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CatdeMedici -> Your Diversity (12/23/2008 9:53:16 AM)

You know, sometimes we are pretty damned snarky when we respond to posts ( I am guilty as well) and yet those few lines cannot possibly convey the magnificent diversity that make up all of what We are.  Maybe sharing some of the polar opposite elements of us might be fun:
 
1. I adore floggers! Nothing more sexually hot for Me than a bare male bottom upturned and ready or not
 
2. Each leg on My bed has a length of chain, I love the sound of the clinking during the night.
 
3. I crochet, lots
 
4. I ride horses
 
5. I am a Civil War fanatic
 
6. I cook--very well.
 
7. I do not prance around in stilettos and leather
 
8. I look damn good in jeans and bare feet
 
9. I'm the chain of command, I command--end of the chain ( I saw this on  someone's post tag line and loved it!)
 
10. I cry at weepy commercials and the sound of My UM's laughter
 
11. I love laugh and hate to frown.
 
 
Ladies?



Steponme73 -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 10:26:42 AM)

Interesting...



sodsta -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 10:36:52 AM)

Awwww, this post is a sweet idea. :) Alright, I'm in.

1. I love floggers and paddles and other thuddy impact toys.

2. I prefer ropes over chains and leather.

3. I love and collect Disney music :)

4. I dislike most male fetish fashion. Leather, rubber and PVC clothing sort of squicks me. :S

5. One of my favourite movies of all time is Dragonheart. I don't think there's been a time that I've seen that film and not cried at the end. :(

6. I have a bit of a fetish for 19th Century schoolboys and street urchins, ala Tom Brown's Schooldays and Oliver Twist...

7. I love practicing armchair psychology but would never want to study it academically.

8. I think gags are incredibly sexy.

9. I love to read and write fantasy/adventure fiction.

10. I also love to read and write kinky erotic fiction.

11. I'm a HUGE Harry Potter fan. :D

12. I think "Wicked" is possibly the best musical in the world EVER!!

Yay! :D



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 11:53:59 AM)

Wonderful post!!!
 
1. I'm not particularly fond of just plain ole' floggers, I make my own, they're beaded and that's a totally different sensation.
 
2. I love stingy things... quirts and vipers and whips... oh my!!
 
3. I don't watch a lot of television and when I do it's generally educational stuff.
 
4. I do a lot of arts and crafts stuff, knitting, crochetting, cross stitching, sewing.... that sort of stuff.
 
5. I LOVE tools. I have two work benches in the garage and still don't have enough room.
 
6. I love stilettos and leather, unfortunately I can no longer wear the shoes, but I still wear the leather!
 
7. I don't cook. I can cook, I just don't. I tell people that my only domestic quality is that I live in a house.
 
8. I quit reading Readers Digest because I cried through every story and my sinus's just couldn't take it anymore.
 
9. I/we have a cat that rules the household, he is beyond spoiled rotten.
 
10. I love watching scary movies on rainy yucky days.
 
11. I love Country music (and yeah, I cry to some of it too!)
 
Jewel



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 11:54:05 AM)

1. My favorite toy is my riding crop.  There's nothing quite like the whistling sound it makes when I swing it.
 
2. I don't like "fetish" gear (latex, PVC, etc.) 
 
3. I have a velvet fetish.
 
4. I sound like Amy Lee of Evanescence when I sing.
 
5. I read Shakespeare for fun.
 
6. I love role-playing games of the dice and pencils variety (as opposed to the X-Box sort).
 
7. I like counted cross-stitch.
 
8. I enjoy Middle Eastern and traditional Japanese music.
 
9. My favorite authors are Laurell K. Hamilton and C. J. Cherryh
 
10. I collect quotes from notable people.  My collection includes a wide range, from Dorothy Parker to Plato.
 
11. My guilty pleasure is watching Invader Zim cartoons.
 
12. My list of heroes includes Hatshepsut, Cleopatra VII, and Lord Byron. 



Lockit -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 12:53:43 PM)

Man... with my snarkiness... I ought to have a long list or be a really good gal for a while... and after a day of bailing/boiling water, frozen pipes on and off and working on every applicance in the house... I need a good positive run here! lol

I love homemade bindings, spanking benches (or any other kind)

I love locks (hehe) and leather double smacker paddles and plastic whackers and ace bandage blindfolds

I have a thing for a submissive in silk black boxer's  (smile) black collar with a touch of red somewhere (evil grin)

When I had a brain, I loved studying Hebrew and Greek, medicine and social issues... or anything really... as long as I was soaking up something educational

I love nature and have a rock fetish (lol)

I love design of any kind... indoor, outdoor and I love tools  (Yeah baby!)

