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beeble -> RE: what must i do to be owned? (12/14/2008 8:51:12 AM)
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Madame4a wrote:
On a practical level -- it might be better to shoot for something a bit different before ownership. To me, and maybe others, ownership is a really big step and commitment that I do not take lightly. I don't wish to 'own' someone -- but rather to get to know people, if ownership is in the cards, we'll know but not right away.
Indeed. It would look really weird if somebody posted asking why it's so hard to find somebody to marry. For me, at least, asking why it's so hard to find an owner is a question on a similar level.
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On a more practical level, if this is your only outlet then you need to make it work for you. Change your profile -- talk about who you are and what you really do have to offer someone.
Agreed. Your (unworthyhuman's) profile comes across to me as rather needy and desperate. Mostly, it says, `I'll do anything you want, however you want me to do it.' And, really, that's a strange thing to say. On the one hand, isn't it obvious that the submissive does whatever his Mistress wants, especially if he's calling himself a slave? On the other hand, surely this isn't true? I bet there are all kinds of things you wouldn't do. So isn't the point that you're really looking to be owned by somebody for whom you feel you'd do (almost) everything she might reasonably be expected to ask of you? I think I'd at least consider anything that my Mistress asked of me but that's because I know her well and know what sorts of things she might ask for, not because I'm some sort of ubersub (untersub?) who'll take anything.
Also, are you sure about the female supremacy thing? Every other movement in history that purports that one group of people is supreme over some other group has been pretty obnoxious.
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You might keep the laundry list for the getting to know you portion of a relationship.
Or tick some of the checkboxes in the `interests' section of the profile (click the button at the top left of the `Edit profile' page) to give that information. Maybe it's just me but listing things there seems like a normal and neutral way of letting people know what you're into, as a basis for judging compatibility, while listing them in the text part of your profile sounds more like you're making demands.
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And yes, change your name -- I am not interested in having someone unworthy in my life and I'd guess others might feel similarly. You had better be worthy or you're not going to be good for anyone.
Absolutely, change your name. Speaking from the other end of the leash, I couldn't spend any time with somebody who thought I was worthless. I want to be with, and am with, somebody who appreciates me and values me.
beeble
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