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Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/11/2008 6:54:06 PM   
spankme1985


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Status: offline 		I am into this lifestyle but my boyfriend is not.  He said I can have a Dom on the side as long as he doesn't have to look at the marks afterwards.  So I was curious what could you suggest I do that doesn't leave marks.  I am open to anything!  Even humiliation, public, pain.  Any ideas?
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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/11/2008 6:59:07 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		How easily do you mark to begin with? 

I mark very easily if something breaks the skin.  Fingernail scratches can leave marks on me for months.

On the other hand I do not bruise all that easily, so he can hit pretty hard with things that don't break the skin.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/11/2008 7:36:59 PM   
ohbiguy32


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Status: offline 		Electric play and hot wax come to mind.  orgasm denial,  verbally forced sex acts (limited only by two imaginations).  My suggestion is to talk to him and find out what suites both of you.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/11/2008 7:59:42 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Well I'd recomend a good hand done spanking, but I know if I am spanked hard enough I bruise, so you do have to be aware of bruising, e ven with spankings.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/11/2008 8:04:41 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Find someone who knows pressure points.  They hurt like the dickens and leave nothing behind.  

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/11/2008 8:34:58 PM   
MarcEsadrian


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ORIGINAL: spankme1985

I am into this lifestyle but my boyfriend is not.  He said I can have a Dom on the side as long as he doesn't have to look at the marks afterwards.  So I was curious what could you suggest I do that doesn't leave marks.  I am open to anything!  Even humiliation, public, pain.  Any ideas?


My, my. That's a pretty open-minded "boyfriend" you have there. I'll go along with the story and say it's the marks made on your mind he should be more concerned with. For what it's worth, plastic clothespins and 9-volt batteries work well if employed creatively.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/11/2008 10:14:45 PM   
spankme1985


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much for your reply's!  He is very open minded but the though of controlling me creeps him out!  Trust me I would much rather be submitting to him but it is hard enough getting him to even be rough in the bedroom let alone anything else.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/12/2008 5:43:33 AM   
OrionTheWolf


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Status: offline 		Not someone that just knows their locations, but knows them every well so that they do not cause nerve damage at the pressure point, or bruising by pressing to hard. My slave discovered the fact rather early that I know several painful ones that I learned while studying Tai Chi. I only use them for punishment or to gain her attention though.


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ORIGINAL: peppermint

Find someone who knows pressure points.  They hurt like the dickens and leave nothing behind.  


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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/12/2008 5:47:48 AM   
greeneyedreamer


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Trust me I would much rather be submitting to him but it is hard enough getting him to even be rough in the bedroom let alone anything else.



I'll never work in the long run,but you will be the one to find that out. Good Luck.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/12/2008 9:24:53 AM   
Mercnbeth


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...So I was curious what could you suggest I do that doesn't leave marks...


online roleplay?

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/12/2008 1:05:49 PM   
kristileigh


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Status: offline 		Cinnamon oil on sensitive spots that get my attention pretty darn fast. And the feeling will last a long time if not properly washed off.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/12/2008 2:16:39 PM   
FlamingRedhead


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Status: offline 		Since you can't have any marks, you might as well just do whatever you're going to do with your boyfriend.  You don't need a dom to engage in light bondage with silk scarves, blindfolds, feathers, ice, vibrators, butt plugs, ginger, massage, sensual spanking, or nipple pinching.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/12/2008 9:00:46 PM   
mummyman321


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Status: offline 		Handcuffs, an inflatable butt plug, and a TENS unit on the cock and ball cranked all the way up....no marks...butt it will make him squirm!

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/14/2008 1:15:50 PM   
spankme1985


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Status: offline 		But he wont do any of that with me.  No vibrators, scarfs, nothing.  He just likes plain sex.  Which he is great at, but I love submitting.  Especially in the bedroom, and around the house. =/

I love him, but I need more sexually.  And he is willing to let me find it elsewhere but like I said he just doesn't want to see the marks left by someone else.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/14/2008 1:24:53 PM   
StormsSlave


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Status: offline 		Face slapping doesn't usually leave marks.  Breast slapping, if done right.  Humiliation is exciting.  Nipple clamps, food play.  My Lord dominates me with his hands on my head: in my hair, on my throat, holding me by the chin, fingers in my mouth.  Exciting, and no marks!  Hope this helps.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/14/2008 1:26:50 PM   
spankme1985


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Status: offline 		Storm... those ideas sound wonderful thank you!

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/14/2008 2:39:31 PM   
gypsygrl


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Status: offline 		You've gotten a lot of good ideas in these responses so I won't comment.

But, I love the thread title. :)  Its like a bit of found poetry.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/14/2008 2:41:47 PM   
spankme1985


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Status: offline 		Thank you! 

BTW: I am very upfront in my profile b.c I don't want to lead any master on.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/14/2008 2:43:33 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I agree with what some have said about ideas.  Violet wand could be an option.  I have a way of cupping that will allow the marks to fade by the following day.  As was said, depending on how easily you mark would allow Me to provide better answers.

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RE: Need ideas that don't leave marks!!! - 12/14/2008 2:46:08 PM   
spankme1985


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Status: offline 		I don't seem to mark to easitly.  Redness seems to fade fast bruises not so fast

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