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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 11:44:55 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I flirt in real life too. And the friends that I am flirting with know there's no seriousness attached to it.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I have noticed that I'm freer online, and flirt much more than in RL.  I have flirted with women in RL moniogamous relationships, and flirted with literally a dozen women at the same time.  I have also noted a tendency of women to flirt with other women more..

I think that it's cool that there is a medium (the Net) which permits flirting without any seriousness attached to it.

Anyone else?


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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 11:48:47 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I don't flirt in r/l. Someone might think I was for real and I would hate to mislead them. Plus if I try to flirt in r/l and get slapped down for it, the rejection hurts more.

Here, by the time I get back to a thread it doesn't matter. If they flirt back, fine. If not I've already forgotten about it. No bad possible repercussions. They don't like it, they don't respond. That's a lot different then standing up, walking away and leaving me with egg on my face or on theirs.

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 12:10:00 PM   
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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 12:22:21 PM   
SavageFaerie


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Status: offline 		I have no problem flirting online till/unless the others person does thet cyber sex thing, then its a instant turn off.

I dont or havent flirted in real life in a while as I am minus anyone to flirt with. I might have to take lessons to remember how.

Im also shy at first unless there is a long time friendship online, my anxiety defiently gets the best of me

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 1:00:34 PM   
marie2


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Status: offline 		Absolutely.  I enjoy flirting in forums such as these where I feel "familiar" with certain people, even though I haven't met them.  And yeah, it's easier to do here than in real life.  But my flirting is usually genuine...In other words I mostly flirt with guys (and a girl here or there) that I'm actually drawn to or attracted to.  I have to admit though, on rare occasion, I'll throw someone a mercy-flirt too. 

In real life, I flirt a bit too, but it's not as easy, and it's after I feel comfortable with someone, and even at that, I'm still bashful and I usually end up making myself blush.  A little embarassing but oh well.

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 1:05:46 PM   
E2Sweet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

...I think that it's cool that there is a medium (the Net) which permits flirting without any seriousness attached to it....


So what you're saying is we're actually allowed to flirt here?... I so did not get that memo...


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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 1:23:11 PM   
GoodFeathers


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Status: offline 		yeah, I tend to flirt on and offline, whether I'm attached or not.  My flirting is meaningless unless I state otherwise.  

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 1:32:43 PM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: cjan

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I never fart...


Typo corrected...you're welcome.




Hahahahahaa...I don't do that either.

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 1:56:46 PM   
AquaticSub


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I'm just a flirt, and I flirt all the time with my friends online or offline. I do flirt on here, maybe I'm secretly hoping it will lead to something.

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 1:57:29 PM   
sblady


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Status: offline 		I flirt all the time, IRL as well as online.  I keep it clean and usually rely upon double entendres or flirt with folk that can read between the lines. 

However,  I make sure the recipient of said flirting is receptive and aware that I'm flirting.



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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 2:08:28 PM   
cravesdom


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Status: offline 		I flirt a lot. In rl and online. My honey knew that coming into this relationship, so no biggie. If he were the jealous type there might be issues. But then again, he flirts too.

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 2:20:00 PM   
impishlilhellcat


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Status: offline 		Oh goodness I flirt all the time although I do find myself flirting much more offline that I do online

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 4:39:51 PM   
FourQ


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Status: offline 		I rarely flirt, I'm not particularly accomplished at it, but I'm the same online as IRL in every aspect.



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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 4:44:02 PM   
girlygurl


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Status: offline 		I'm just a big flirt on and off the computer.


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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 8:32:43 PM   
MarksFantasyGirl


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Status: offline 		Online, I can flirt with strangers.  But in RL, I only flirt with my friends.  I'm really very shy until I get to know someone.  But on here, I flirt CONSTANTLY.  I was told to quit.  But I can't.  ::shrug::

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 9:26:51 PM   
zakkan


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Status: offline 		I don't know how to flirt...

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/21/2008 9:40:48 PM   
MarksFantasyGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SavageFaerie

I have no problem flirting online till/unless the others person does thet cyber sex thing, then its a instant turn off.

I dont or havent flirted in real life in a while as I am minus anyone to flirt with. I might have to take lessons to remember how.

Im also shy at first unless there is a long time friendship online, my anxiety defiently gets the best of me


I'll teach ya!! 

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/22/2008 7:00:50 AM   
masterofdrkness2


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Status: offline 		what is this thing you speak of called flirting ? lol

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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/22/2008 9:57:58 AM   
LumusandtheLady


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Status: offline 		I'm actually more reserved here than in real life.
 
[Just let that digest a bit.]


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RE: Being polyflirtatious online. - 12/22/2008 1:25:49 PM   
MarksFantasyGirl


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Status: offline 		Hello.  I'm Fannie, and I'm a flirtaholic with my mind in the gutter.....  it's been 2 minutes since my last flirty moment

Ok, 1 step down.... 11 more to go! 

The first step to recovery is admitting you have a problem!

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