does it in a way that makes the man know that she's dying to have him cum in her throat.  Any woman can look across a room at her partner and smile .. a slut gives him *that* smile, with the glance down to his crotch, letting him know exactly what she's thinking and where she'd rather be.  Even an act as inately submissive as kneeling (to me at least!) becomes needy and wanton by the tilt of her body into him, just dying for his touch, the arch of the breasts towards him, the behind tilted out, wanting his caress.  It's in the huskiness of her voice, begging him to use her - anyone can say the words, but the feelings and attitude of neediness behind the begging - that's what says slutty to me in a monogamous relationship.  

When I'm with my vanilla girlfriends and one of them coyly mentions oral sex with her partner and someone calls her a 'slut' ... I think 'yeah, but would she crawl across the floor as seductively as she possibly could, begging to be permitted to worship his cock?  Therein, to me, lies the difference. 

Edited to add:  When the relationship is right ... the slut inside me is very aggressive - I find when something is off-kilter, I'm more passive, waiting for his wanting to see his slut in action.  That comes from being confident to show just how needy I can be.  I find when I'm aggressive I feel even more slutty - the more forward, the more embarrassed I am at my neediness, and the more needy I am ... lovely cycle, which my partner at the time enjoyed immensely. 


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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 5:13:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
she asked the question; "Master, is this slave too 'slutty'?" To which, without thinking, I responded; "you can't be 'slutty' enough!"

Therein lies the dilemma. As much as I've tried to be a 'good' Master; I'm guilty of setting up a situation where no matter what she does, my slave; "can never be slutty enough!;  frustrating her to no end. 


Geez Merc, could you GET any more creative in setting up a wanking thread?  See, at first, I thought you were serious.  I thought, what if you replaced the thought of "sluttiness" with the thought of "love".  If beth had asked you, "do I love you too much?", would you have responded, "you cannot love me enough"?  No, because beth's love for you has no measure, it is perfect for you... just as her sluttiness has no measure, it is perfect for you.

Ya big horndog.


Cali
(who defines her own sluttiness in her willingness to, ummm... [tos violation])



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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 5:37:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		my Sirs slut = open about sexuality, and my desire for sexual activities with HIM.  He fingers me, plays with my labia rings and chastises me for them being "sticky".  He sets me up for failure sexually and then enjoys the result. He bought out my sexuality and enjoys the result, all the while calling me "His slut" - and i love it. He uses me where and when he will - not just in the bedroom.

Now, if someone else called me a slut, i wouldn't be amused!

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 6:40:22 PM   
Aszhrae


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Status: offline 		When girl was much younger, someone calling someone else slutty or a slut was always considered a derogatory and really unkind. It was word meant to hurt.
Being much older now and if a mistress wants to call me her slut, girl is fine with that, but its very different if girl was walking down the street and someone did the same. Girl might just get arrested and charged with assault, since girl would probably want to do damage to them.
Certainly if girl hears it more often, eventually girl will become insensitive to it over time. There are other words that could be used in public. In private, it matters little to me.

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 6:46:44 PM   
mozartsfuneral


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if anyone but my Master called me a slut, i think i too would end up in handcuffs and charged...it still has sting when the person saying it intends it as other then a pet name.

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RE: Slutty Enough - 12/8/2008 6:54:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
is it even possible to be "slutty" within a monogamous D/s, M/s or even a conventional relationship, without,at the very least, having sex or participating in scenes with others?

thank you for taking your time here!

Absolutely, as I often state when the topic of "slut" arises:

Partial repost:
For me, slut has nothing at all to with the ACT of sex, how MANY people you have sex with, what TYPE of sex you have with it, what CRITERIA you use with your partners. Being a slut for me is a personal attitude towards sex and sexuality. It is an attitude that hungers for sexual interactions, is unashamed of those hungers and actively seeks to satiate those hungers.

A woman who only has one partner she only ever kisses her whole life can be just as much a slut as I am.

This also helped me in that I realize so many people (women especially) find it hard to be “a slut.” They can embrace being “someone’s slut” or being a loved slut, but find it difficult to be bald-facedly an open slut. So by keeping things to a personal attitude level, it doesn’t matter HOW the person acts as a slut…simply that they embrace their slut attitude.

In short:
slut- someone who has an active interest in sex, sexuality and celebrates it openly (does not imply any ACTUAL sex, or any AMOUNT of sex)

whore- someone who receives money in exchange for sexual services

bitch- female who has aggravating, negative and superior attitude


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