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LaTigresse -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 3:00:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven Send me $100 and I'll see what I can do. XI Do you take checks?[:D]

came4U -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 3:02:57 PM)
isn't soliciting for funds against TOS? *hurry, someone call a MOD.

ModeratorEleven -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 3:06:55 PM)
I'll call one after I get my $100, and checks are not accepted. XI

E2Sweet -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 3:24:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mydniterose .... I took the advice of another here and at the very bottom of my profile added a phrase that I instruct any writing to me to include in their first contact, otherwise they will be deleted and blocked.... Wow, you are probably going to want to adjust this now since the HNGs are going to see this, view your profile and just scroll down to get the password info to paste it in their form letter... quote: I just don't get it so I am asking the sub/slaves on this site to help me understand. Some people are just here to get off on playing online. Some are here to set up fake profiles and screw with people' heads. Some don't feel they have the energy to send out long, unique messages to each dominant they find interesting. Some are just too lazy. Everyone is different, and I'm sorry to say I don't believe there is an easy 'ah-ha' answer for you. You may find it interesting to know that the connections I've made here are with dominant women that have contacted me first. Its then when I know that they are interested in who I am and what I have to say that I shift into gear so to speak, and start working toward establishing a foundation so her and I can being to see if we are indeed compatible. As for me, I contact very few dominant women here for the purposes of starting a relationship, but when I do I put a good amount of effort in it. I'm somewhat of a perfectionist though so I can't really help that. Unfortunately, in my experience, emailing women who I think, based on their profiles or posts, seem compatible has still not worked for me at all. This avenue has really been a waste of my time so far. Frankly, I'm a bit surprised more dominant women here don't take a more active role in pursuing who they feel they may want to take in as a submissive. It is a bit bewildering to often see dominant women so passive in their search for a compatible submissive. Overall, with the number of fake profiles and shockingly incompatible people one comes across here, it really is hard to do all that needs to be done with a smile when you just don't know if the woman you're reaching out to is even interested in reading your messages, much less into the possibility of meeting. One time, it really wasn't even a dominant woman (as she so boldly claimed to be) that I was pursuing. So yea, there's the outright fraud factor. So with all of the obstacles I've noted here, I do hope the dominant women who read this do see that this isn't exactly as easy as just sending one nice email and viola, ... Edited for clarity...

E2Sweet -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 3:25:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven I'll call one after I get my $100, and checks are not accepted. Oh my, Mod 11 does have a sense of humor! Who'd have thunk it? [;)]

mydniterose -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 5:06:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: E2Sweet quote: ORIGINAL: mydniterose .... I took the advice of another here and at the very bottom of my profile added a phrase that I instruct any writing to me to include in their first contact, otherwise they will be deleted and blocked.... Wow, you are probably going to want to adjust this now since the HNGs are going to see this, view your profile and just scroll down to get the password info to paste it in their form letter... quote: Hopefully I have attached the quote from E2Sweet correctly.... At this point if they had the foresight to mention having read my post here I would accept that as a substitute for the required phrase. At least if that was part of a nicely presented first message as some of them have been. Hey! I can hope can't I? I mean I don't have a spare $100.oo right now for moderatorEleven. snicker

E2Sweet -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 5:13:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mydniterose ...At this point if they had the foresight to mention having read my post here I would accept that as a substitute for the required phrase. At least if that was part of a nicely presented first message as some of them have been. Hey! I can hope can't I? I mean I don't have a spare $100.oo right now for moderatorEleven. snicker Ahh well I can't argue with that, it indeed seems like a fair compromise. [:)] .. and yea, I wouldn't give Mod 11 cash either... He or she will probably just buy booze with it... [;)] I think for the benefit of us all here, any dominant woman who takes on a submissive who admits to not reading profiles before emailing, a reading assignment of War and Peace would be appropriate. That'll learn 'em... Its just a suggestion...[;)]

Lockit -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 5:16:07 PM)
LOL... actually... one said my profile was as long as war and peace and then blocked me! lol

GreedyTop -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 5:36:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven Send me $100 and I'll see what I can do. XI snort (k, I know, I know.. but I couldnt help it... LOL)

E2Sweet -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 5:40:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit LOL... actually... one said my profile was as long as war and peace and then blocked me! lol Hmm...Perhaps a verbal ambush followed by a swift blocking is the new internet foreplay? [:)]

moonvine -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 6:10:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: E2Sweet I think for the benefit of us all here, any dominant woman who takes on a submissive who admits to not reading profiles before emailing, a reading assignment of War and Peace would be appropriate. That'll learn 'em... Its just a suggestion...[;)] Having read War and Peace, all I can say is that is TRULY sadistic...and I LIKE to read.[;)]

Lockit -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 6:11:02 PM)
hehe... I didn't get off to it... but it was funny!

moonvine -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 6:13:06 PM)
I find that not having a picture up at all makes the weeding-out process even easier. I get very little mail other than from board friends. The funny thing is that the mail I do get they often haven't read my profile..and since there's no picture there..I'm really flummoxed as to why they are even sending the mail..oh well.

LaTigresse -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 6:46:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven I'll call one after I get my $100, and checks are not accepted. XI American Express?

OneMoreWaste -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 6:58:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aynne88 I am willing to be though that the ladies here have more of the unwanted e-mail just because we have bewbies and stuff. [;)] Pretty safe bet- I checked, and I've gotten 20 messages in the past 3 months, and only two of them were what I would consider spam. So, set yourself up as a 99-year-old heterosexual submale, and just write at the bottom of your profile that you're actually a Female Dominant [:)] Alternately, I have seen some pics approved with text/watermarks on them, so you can try photoshopping "READ MY PROFILE, BITCHES!" across your chest. But ModXI is no doubt the best bet. Unless, of course, MXI is like a Djinn out of the old tales who grants wishes, but always with a catch, and will solve the problem by remotely blowing up your computer. [:-] Gotta watch out for that.

peppermint -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 7:12:02 PM)
AS they say... You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink.

ModeratorEleven -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 8:31:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: E2Sweet .. and yea, I wouldn't give Mod 11 cash either... He or she will probably just buy booze with it... [;)] After babysitting this crowd, could you honestly blame me if I was an alcoholic? XI

elegantalexis -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 8:36:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven After babysitting this crowd, could you honestly blame me if I was an alcoholic? XI Depends...what's your poison? takes Disarrono amaretto stright up on the rocks

Lordandmaster -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 8:41:00 PM)
1. There's not much you can do. Most men won't take the time to read a profile, especially if it's long. For most men, e-mailing is the salmon-in-the-river approach. Little chance that any one swimmer will hit paydirt, but hey, there's an almost limitless supply. 2. Some people say at the outset that there's a code word somewhere in the profile that you have to include in your e-mail if you want it to be read. 3. But I think that's gimmicky. Just say at the outset: "If it's obvious that you haven't read my ENTIRE profile before e-mailing me, be advised that I won't be bothered to respond." quote: ORIGINAL: mydniterose So, what the hell does a Domme have to do to get it thru to you to actually read the profile and not just look at the pretty pictures?!?

E2Sweet -> RE: How can a Domme encourage subs/slaves to a read the profile before contacting them?!? (12/8/2008 8:53:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven After babysitting this crowd, could you honestly blame me if I was an alcoholic? XI "Come to CollarMe... The place where we drive the staff to drinking one mod at a time..." I feel bad now...

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