I love tree's

I love music of all kinds much to my dismay when I hit itunes

I love creating something from nothing... thrift stores to find odd things and make new odd things

I love writing (even if it isn't worth publishing)

I love CM and all the wonderful people I have gotten to know!

I love being alive... that most my family is nearby and that my son (adult) is doing well in our new place and spoke two sentences our first day here and I LOVE teaching and playing with the grand um's and grandma hugs!

I just love it all and laughing through it all!



eponastar -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 1:35:01 PM)

Most people don't take the time to get to know you, because its all about the way you can beat them now a days. Its kinda sad.

1. I have an anal fetish. I LOVE LOVE LOVE strap on's

2. My bed is extremely soft and squishy and I don't like getting out of it in the morning.

3. I knit and sew cloths.

4. I adore 40's glam and burlesque.

5. I do psychic and tarot readings. For the last 11 years.

6. I am a ninja in the kitchen and a bit of magic later I can make a 5 course meal out of potatos and chicken.... I pride myself on my culinary skill.

7. I prefer jeans and a tee shirt to dresses.

8. I look like the swamp monster in the morning before coffee and my cigarette.

9. I have a very low tolerance for BS and whiners.

10. I wipe ass for a living.

11. My purpose in life is to help others... hence becoming a nurse. 



yourMissTress -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 1:46:40 PM)

Great idea Cat.
 
1. I love cbt. 
 
2. My favorite toys are pervertables.  There is something just extra twisted about those everyday items.
 
3. I love heavy metal music, as well as opera and classical.
 
4. I love rain, thunder, lightening, heavy winds, and big booming thunderstorms.  My favorite time to cuddle, snuggle, and other things.
 
5. I love boots.  The higher the heels the better.  I am 5'10" barefooted and love to be taller.  I am 6'2" in the lowest heeled boots I own.
 
6.  My favorite color is red, and I only buy toys that are red or black, except of course for those pervertables.
 
7. I love to cook, and I do it well.  I also like to watch Top Chef and Iron Chef and try to recreate the things that look good.
 
8. My guilty pleasures are 2 reality shows that I'm completely hooked on for all the wrong reasons and I love them.
 
9. Once I am hooked by a book I can do nothing else until I finish it.
 
10. I love suspense and the element of surprise.






thetammyjo -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 2:14:27 PM)

1. I enforce my protocol and rules but only within my personal dynamic.

2. I have very small list of protocols and rules.

3. I am scared of spiders and bugs.

4. I think that snakes and reptiles are pretty cool.

5. I love chocolate.

6. I cannot stand anything "mocha".

7. I love cooking.

8. I get easily frustrated trying to cook for three adults with very different tastes and allergies.

9. I love television and would never give it up.

10. I'm very picky about what I watch. A show must catch me without the first half hour or I never give it a second chance.

11. I have a lot of patience for some things.

12. I am incredibly impatient about other things.

13. I don't grok male dominant and female submissive relationships at all.

14. Some of my best friends over the years have been male dominants and female submissives.

15. I am very pretty and sexy.

16. I am too fat and it frustrates me.

17. I am a damned good author.

18. Whose publisher is not selling her books -- did you all know I have three currently in print and you can get them for Christmas gifts? Probably not since he doesn't promote the books.

19. I love some science fiction -- see tv note about pickiness.

20. I'm an ancient historian who thinks anything in the last millennium is boring.

I could keep going...



Aszhrae -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 3:03:52 PM)

Sure why not.

1.  Floggers, straps, spankings and lashings. Nothing else will get me more wet.

2. I love the feel of leather, the smell of it seduces me. To wear leather, to be bound and collared with leather, stroked by leather. I am powerless against leather's touch.

3. I used to roleplay lots and still do.

4. I read a lot on various subjects.

5. I love to learn new things.

6. I have a great many skills because my interests are diverse.

7. I do not like men all that much, which means I have few male friends. I am very particular about men and do not trust them easily or quickly. The most a guy could ever hope for is a hug and a kiss from me as a display of visible affection. Most definitely do not like dogs and race horses (trail horses I enjoy riding)

8. I am at home in nature. Be it clothed in my skivvies or in my b-day suit.

9. I love to be on the receiving end of being disciplined.

10. I am empathetic and sympathetic to the feeling of others, reacting oppositely to some feelings or become overly sensitized and react the same way.

