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Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 12:37:54 AM   
eponastar


Posts: 76
Joined: 11/19/2004
Status: offline 		Hey Ladies,

Hopefully the holidays has brought you lots of joy instead of stress. I have been on this site for a while, and posted a couple of times to the boards but now I have a question.

My new boy is a doll, but he is also a busy medical student just finishing his finals. I have been encouraging him and he has done quite well on his finals. I am in need of ideas for rewards when I get his final report card!

Any ideas ladies?!
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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 3:53:14 AM   
MsStarlett


Posts: 1879
Joined: 12/23/2007
Status: offline 		Sex

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 4:14:29 AM   
housesub4you


Posts: 1879
Joined: 4/2/2008
Status: offline 		well that ends this discussion rather quickly... On to the next thread!

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 4:17:10 AM   
persephonee


Posts: 5089
Joined: 12/15/2007
Status: offline 		wait....i want in on the sex too....

how about a spa pkg with a massage in there somewhere so he can destress before you go and have him all exerted and exhausted again??....

perse may need to call her spa today....

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 4:27:27 AM   
Lynnxz


Posts: 4813
Joined: 10/3/2006
From: Atlanta
Status: offline 		Every once in a while we do the couples massage thing, and then are off to a nice hotel for a night of grabass.... it's like a little minivacation.

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 5:14:42 AM   
RichieB


Posts: 87
Joined: 8/30/2008
Status: offline 		If he's really good, lots of sex...

My sub came over last week to put up my Christmas tree and took me shopping.
I gave him the best blow job he ever had.....


Diane

< Message edited by RichieB -- 12/18/2008 5:45:14 AM >

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 5:25:30 AM   
beeble


Posts: 799
Joined: 5/25/2005
From: UK
Status: offline 		Sorry to be really boring but you know what he likes much better than we do!

beeble.

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 5:57:45 AM   
MISTRESSKUMA


Posts: 226
Joined: 8/15/2007
Status: offline 		I agree with the rest of these Women.

Well I would have to say let the male have a little pussy. It's a great way to keep males in check.

It's the power of pussy!

We all know how much men love pussy. If he deserves some, give some to the man as a reward but only if he really deserves it.

If not, let him kiss your ass instead.






quote:

ORIGINAL: eponastar

Hey Ladies,

Hopefully the holidays has brought you lots of joy instead of stress. I have been on this site for a while, and posted a couple of times to the boards but now I have a question.

My new boy is a doll, but he is also a busy medical student just finishing his finals. I have been encouraging him and he has done quite well on his finals. I am in need of ideas for rewards when I get his final report card!

Any ideas ladies?!


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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 7:02:00 AM   
laky


Posts: 1
Joined: 11/12/2007
Status: offline 		get him a lab+ sex + trample = his satisfaction
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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 7:11:00 AM   
AlexandraLynch


Posts: 778
Joined: 3/24/2008
Status: offline 		A sensuous meal in which he doesn't have to rush to be anywhere, and slow, sensuous sex. And you can still dominate during something like that, it's just not so overt and showy.


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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 7:14:49 AM   
SunNMoon


Posts: 1058
Joined: 3/18/2007
Status: offline 		For one of my boy's it's spankings.

Go with something that he loves. You know him better then we do.

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 7:45:48 AM   
Rule


Posts: 10479
Joined: 12/5/2005
Status: offline 		A kiss or a hug or both will do.

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 7:54:15 AM   
OttersSwim


Posts: 2860
Joined: 9/1/2008
Status: offline 		Electronics...

Electronics for most boys...are like cosmetics for most girls...irresistible...


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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 8:11:01 AM   
RichieB


Posts: 87
Joined: 8/30/2008
Status: offline 		Almost forgot to add, photograph the session so, he has something to remember.

Diane


quote:

ORIGINAL: RichieB

If he's really good, lots of sex...

My sub came over last week to put up my Christmas tree and took me shopping.
I gave him the best blow job he ever had.....


Diane


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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 8:31:25 AM   
WalterRego


Posts: 276
Joined: 12/28/2004
Status: offline 		How about a trip to Zingermans in a collar and cuffs?

Or half an hour in Meijers, where he gets to pick out something pervertable for You to play with on him?


< Message edited by WalterRego -- 12/18/2008 8:36:58 AM >

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 8:43:30 AM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		Chocolate and sex.  In whatever order, or simultaneously.  But FIRST----the chance to sleep as long as he wants, in peace and quiet with NO interruptions!  Then the sex.  There are times when sleep is the best gift of all, and the day after finals certainly counts!

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 9:05:53 AM   
Lockit


Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline 		Having taken some of those medical test... I would think he would need a nap!  Once rested... a treat might be in order and I am sure you could come up with something special since you know him.  But maybe a bit of medical play... him the patient... with mistress nurse?  But do let him know... for the sake of us sickies out there... that this is not instruction on bedside manner!  Yikes!

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 12:11:46 PM   
PeonForHer


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Joined: 9/27/2008
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Sex


A present to someone is supposed to be something that person would like, not something the giver would enjoy.  That's why it's a "present".

Isn't it funny how all these really old, Victorian views are still alive and well even in this D/s Community in the 21st century?  Sex is something that a woman gifts to a man.  It's not something she herself enjoys, obviously.  Perish the thought.  

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 12:16:19 PM   
Lockit


Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline 		Oh I just hate sex!  I might even beat on someone who tries to get some! hehe 

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RE: Submissive Rewards - 12/18/2008 5:00:03 PM   
Madame4a


Posts: 2045
Joined: 2/4/2008
From: Washington, DC area
Status: offline 		I just have to hijack for a moment...

MY goodness its great to read you..

quote:

ORIGINAL: WalterRego

How about a trip to Zingermans in a collar and cuffs?

Or half an hour in Meijers, where he gets to pick out something pervertable for You to play with on him?



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But you f*ck so good, I'm on top of it
When I dream, I'm doing you all night
Scratches all down my back to keep me right on

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