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Sore - 12/8/2008 3:45:01 PM

laura2161

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Today I am sore. I literally hurt (in a good way) from my head to my ankles (feet are off limits) It aches to stand, it aches to sit, hell it aches to try to lay down. I am extremely uncomfortable, yet at the same time I feel contented. I'm marked and loving it and at the same time I cringe at the thought of another shower because the water stream well, hurts.

And the kicker is this: When he calls within 30-60 minutes and says he is on his way, I know we will engage in more impact play. I'm looking forward to it as well as not looking forward to it. Make sense?

Heh- Guess I dont know if Im coming or going right now. My question: Do you all take time to 'heal' between beatings, impact play whathave you, or do you just have at it knowing it's going to be hurt upon hurt and still knowing that, look forward to it.?

Damn. I'm rambling.

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RE: Sore - 12/8/2008 3:50:37 PM

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Most of the time since we don't get to see each other as often as we would like, I end up having time to heal in between but there are times when I don't have time to heal and I simply endure it.

He usually though can read me pretty well and knows when my body has had enough and I can't take anymore plus I try to keep the communication open and let him know when I just can't function any further.

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RE: Sore - 12/8/2008 3:54:50 PM

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From what you say, I would think you NEED time to heal. Personally I wouldn't touch you for any play at this point. If you get worse and need medical attention... what will you tell them?

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RE: Sore - 12/8/2008 4:13:46 PM

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I'm becoming more and more addicted to feeling him physically as well as mentally afterwards. I want bruises and soreness and marks. I'd love new ones every single day.

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RE: Sore - 12/8/2008 4:20:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: laura2161

Today I am sore. I literally hurt (in a good way) from my head to my ankles (feet are off limits) It aches to stand, it aches to sit, hell it aches to try to lay down. I am extremely uncomfortable, yet at the same time I feel contented. I'm marked and loving it and at the same time I cringe at the thought of another shower because the water stream well, hurts.

And the kicker is this: When he calls within 30-60 minutes and says he is on his way, I know we will engage in more impact play. I'm looking forward to it as well as not looking forward to it. Make sense?

Heh- Guess I dont know if Im coming or going right now. My question: Do you all take time to 'heal' between beatings, impact play whathave you, or do you just have at it knowing it's going to be hurt upon hurt and still knowing that, look forward to it.?

Damn. I'm rambling.

Sir demands that I take time inbetween sessions. Bodies have to heal. He wouldn't instrument another session right away until time has past. Does your Dom know you are hurting?

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RE: Sore - 12/8/2008 4:26:42 PM

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Oh, I'd say take a break. More physical stress could cause shock.

A nice (weak) sitz bath should fix you up till.............next time. :P

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RE: Sore - 12/8/2008 4:49:08 PM

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Hmmm, I was sore, very similarly to what you describe, on Sunday. Only mine came from a body sculpting/aerobics class I took Saturday morning.

But Master was almost as amused as if He did it Himself.

Seriously, I love to see the bruises He leaves. I would let your Master know the extent of your discomfort- I would let mine know- and then I would let Him determine if I would be taking more impact play. Master takes very good care of His toy, so I know He would never do anything to permanently injure me. Besides, there are so many ways to play- pain and impact are but small items on the menu. Master has been known to torture me and reduce me to a begging mess with the tip of His middle finger.

So, my advice is the refrain you hear so often here: communication, communication, communication.

Although I don't know if your "he" is your master- if he is, you have an obligation to give him all the details of your condition.

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RE: Sore - 12/8/2008 5:45:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

From what you say, I would think you NEED time to heal. Personally I wouldn't touch you for any play at this point. If you get worse and need medical attention... what will you tell them?

I fully agree with Lockit. Master would never play with me until I had healed, and even then he would never play with me to such an extent that I was literally sore all over and bruised/marked all over. He looks after his property and wouldn't want to cause permanent damage.

I dont count bruises/marks as a band of honour and neither does he. He can leave me literally begging and gasping just from a look...

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RE: Sore - 12/8/2008 10:17:53 PM

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Might girl suggest you take a little trip to either a nearby dojo and inquire as to the ointment they use on their bodies to keep swelling down, increase healing and that will allow you to keep training.
If they can not help you, a chinese herbalist, if you can find one may be able to tell you where you might find a similar ointment.
And if you ever have to explain your bruises, could always say that you were engaged in some full contact sparring. They will probably recommend that you the necessary protective gear next time.

