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SimplyIsaac -> RE: Tis the season to be trolling! (12/22/2008 11:23:00 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
Troll paranoia... troll idea... and troll accusation of some is being abused for an agenda.
Just what agenda to you think it is that we who use the word troll have? The idea of a troll is not simply an idea... they are a fact of a woman's experience at a site like this or anywhere else online. People who are seeking some sexual fulfillment hit the online roads, seeking someone to play with. They do not care who. They do not care about that person and sometimes the people they are involved with in real life and they simply want to find some easy target for their lust. They are real and not an idea.
Can't argue you there at all.
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
I do not know one dominant or woman that is paranoid or afraid of a troll. Tired of them, disgusted at times, laughing at others; yes.
While I am aware of the fact that some may get caught up in a personal opinion on how someone presents as a troll and be called something they don't feel they are... we have some in-general clues/red flags and the like, that we each must go by to deal with the email and request for 'you name it' that we are presented with on a daily basis and often times by the hour or minute. You log on and those quick on the mouse have sent off a form letter or one line email asking or saying something or showing something, no one would say or do when in-person and a stranger.
Simply because we carry certain female bits.. we are subject to their lust or perversion/fetish. Some of these things can be rather disgusting and tedious when they come in mulitples. If you see anything in the women around here... it is not fear... it is more like... shit another ass hole treating me like a peice of female meat here to service his needs, whatever they are. We are not a person to these people... just a tool or vessel to be used at their whim if we comply.
While many of us try to be fair, we are human and might make a mistake. But most often when a mistake is being made it is because someone thinks a bdsm site is one in which 'anything' goes and the 'loose' women here are ready to play with any cock that present's itself.
If one doesn't take sexual liberties and speaks to us like a human being, with a bit of respect one would show a stranger in person... they are not going to be called a troll. If someone comes on talking about his sexual or bdsm needs in a way that is seen as if we are objects for his pleasure, he will be called a troll. I cannot go into all the ways one can consider someone a troll or how a person called a troll presents themselves, but most see it if they hang around long enough.
If you want to stand on the basis that anything a man says to us is okay... then I am sure we will seem unfair... but believe me, most of us are really looking for the positive in people, but most often don't see it because of the blantant and inconsiderate words and actions of people who wish to use us.
I know what you're saying, and holy moly, well said. I had the (dis?)pleasure once of having to monitor my Mistress's account, because of just this reason. I was amazed mow much more attention women get from men.
and it's pretty bad attention too.
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
Now, a question or two for you. What is a paddle parade? How do you speak directly that would make someone call you a troll? What agenda is it that we have? And if someone is misunderstood and mistaken for a troll, don't you think he could speak up and show that he didn't mean whatever the way it was taken or something?
Oh, I just mean the usual internet cliques you see on chat boards.
I've been getting to know them here and there already. As far as proving I'm not a troll, no. I don't feel like I need to prove it at all.
I could care less what someone thinks of me if they can't see my message and would rather attack me just because I don't genuflect before the popular kids and kiss ass.
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
If someone comes in saying something like... I really like to get fucked in the ass and lick your pee and worship your ear and play, why won't anyone let me? They are going to get slam dunked for a lot of reasons. Like, we don't know who the heck they are and they want sex and are impatent for it and are upset they aren't getting it, so they are complaing to us becasue no one falls in line with what they want. Do you really think we should accept that kind of treatment with no response?
Seriously, absolutely not. I agree with you 100%.
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