11. I am always smiling, laugh when something happens that is either unusual or when I am uncomfortable about something.



utopicus -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 4:30:45 PM)

OK, there you go:
1. 25 years of repressing my nature determined me, finally, to let it bloody go and start accepting who I am;
2. I love golden showers and have an anal fetish [:)]; Cunnilingus is the most erotic ever practice;
3. I find the sound of needles penetrating my flesh soothing, as well as of various spanking implements landing on my bum
4. I cannot live without music; I am addicted to French Sansonette and I am eternally devoted to Yves Montand and Charles Aznavour. My eclectic taste ranges from Schubert and Beethoven to Metallica and Jean Michel Jarre;
5. If I don't watch Disney's classics, Tom & Jerry and The Pink Panther at least weekly my soul goes numb;
6. There is nothing better in the world than the perfume of air of high altitude; sunburnt grass and ice melting from rocks hanging over abyss;
7. Peace and harmony happen when I'm cuddled and rocked in my baby's arms (waiting to find Her, still);
8. I believe in live and let others live, in helping as much as I can and being there when I'm needed;
9. I want to live. Period.




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 4:38:46 PM)

1. by day i'm a full-time, PTA mom of 2 and by night i'm a radio personality/rock chick

2. i've discussed my kinky side and interests live on air

3. i enjoy hearing my pet groan in pain whenever i grip hard on his cock and balls.

4. i'm still working on my first manuscript

5. i have an extensive collection of rock memorabilia from local bands (one day i'm going to open a Rock-n-Roll Fame museum for independent music).

6. i've been paid for my nonsexual dominant services before i.e. was paid $100 to sit naked on my bed while the guy mastrubated.

7. i recently met and interviewed Sarah Brightman




SlaveBlutarsky -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 9:03:03 PM)

1. I've returned to school to get a Phd even though until now I was the epitome of a C student

2. I melt when 'good boy' is whispered in my ear

3. I like the song Good Vibrations by Marky Mark and the Funky Bunch

4. I received more A's this past semester than in my original four years as an undergrad

5. I was a jock in high school and in a fraternity in college

6. I do not prance around in stilettos and leather

7. I have a new favorite thing, my nephew

8. I like kissing and exploring with my hands more than sex

9. I have three stuffed seals on my dresser that I've had since I was 8, someone made fun of them once....once

10. I'm usually the least serious person ever, but the first person people come to for help or to talk to




Lashra -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 9:23:33 PM)

1. I love my quirt and braided flogger. I had them made in my favorite colors of black and purple.

2. I find the smell of leather to be highly erotic and therefore use leather restraints and masks.

3. I like all kinds of music except hip hop/rap. Oldies are my favorite.

4. In my relationship I am the Boss, however I do delegate and upon occasion ask for opinions.

5. I adore men who have a bit of a shy side to them and a great sense of humor. Physically I love men who are tall, heavy set, with blue eyes and brown hair. That really catches my attention. (oh wait thats my subs description lol)

6. Victoria Woodhull is my idol and someone that I have made sure that my daughter has learned about. I think children need real life  people to look up to who have actually done something to help the human race.

7. I love erotic fantasy art like that of Boris Vallejo and Luis Royo.

8. I enjoy working with wood and find the smell to be wonderful.

9. I rarely watch TV as most of it is drivel. However I do sometimes watch a movie. I'd much rather prefer to go to the theater and see a play or go to the movies and watch a show.

10. I collect swords, guns, knives. I have a thing for weapons.

11. My favorite books are: the Anita Blake-Vampire Hunter series by Laurell K. Hamilton and R.A. Salvatore, his books on the Drow.

12. I have a couple of favorite musicals. The first is "The Phantom of the Opera" by Andrew Lloyd Weber and the second is "Seven Brides for Seven Brothers"

~Lashra




OneMoreWaste -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 10:36:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici
Maybe sharing some of the polar opposite elements of us might be fun:
(snip)
4. I ride horses


What is the polar opposite of that? [:-]

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra
8. I enjoy working with wood and find the smell to be wonderful.


Even red oak? [:'(].

***

I started playing with computers in 1978, but I've never owned an i-Anything (iMac, iPhone, iPod, iBook, iAdnauseum)

I own more guns that I have fingers. I own more feminine undergarments that I have guns. And I've got $400 in pennies sitting in the dining room. Yet, I've never been taken into custody by any government agency [8D]

I love being punctured by needles and knives, but am deathly afraid of doctors. I've had flaps of skin torn open and glued them shut, but can't watch special-effects "surgery" on TV.

My music collection is either really fast and fairly pissed off, or very soft and melodic. I can only listen to slow or emotional songs if they're sung by women.

I can haul a 200-pound mattress up a flight of stairs or a 500-pound bike into a pickup bed, but can't keep a 2-pound kitten from jumping out of my hands.