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RE: Sore - 12/9/2008 2:09:24 AM

Lashra

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I give my male sub breaks in-between as I feel his body needs time to heal. Also he can suffer from depression a day or two after a scene so I feel its better to give his body and mind time to get back to normal.

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RE: Sore - 12/9/2008 11:34:47 AM

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I guess it depends on what the aching and soreness is. Aching muscles from being bound or suspended is different from having lacerations.

As a rule, if I have areas that have wounds with broken skin, or deep bruising, he wouldn't attack that particular area.

From a personal standpoint, I like the fact that he's sensible about these things and considers the practicalities of me being able to function in my day to day life. It's not always practical to take a day or two out to get over some *play session* just because we CAN play.

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RE: Sore - 12/9/2008 12:44:57 PM

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There's only so much I can take. He's big on nipple torture but if he tried the really ouchy clamps two days in a row, I'd be screaming in agony. He knows I need time to recover.

But bruises are caused by subcutaneous bleeding, so it really isn't a good idea to not let them heal between.

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RE: Sore - 12/9/2008 2:32:47 PM

daddysprop247

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if the soreness is something internal (like pussy, bumhole, etc.), then my body needs time to heal in between and my Master will always ensure that i have that time. if it's muscle aches or bruises and other external things of that nature, healing time is not really necessary.

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RE: Sore - 12/9/2008 3:39:13 PM

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quote:

Heh- Guess I dont know if Im coming or going right now. My question: Do you all take time to 'heal' between beatings, impact play whathave you, or do you just have at it knowing it's going to be hurt upon hurt and still knowing that, look forward to it.?

Take time to heal? Only if he wanted to take time off lol. Myself, if he wanted to beat me, he beat me. End of story. The nature of our relationship did not allow for me to tell him no.

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RE: Sore - 12/9/2008 4:55:12 PM

lally3

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hey laura -

ive never ached from head to foot like that - i have had a fairly battered bum that wasnt given an awful lot of de-briefing time before it got battered again - and yes i always have the feeling afterwards of 'more please' but when it comes im not so eager or resiliant.

go easy with the bruises, arnica is great, there are tabs you can take before a session that reputedly help, never tried them and plenty of arnica cream.. a nice hot bath with some epsom salts is good - hurts i know, but itll push any congestion/inflammation along and itll ease aching muscles.

hugs and have fun xx

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RE: Sore - 12/9/2008 5:41:45 PM

laura2161

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinimint

I dont count bruises/marks as a band of honour and neither does he.

Thanks to all for the comments and suggestions. He took one look at the bruises and marks from the night before said 'thats some good shit' (and I happen to agree) and we ended up popping in a movie.

I'm opposite of the poster I quoted. I love to see the bruises and marks. If I could have them daily I would. Hell, If I could have them in places that were easily seen by me instead of having tp turn around and look in the mirror over my shoulder even better. Not possible with family, job, etc etc. Just saying if I could I would. Has nothing to do with a badge of honor though. I like looking at them and remembering how I got them. I like feeling the achiness in my muscles and knowing it was the Man who caused them.

To be clear though he is not 'my' Master. Is he a Dom? Yes, but not 'my' Dom. It's semantics I know, but we are pretty new to each other and simply prefer that he is the Man and I am the woman he wants to be with. He likes it that way. So do I. Will we be together a month from now? Only time will tell but Im going to enjoy the time we do have and let life take its own path. HAH- talk about hijacking my own thread.

Anyhoo, thanks again for the suggestions and all. I appreciate each of them. Oh and no lacerations.

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RE: Sore - 12/9/2008 9:47:10 PM

Aszhrae

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quote:

ORIGINAL: laura2161

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinimint

I dont count bruises/marks as a band of honour and neither does he.

Thanks to all for the comments and suggestions. He took one look at the bruises and marks from the night before said 'thats some good shit' (and I happen to agree) and we ended up popping in a movie.

