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RE: Any ideas to kick my butt into gear? - 12/23/2008 12:10:58 AM

eponastar

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Pray. And then put your focus on yourself.

Remeber, the universe never gives you more than you can handle at one time. I know it doesn't seem like it right now, but you will make it through

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RE: Any ideas to kick my butt into gear? - 12/24/2008 7:57:13 AM

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To the OP:
Hang in there! I appreciate you stepping up and asking for help when you had a disaster happen in your life. That takes the kind of courage that is very hard for many people to express, especially when they need it most. And I can tell you are doing your best to get back on track. I hope your babies come back safe and happy to see you!
Grieve, walk, laugh with friends, do some volunteer work at an animal shelter?

It does get better, day-by-day.

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I wish you healing, and family who will surround you with love and support.

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RE: Any ideas to kick my butt into gear? - 12/25/2008 5:54:11 AM

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Yesterday a park ranger called me to let me know she'd seen my dogs that morning together lurking around the park office. We drove out there but by the time we got there it was dark, was drizzling, and they never came while we were hiking around calling for them. At least I know they're okay. My boy left some treat crumbs leading to the office and I'm hoping that it tempts them enough in their hunger to let them catch them thinking maybe the people will feed them.

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RE: Any ideas to kick my butt into gear? - 12/25/2008 6:55:27 AM

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It's wonderful to hear that they had been spotted, they are together and you were able to make the trip to try to connect. I realize it wasn't a success, but the ranger's know how bad you want them and I'm sure they want to help you get them back. I do hope you have a reunion with them soon.
What a crappy series of events, but all the other things are water under the bridge (no pun intended in light of your stream crossing misadventure). I just hope your pups are back home with you very soon.

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RE: Any ideas to kick my butt into gear? - 12/25/2008 9:07:52 AM

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I hope that we'll get a happy ending to this story soon. Might you ask one of the park rangers to get a sedative blow dart gun type thing so next time they see them they can shoot them with it and carry them inside? I know that's pretty far fetched but it can't hurt to ask right?

I also want to offer my sympathy and understanding to the whole roommate situation. In college I found someone to room with off craigslist who turned out to be completely unstable (mentally) and I found myself "evicted" after living there 6 months. Just came home one day and the girl flipped out (was off her meds, as it turned out.) So while there may be more to the story, I absolutely know the feeling of being told to leave the premises and fearing for your own safety and the safety of your possessions. If I were you I'd thank whatever gods you believe in that you have such a good boy to take you in and take care of you. Allow him to do this for now as you need it and make sure you're back strong for him as soon as you can be.

I wish you the best and I have faith you'll get the girls back.

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RE: Any ideas to kick my butt into gear? - 12/28/2008 5:21:24 AM

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i am sorry You have had to deal with all the negative stuff that has happened to You, one thing that is constant is Your boy and his love for You .. treasure this and You will know that You actually have something alot of people are envious of , a real solid relationship. yes things look bad right now, but how wonderful Your boy is taking this as the time to come through for You. how very lucky You are ...

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RE: Any ideas to kick my butt into gear? - 12/28/2008 7:34:17 AM

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Well, when I don't feel like doing something fun with my loved ones, I make myself do it and many times I discover that I start having fun.

In terms of the emotional things that have happened, you need to talk about them especially your worries about your dogs. If your boy isn't willing to listen to you and offer you as much support as you need for as long as you need, consider talking to another friend or religious figure you know. You need to deal with the emotions because ignoring them just increases their power I believe.

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