I've improvised countless dozens of meals based on logic and experience, but if I'm cooking something out of a recipe in a book that I've made a hundred times, I still need to look at the recipe.

I've had purple hair, two dozen piercings, and a hat with a pink plastic lei on it, but I loathe being the center of attention. I've had people offer to buy the shirt off my back, then never worn that shirt in public again.

My first introduction to BDSM pornography was "The Meese Commission Report On Pornography" lifted from my junior high-school library.



FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Your Diversity (12/23/2008 11:57:14 PM)

Spanking, with my hands, or hairbrush, or different paddles, makes me very hottt.

Spanking, than doing a man with a strap on would be the ultimate reward in my book to a boy who cooks, cleans, does laundry, and puts out.    I can live with just spanking and obedience, but I am/get fairly hot doing the other stuff as well. [:)]

I love the sound of my uhm's singing and laughter.

I get fairly upset when he's unhappy, even if it's because I disciplined him, and need to keep a stiff upper lip about it.
I love horses and want to have my lil one take riding lessons.
My favorite colors are green/purple, and I'm much less sensitive about the small things in life.

I don't/can't wear lots of high heels often anymore, and don't care much about it.

I think Norway's got some of the most beautiful men on the planet, and only wish the one I met was a little more emotionally connected and free.

I got the warm and fuzzies when a recent vanilla date insisted that whatever I ordered, he would eat at the restaurant he took me to; so, after ascertaining he wasn't allergic to anything I might order, I did just that.[:)]

I'm very close to my family, and they think I'm kind of kool (and sometimes scary to men), as a dominant lady.   That doesn't mean we get along always, nor that it's always a healthy thing.

I'm addicted to Collarchat, CNBC (financial news around the world), MSNBC for Political News, and as a necessity, have come to love The Disney Channel, since most of the other stuff has inappropriate/unacceptable stuff for my uhm to watch (at least in my presence, he doesn't watch anything else).

I like getting out of the house (hence, the dislike of the severly cold winter/snow), but mostly to walk at the shopping centers, though have gotten to a place where I don't really need or necessarily want to buy lots of stuff anymore.

Like Jewel, I can cook, but do not (I wonder if I even can anymore)...   I may borrow the line about my only domestic quality...

I love music; not any specific type of music;   I have different types, in different languages, with different sounds, and they all match my different moods (from very mild/blue, to wild let it all hang out)...  Okay, not so much country, far east, or classical, but most others affect me in one way or another.

We have two cats who think they live with us, and we care for them to the extent we can, without owning them; the other day, one was fighting a newcomer off the yard.    M








chezzy71 -> RE: Your Diversity (12/24/2008 2:03:55 AM)

Well i like plenty of things and i do some very well and others i do alright with and still others that the chezz hasn't a clue...like two finger typing for example..almost as bad as owning a two finger bowling ball..but that is another discussion..oh and i love gags...BIG TIME!!!!!



chezzy71 -> RE: Your Diversity (12/24/2008 2:07:29 AM)

Miss Cat..i wonder if item 9 and item 2 are in any way possible,connected???..LOL



CatdeMedici -> RE: Your Diversity (12/24/2008 4:11:18 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chezzy71

Miss Cat..i wonder if item 9 and item 2 are in any way possible,connected???..LOL


very astute little one.



LadyPact -> RE: Your Diversity (12/24/2008 4:19:16 AM)

Well, let's see if I can play along right.

1.  I do love floggers.  I have a set of everything from rope to suede to deer to bull.  I used to go with a color scheme, but then I became more focused on various intensities rather than color.

2.  As much as I love floggers, I'm much better known for tails.  My favorite DM tells Me he knows Me by the crack from anywhere in the club.

3.  If you can't tell, I have a real love affair with My toys.

4.  I have a greater love affair with My husband and My sub.

5.  The most important person on the planet to Me is only three feet tall.

6.  In the last three years, I've learned more about love than I knew in My whole life the years before.

7.  I'm in the minority on CM, because I'm a blue collar Domme.

8.  I rarely watch tv.  If I do, I usually fall asleep in front of it.  I find most things on CM funnier anyway.

9.  I am a sucker for Christmas movies.  On that note, I happen to think "A Christmas Story" is the worst Christmas movie ever made.

10. I do love My fetish wear.  I'm big on leather, but I also love My lace.

11. Aside from those on BDSM subjects, most of the titles of the books on My shelf would surprise a lot of people.

12. To Me, the people I love are far more important than sex, touch, or physical location.

13. I am a hideous insomniac. 

14. Despite how hard it can be at times, I think what I have far outweighs the things that some people think I don't have.



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