RE: please and thank you

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: please and thank you

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> RE: please and thank you

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: please and thank you - 12/25/2008 3:50:03 PM

leadership527

Posts: 5026
Joined: 6/2/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: lynn1947
When your Owner uses please and thank you with requests for you? How does it make you feel? Do you not take it as an order if it has please after it? Are you more eager to comply if you hear please?

I generally speak to mine as I would anyone else... that is to say politely. It is generally understood that EVERYTHING is a command unless specifically noted. She does get a small thrill out of direct commands but also appreciates the courtesy. At least for us, it seems to be "a bit of this and a bit of that".

_____________________________

~Jeff

I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael

(in reply to lynn1947)

Profile

Post #: 41

RE: please and thank you - 12/25/2008 4:20:47 PM

jen182

Posts: 495
Joined: 11/29/2008
Status: offline

i have to agree with many of the other ones who posted, it means they have manners, i personally like it, though it takes some getting used to , its one thing that makes me a happier person knowing that what i am doing gets noticed

(in reply to SimplyMichael)

Profile

Post #: 42

RE: please and thank you - 12/26/2008 9:31:41 AM

T1981

Posts: 557
Joined: 12/6/2008
Status: offline

This is a good question. We haven't really gotten much into the verbal ettiquette of BDSM, but I have noticed lately that he has been having me say "Thank you" whenever I get a good beating from him. This is an interesting idea, going to talk to him about this!

(in reply to SimplyMichael)

Profile

Post #: 43

RE: please and thank you - 12/26/2008 10:18:11 AM

agirl

Posts: 4530
Joined: 6/14/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: lynn1947

When your Owner uses please and thank you with requests for you? How does it make you feel? Do you not take it as an order if it has please after it? Are you more eager to comply if you hear please?

this is the question my Master ask me. i answered it as honest as i could . how do some of you feel about please and thank you

thank you for your time from Master and i

It doesn't make me feel anything at all. If he asks me to do something, it's expected to be done. I'm no more eager to comply whether it's present or not.

He has impeccable manners with everyone and I don't expect to be treated any differently as a matter of course. He sometimes barks out the odd order when I'm being ignorant or wrapped up in myself and what I'm doing.

Depending on the situation, a please can be slightly threatening, and the lack of, nothing more than the fact that we are comfortable.

agirl

(in reply to lynn1947)

Profile

Post #: 44

RE: please and thank you - 12/26/2008 11:32:23 AM

Morniel

Posts: 60
Joined: 11/9/2007
Status: offline

I just remember something learned in military service: A request, however politely phrased, from a superior officer, is an order.
I remember further that those officers, regardless of rank clear on up to Field Marshall or General, who phrased their orders as "Please take care of this" or "Do this, please" were the officers whose orders were most cheerfully followed. Such seemingly minor courtesies reinforce the impression that the person is firmly in control, because it shows that they don't *need* to act like jackasses to gain compliance.
In my own relationship, "please" and "thank you" are things we never even think about, because they are simply part of the courtesies expected of adults, as well as being indicators that Soltic is so in-control that he can be courteous, regardless of the situation.

(in reply to SimplyMichael)

Profile

Post #: 45

RE: please and thank you - 12/26/2008 11:59:33 AM

nalla06

Posts: 6
Joined: 9/6/2008
Status: offline

Sir has always said please and thank you to me,mostly when it is something that i have done with out Him asking, and not on the things to do list. That little extra while He is gone or remembering something He mention in a abstract way. The best things i had to get used to though, was having Him open doors for me. No one since my dad has ever done this. It can trip my trigger any day, to know there is still some gentlemen out there.

(in reply to SimplyMichael)

Profile

Post #: 46

RE: please and thank you - 12/26/2008 1:32:47 PM

malloves69

Posts: 913
Joined: 9/15/2006
Status: offline

i always thank my mistress when she cums over