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ORIGINAL: newflowers

If you do a search, you're sure to find several threads about daddies.

For me, Daddy is the authority, his is the greater power and the greater strength, the absolute control - much like one would consider a dominant partner called by most other names. i am his submissive and i take great pride and pleasure in serving him in myriad ways, those domestic and sexual. i obey him and when obeying is difficult, i strive to do so anyway both because obedience is what he wants and because giving to him that which is wants is what i want as well. i could go on here, but i think you get the general idea.

In addition to the dominant/submissive dynamic, within me there is a little girl who needs nuturing and safety and protection in a different way than the submissive woman of me. Daddy gives that to me - it is what daddies do - or at least what my daddy does. It is trust and submission on a different level - it is the softest part of me that i entrust to him. As a submissive woman, i am competent and efficient in fulfilling his needs; as a girl, it is authority, power, control, and safety, and the need for his approval in a different manner; he nurtures the most fragile part of me. And so daddy he is.

The daddy/little girl dynamic is not about pedophilia and it's not about any lack that results from my - or his - childhood. There are some littles who have particular ages - that is not me and so maybe someone else will write about that. There are some to whom daddy/little girl is about roleplay - that is not me either, but i'm certain someone else may adress that aspect for you.

Daddy is the safe haven of my dominant partner.

-a-

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ORIGINAL: SweetEscravo

Is there anyone out there who can explain the "Daddy" expression to me? I've never really understood it's use, and I'm wondering if there is anyone who does/uses it. I never thought it would be something I could say with a straight face, but I dreamt about it last night, and now I'm just curious. Anyone who knows anything about it, let me know

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Is there anyone out there who can explain the "Daddy" expression to me?

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross


I'll just add that the "daddy" aspect is usually someone in a dominant position who takes a more nurturing/guiding perspective than simply being dominant and in charge. There's usually a lot more emotions attached to it and a sense of family. There are many people who have "daddies" but aren't necessarily their own dominants.

Same goes for mommies.