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What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 7:58:39 PM

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when you use your slave for finacial reasons, like having them clean houses for money? There is a term I have forgotten.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 8:02:03 PM

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EXPLOITATION! That's it. I remembered.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 8:04:04 PM

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Or pimping

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 8:05:14 PM

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Earning your keep?

Getting a job??

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 8:14:35 PM

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What Lynn said and I also call it using His/Her property in a way that pleases Master/Mistress.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 8:20:54 PM

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 8:28:58 PM

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magdelyn
Girl would certainly think otherwise about using, Exploitation, as a word to describe a sub/slave being loaned out to earn a dollar. If anything, girl would perceive such an activity as being one of devotion and maybe even loyalty. It is by choice for some. Some do it willingly. Others might be forced.

trealon:
However, if a sub/slave is loaned out for the purpose of soliciting for sexual favors. Then yes, that girl would consider to be prostitution and in some parts of the world where such practices are legal. Here in the west it is not.

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If a dom/me loans out their sub/slave for the purposes of serving another. It may be to someone that the dom/me knows and trusts. Afterall, if you are a slave, collared and owned, girl does not think that your dom/me would purposely place their property in a situation where they would be harmed.

About being loaned out and not being harmed. Well girl just has to look at the missing tip of her left thumb to know that is not always true. Of course current master just shrugged it off. Mistress was pissed, even threatened to leave master if he ever does it again. Then again, master has given me a few scars over the years too.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 8:36:31 PM

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If a dom/me loans out their sub/slave for the purposes of serving another. It may be to someone that the dom/me knows and trusts. Afterall, if you are a slave, collared and owned, girl does not think that your dom/me would purposely place their property in a situation where they would be harmed.

About being loaned out and not being harmed. Well girl just has to look at the missing tip of her left thumb to know that is not always true. Of course current master just shrugged it off. Mistress was pissed, even threatened to leave master if he ever does it again. Then again, master has given me a few scars over the years too.

I didn't say anything about being harmed. O.o

I compared it to getting a job... and I thought you said in an earlier post that your owners were sympathic to the thumbchop? And it sounded like you did it yourself.... correct me if I'm wrong. I've been dinged up before in my various jobs, from shattering leg bones, to a punch in the face.... I doubt there's too many people who haven't gotten minor injuries here and there from their workplace.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 8:39:57 PM

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Aszhrae, what happened to your thumb. Sounds like a story there.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 9:21:57 PM

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Being useful?

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 9:29:20 PM

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 9:31:49 PM

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Financial delegation.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 9:35:15 PM

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If the lass is giving sexual or similar favours for money (usually with a selectec group of people who I have vetted and am able to trust not to place her at risk or dammage in any manner), she is a coin girl aka my whore.

If the girl is doing part or full time paid employment she is employed

if she passes the money for me to take some to help in the house income/budget and banking the rest for her of which I give her an allowance, she is a slave who does just that.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 9:50:12 PM

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Mistress was sympathetic, the business associate of master was sympathetic (even gave me an extra days pay), master was not. Master expected me to continue working for his business associate. Which of course girl did. Girl was earning money so that master and mistress could go to austria.
It was an accident, the table saw blade was dull and grabbed the piece of hardwood and shot it towards my tummy. Girl prevented it from doing so but touched the blade with my thumb. The blade took the tip off. Still healing. Since girl is a little older, such injuries do not heal as fast, but the plastic surgeon said 7-14 months and my thumb tip will be back to normal, though the thumbnail will be stunted. It happened a few months back.
Girl does not go near anything that does not have a blade guard attached to it.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 9:53:02 PM

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Exactly IronBear, which is what girl gets, monies go into mistress' account and girl gets an allowance that goes into an investment account.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 9:53:02 PM

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Mistress was sympathetic, the business associate of master was sympathetic (even gave me an extra days pay), master was not. Master expected me to continue working for his business associate. Which of course girl did. Girl was earning money so that master and mistress could go to austria.
It was an accident, the table saw blade was dull and grabbed the piece of hardwood and shot it towards my tummy. Girl prevented it from doing so but touched the blade with my thumb. The blade took the tip off. Still healing. Since girl is a little older, such injuries do not heal as fast, but the plastic surgeon said 7-14 months and my thumb tip will be back to normal, though the thumbnail will be stunted. It happened a few months back.
Girl does not go near anything that does not have a blade guard attached to it.

Ah, no fun. At least you got a surgeon to look at it though.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 9:56:58 PM

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It was the following day. Since it happened on Thursday, Friday girl was scheduled for surgery. Girl still think the surgeon should have stuffed it, but he took meat from the inside of my left arm and used it on my thumb. It was an interesting surgery, watched the whole thing.
What a goth kitty girl still is.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 9:58:53 PM

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It was the following day. Since it happened on Thursday, Friday girl was scheduled for surgery. Girl still think the surgeon should have stuffed it, but he took meat from the inside of my left arm and used it on my thumb. It was an interesting surgery, watched the whole thing.
What a goth kitty girl still is.

Haha, I recall being facinated as a child when, after smashing my thumb, the surgeon sewed my thumbnail back on like a button. The lines in the thumbprint still do not meet up.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/8/2008 10:04:43 PM

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Really have to wonder if there is some link between our choice in lifestyle and our fascination with watching someone pierce our skin with a needle for stitches, the pain of having a bone set or just simply realigning your own broken nose.
Really do have to wonder. (Subject of another thread)

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 3:40:13 AM

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Exactly IronBear, which is what girl gets, monies go into mistress' account and girl gets an allowance that goes into an investment account.

That is an excedlent method. Depending on the state of finances, I like a girl to have some form of employment if for nothing else it helps her maintain a sence of worth and allolws her to have an employment record should things go pear shaped between us. Yhus oi know she has a means of self support or is more able to get employment should she relocate. My alternative is to give a girl an employment contract for a set period (5 years is reasonable) and she would be paid the going rate for a domestic or housekeeper. I do insist that she has a bank account whih I keep hold of her deposit book or access card. This account is used to deposit most of her wages and can only be touched by her (stops any fear of her finances vbeing misapropriated). From her wages is deducted an agreed amount to help cover basic living costs and a small amount of petty cash for her to have as a weekly allowance for necessities. There are several ways in which this can be done legally to protecther future and is discussed prior to her being collared. I have both an accountant and solicitor who are familkoiar with my lifestyle and consensual slavery who can assist if working out the legal and accoiunting set up. Essentially I want her to have money being set aside for her future as well as knowing that I am taking all reasonable care of her and her finances. Than I hold the bank accoiunt in trust for her is yet another way in which her slavery or bondage to me is reinforced as is the care I take of her.. Win, Win situation. If it works out thatI do not require her to assist with any financial contributions, that portion isbanked for her also.

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