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IrishMist -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 10:01:14 AM)

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apparently it has some rewards for her or she wouldn't continue this pattern of behavior


Hmm, I guess lol. I just have a hard time understanding why someone would who WANTED to feel the sensations, would go out of their way to DULL the sensations. But then, I would guess that alchohol affects us all differently, for some it enhances, for some it diminishes.

The one time I drank and played...was more than enough to keep me from drinking period lol. Not only were my responses slowed and sluggish...I remembered nothing the next morning...I had to have it repeated, and shown to me. It was enough to scare me shitless lol.



mstrofsnfulplsre -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 10:33:18 AM)

i just want to be known for saying that drinking and play should not be combined



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 11:05:00 AM)

I thought they allow you to bring your own libation to paddles? Guess I got the wrong info, than again I went too late, and didn't even find the place.
I agree, that people are a little less shy/hypervigilant with one or 2 drinks, but would never recommend anyone alter his perception, especially if he has troubles with alcohol or other drugs. M



MsIncognito -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 11:05:08 AM)

Having read through most of the posts in this thread I tend to agree with LA and KevinS. People should do whatever they're comfortable with. Period.

For myself I've never played even slightly tipsy much less "shit faced" as it was so eloquently put. That's not out of some sense of superiority or that mixing alcohol and bdsm is bad, bad, bad. It's because I LOVE to feel every single sensation during a scene and then ride the endorphin high once it kicks in. I definitely don't need alcohol or drugs when those yummy endorphins are pretty trippy all on their own [:D]

Edited to add that not long ago I posted in response to a thread here that I loved the post play endorphin high and someone admonished me for mixing drugs and play. I still giggle when I think about that.



justheather -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 11:17:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MsIncognito

endorphins are pretty trippy all on their own [:D]



Sweet, sweet endorphin rush, how I do love thee.



sweetwhisper -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 11:32:51 AM)

I live in Miami Florida was in NY on vacation so I don't know if you are allowed to bring your own or not, all I know is that we sat at the bar, waiting for the bartender and all we got was someone who asked if we wanted coffee or soda (if i remember correctly these were the options) my friend and i both looked at eachother like, ok where's the booze?!! lol[:D]

sweetwhisper



CelticPrince -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 1:37:39 PM)

drinking before interaction as a hard limit???

That is overkill. What would be the problem? None assuming a non druck state.

Less judgment? perhaps but also less inhibitions as many still suffer from before and during a D/s experience.

Drinking in moderation hurts nothing in my belief and experience. That being said, I rarely drick hard stuff with the exception of XO cognac.

CP



Nendarye -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 4:32:39 PM)


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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

drinking before interaction as a hard limit???

That is overkill. What would be the problem? None assuming a non druck state.

Less judgment? perhaps but also less inhibitions as many still suffer from before and during a D/s experience.

Drinking in moderation hurts nothing in my belief and experience. That being said, I rarely drick hard stuff with the exception of XO cognac.

CP


For myself...I like to drink, mainly because it does loosen me up some. But I get tongue tied in public settings, so drinking often leads to unusual behavior. ( I end up talking tooooooooooooo much ) I would not say that I would put drinking as a 'hard limit', but from personal experience, and just from personal preference...I perfer to be sober, 100%, that way, there can be no excuses the next morning except for my own judgement. Not to mention the fact that I want to feel everything...and being buzzed...well, it just makes me wonder if what I was feeling was real, or just alchohol induced.



IrishMist -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 4:46:26 PM)

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Sweet, sweet endorphin rush, how I do love thee.


/sighs

How I miss thee



daredevil865 -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 4:53:34 PM)

I agree never mix drinking and playing..too easy to spill the drink when you are using a whip

DareDevil



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 5:18:31 PM)

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I agree never mix drinking and playing..too easy to spill the drink when you are using a whip DareDevil
Especially if it's XO cognac? [sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif] Best advice yet! M



topcat -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 5:21:30 PM)

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I agree never mix drinking and playing..too easy to spill the drink when you are using a whip


You've never seen the Amazing MizSuz with a bottle in one hand and a bullhip in the other<g>.

Personally, I usually observe that if you can't handle your liquor, you can't handle SM either.

Stay warm,
Lawrence



daredevil865 -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 5:47:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

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I agree never mix drinking and playing..too easy to spill the drink when you are using a whip DareDevil
Especially if it's XO cognac? [sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif] Best advice yet! M



the problem is what do you put down the drink or the whip...espically tonight...

DareDevil



IrishMist -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 8:27:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: daredevil865

I agree never mix drinking and playing..too easy to spill the drink when you are using a whip

DareDevil



LMFAO...now that is funny



daredevil865 -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 8:37:10 PM)

IrishMist


Thank you... I am Irish so drinking is in the blood

DareDevil



IrishMist -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 8:39:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: daredevil865

IrishMist


Thank you... I am Irish so drinking is in the blood

DareDevil


LMAO so am I...but no drinking in this blood...I'm a tenderfoot when it comes to alchohol



daredevil865 -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 8:43:19 PM)

IrishMist

LOL......I have read alot of your posts and enjoy what you have to say..Hope you have a great 2006

DareDevil




Jasmyn -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 8:57:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: topcat

Personally, I usually observe that if you can't handle your liquor, you can't handle SM either.


lol niice



Nendarye -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 9:29:06 PM)


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ORIGINAL: IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: daredevil865

IrishMist


Thank you... I am Irish so drinking is in the blood

DareDevil


LMAO so am I...but no drinking in this blood...I'm a tenderfoot when it comes to alchohol



/nods earnestly

I can vouch for that, Irish Girl can not hold her licquer (sp)...she does the funniest things



IrishMist -> RE: Alcohol and BDSM (12/31/2005 9:42:44 PM)

[8D]

no kiss and tell now girl...



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