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RE: Inpressing a Mistress.. - 12/21/2008 8:13:31 AM

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Who's the lucky guy CatdeMedici? I have the same problem as many male subs inattracting a Domme. I am new at this, but have to explore this side of myself. Please give me a hint on how to attract a Domme. I think I can be very obedient and have alot to give.

Bye the way, I think your Avatar is just fine.
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RE: Inpressing a Mistress.. - 12/22/2008 5:02:04 AM

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Either that, or you ARE topping from the bottom.

LOL, I thought he was being a comedian myself. M

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RE: Inpressing a Mistress.. - 12/22/2008 11:35:22 AM

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Hello to all Mistress's.Goddess's,and princess's I am Donny(SimplyDesire) I wish if it pleases your Greatness to ask a question.I have a slave heart and desire nothing more than to serve a Mistress.I am tring to impress. I don't want to seem dumb,and just sit there and nod,But when I try to show I have a brain and enjoy using it,I get the responce"Your tring to top from the bottom" I am very new to this and am makeing mistakes. I think I've lost some good Domme's in this matter.Please how should I act.To show I'm not a idot,but am a Submissive....Looking to be owned...SimplyDesire

Just obey and try not to intellectualize the whole process of submission.

We men are so used to "handling it" that we get a little full of ourselves and even think we know better when its not our place to judge that.

Take a look at your ego and keep it in check. Keep it simple and follow her lead... don't try to show her how smart you are...she probably already knows that by now.

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RE: Inpressing a Mistress.. - 12/22/2008 2:03:44 PM

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Great advice. M

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Just obey and try not to intellectualize the whole process of submission.
Take a look at your ego and keep it in check. Keep it simple and follow her lead... don't try to show her how smart you are

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RE: Inpressing a Mistress.. - 12/22/2008 3:36:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMAAM1

Great advice. M
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Just obey and try not to intellectualize the whole process of submission.
Take a look at your ego and keep it in check. Keep it simple and follow her lead... don't try to show her how smart you are

Thank you, Ma'am.

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RE: Inpressing a Mistress.. - 12/23/2008 3:59:46 AM

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Some years back, an unsuccessful submissive once asked me why he wasn't making any inroads with the dominant women to whom he was trying to serve. I listened to him over a bunch of different conversations (I knew him through a bdsm group where I was once an officer), and what kept coming up was something that I've managed to make my own, and I think most good submissives tend to make their own: If you ask a woman what she wants, actually go through the work of making it happen once you find out. This may sound really silly, but you'd be shocked at how many men don't make it to step two because of this, thinking that merely "asking" is good enough. Quite often, the "work" involved is more than they want to do, so they cut corners and hope that things work out, and that somehow she'll "remember" how diligent he/she was in asking.

Find out what she wants, and make sure that's what she gets. Put forth as much effort as possible to make sure that she gets the quality product, and not the Walmart discount product instead that was manufactured by people only looking to make the quickest profit with the most customers with less than great materials. (yeah, I know this may start a whole Walmart thing, but let's just leave it at the dorky metaphor and stay with that)

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RE: Inpressing a Mistress.. - 12/23/2008 6:20:43 AM

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