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RE: How did you get into the scene - 12/11/2008 10:27:00 PM

stella41b

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When I first came to London I was still in my late teens
With a tenner in my pocket and my old duffle bag
I came upon Soho and I discovered the scene
Where I soon got myself a bit more than a shag

The gay males and the she-males each had their own style
And you got felt up in the pubs and attracted stares and smiles
Round the back in the alley you'd give some a quick hand job
Or be on your knees with nine niches in your gob

And the dykes and the butch lesbians were even better still
You'd be given some droplets and some small white pills
If you didn't have any money you could always beg
And end up with something stiff shoved up between your legs

One evening in Leicester Square early in March
I was picked up by the coppers and kicked in the crotch
In the cells down at Bow Street I was beaten and mauled
The coppers didn't take to SSC or RACK at all

I was homeless and slept with old winos who were on the way out
And they would dribble, and vomit, and piss themselves and shout
And the coppers would come along and push them about
And there were times when I got far more than a shag

And now I am sitting here remembering over a can of cheap booze
How I've been beaten and shagged and raped and abused
Years of submission, domination, kinky sex and BDSM
And if my submissive heart chose, I would do it all over again.

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RE: How did you get into the scene - 12/12/2008 6:44:45 AM

justalily

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I learned about it from a friend on a MMORPG. I got to talking to him and i asked how you would know if you were a Dom/me or sub. He asked me why i asked i already knew the answer. I am always helping people and that is where i find my pleasure is in others pleasure. ^-^

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RE: How did you get into the scene - 12/13/2008 1:58:49 AM

XaviersXian

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greetings to all,

I found my calling (initially) through RP chat (though, that was never what it was for me). My first Master taught me well that I was submissive. After we split, I took a bunch of different turns, before discovering the Gorean philosophy. I felt like I'd come home, and have been a scholar of (and believing in) the philosophies ever since.

well wishes,

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RE: How did you get into the scene - 12/13/2008 6:19:35 AM

sabis

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When I was pretty young (9 ish, I think?), I read one of the Gor novels. It seemed pretty cool, so I passed it along to a very butch friend of mine (think of a dyke version of Dolly Parton with short honey-brown hair). She wore her dad's leather hunting vest and I wore an outfit concocted of her mom's silk scarves, and she carried me around her room -- a little captive 'slave girl'.

Fast forward to adulthood: I always wanted to be submissive in the bedroom. Always wanted to feel that frisson of fear from helplessness, always wanted additional penetrations, enough pain to make the pleasure more pleasurable. My partners thought I was a weirdo.

Skip forward another several years: I meet a fellow. We both are part of an online gaming community. We message back and forth. We talk on the phone. He says there are things out there I haven't ever imagined. He tells me that one day, I will walk into a room, and it will be empty save for him in a chair, and a wooden box on the floor. He will tell me to put my hands on the box, and not move, no matter what he does....

My pussy floods. My mouth goes dry. I start shaking. I have no idea what precipice I'm standing at the edge of, I just know that I have to jump, holding his hand, into that unknown.

That was nine years ago, and it's still a grand and lovely adventure.

In His service,

~sabis
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RE: How did you get into the scene - 12/13/2008 7:59:55 AM

windmeup90

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I was introduced to BDSM the same time I was introduced to sex. My first boyfriend, who I "lost" my virginity to, was older than me and very interested in the lifestyle. The first time we had sex he held me down and called me His slut, His plaything. It satisfied a very deep part of me, even more than the sex itself. It went deeper from there on. I seek out bdsm partners, and frankly I think I've only ever had sex with two or three people that were completely unaware of the lifestyle.

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RE: How did you get into the scene - 12/22/2008 12:01:30 PM

jen182

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ive always been submissive but learned of the lifestyle through web searches when i was 16 and have been in it ever since then

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