I'm opposite of the poster I quoted. I love to see the bruises and marks. If I could have them daily I would. Hell, If I could have them in places that were easily seen by me instead of having tp turn around and look in the mirror over my shoulder even better. Not possible with family, job, etc etc. Just saying if I could I would. Has nothing to do with a badge of honor though. I like looking at them and remembering how I got them. I like feeling the achiness in my muscles and knowing it was the Man who caused them.

To be clear though he is not 'my' Master. Is he a Dom? Yes, but not 'my' Dom. It's semantics I know, but we are pretty new to each other and simply prefer that he is the Man and I am the woman he wants to be with. He likes it that way. So do I. Will we be together a month from now? Only time will tell but Im going to enjoy the time we do have and let life take its own path. HAH- talk about hijacking my own thread.

Anyhoo, thanks again for the suggestions and all. I appreciate each of them. Oh and no lacerations.

Girl can agree with what is said, specifically when it comes to marks. Girl has some permanent ones, scars. Girl remembers how they were received and why, even the lesson that was learned as a result.
Now, unless girl puts her self in harms on purpose to protect my mistress. Girl most certainly vowed never to do anything for a master that has little regard for girl and the damage that she might sustain given a task to do. Given still that girl does not belong to master but belongs to mistress and the hell that was raised each time mistress' pet was injured and mistress found out. Been a few times mistress was tempted to just take her pet some place much safer than in the proximity of master's carelessness.
Live and learn.

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RE: Sore - 12/10/2008 5:24:31 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinimint

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

From what you say, I would think you NEED time to heal. Personally I wouldn't touch you for any play at this point. If you get worse and need medical attention... what will you tell them?

I fully agree with Lockit. Master would never play with me until I had healed, and even then he would never play with me to such an extent that I was literally sore all over and bruised/marked all over. He looks after his property and wouldn't want to cause permanent damage.

I dont count bruises/marks as a band of honour and neither does he. He can leave me literally begging and gasping just from a look...

But that's you.
There is nothing wrong in what the op is doing so long as they both enjoy and remain safe but we should all avoid the 'my Master is better than your Master' spiel.

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RE: Sore - 12/10/2008 5:22:00 PM

BLGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: laura2161

Today I am sore. I literally hurt (in a good way) from my head to my ankles (feet are off limits) It aches to stand, it aches to sit, hell it aches to try to lay down. I am extremely uncomfortable, yet at the same time I feel contented. I'm marked and loving it and at the same time I cringe at the thought of another shower because the water stream well, hurts.

And the kicker is this: When he calls within 30-60 minutes and says he is on his way, I know we will engage in more impact play. I'm looking forward to it as well as not looking forward to it. Make sense?

Heh- Guess I dont know if Im coming or going right now. My question: Do you all take time to 'heal' between beatings, impact play whathave you, or do you just have at it knowing it's going to be hurt upon hurt and still knowing that, look forward to it.?

Damn. I'm rambling.

I absolutely love it when I am marked! I have virtually permanent bite marks on my shoulders and I love it when I am not thinking about them and catch a glimpse of them in the mirror as I step out of a shower. Sends chills down my spine and I relive the feeling all over again. But I digress, back to the topic; it just depends what he wants of me as to whether I am healed in between. Honestly, most of the time I am more likely to want impact play before I am ready, than he is to apply it. I like bruise upon bruise, etc. It comes down to him knowing me and what I can and cannot handle.

Longingly,
BLGirl

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RE: Sore - 12/11/2008 1:23:08 AM

Sinimint

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SteveAndJaz

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinimint

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

From what you say, I would think you NEED time to heal. Personally I wouldn't touch you for any play at this point. If you get worse and need medical attention... what will you tell them?

I fully agree with Lockit. Master would never play with me until I had healed, and even then he would never play with me to such an extent that I was literally sore all over and bruised/marked all over. He looks after his property and wouldn't want to cause permanent damage.

I dont count bruises/marks as a band of honour and neither does he. He can leave me literally begging and gasping just from a look...

But that's you.
There is nothing wrong in what the op is doing so long as they both enjoy and remain safe but we should all avoid the 'my Master is better than your Master' spiel.

Definately wasn't doing the spiel lol. Each to their own. Was only saying what I believe of course, that's what forums are all about. If we all agreed on the same things what a boring world it would be. I mean, I like brussel sprouts, doesn't mean everyone must like them !

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