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LadyLou -> RE: Your Diversity (12/24/2008 5:48:30 AM)





  1. I love using chains and rope on my sub.

  2. I'm just starting to make my own impact instruments.

  3. It gets me off watching my sub doing his best to take everything I give him, no matter how rough I get.

  4. My sub is a techie guy, and listening to him 'talk techie' gets me in the mood.

  5. I'm fat and DON'T want to loose an ounce, or have a self esteem issues.

  6. I'm a vegan

  7. I love hiking my local mountains, and walking for mile upon mile in unspoilt wilderness, regularly. When I get a car that I can be certain is up for the job, I'm gonna drive up to Scotland and hike up those mountains also.

  8. I am an amateur astronomer who wants a bigger telescope, and am SOOO thankful for my dark skies that gives stunning views of the Milky Way within seconds of stepping outside – no dark adaptation needed.

  9. I enjoy the natural sciences, particularly geology and visit my coastline regularly to look at big lumps of rock

  10. I've rediscovered my LOVE of knitting, and have nearly finished one half of bubblegum pink hand warmers.... for myself. I'm knitting to the point of obsession at the moment.

  11. My favourite author is Thomas Hardy, and favourite book is Far From The Madding Crowd.

  12. Wuthering Heights comes in 2nd and Tess Of The D'Urbevilles comes in 3rd as favourite books.

  13. I have set myself a ongoing goal of reading all the classics.

  14. I'm an artist who enjoys painting figurative work, expressionist work and surreal work, and would dearly love to have more time for it, and spend my days painting.

  15. I'm watching marathon Christmas re-runs of Sex In The City on a freeview channel in the UK. It used to the my 'must-see' TV, and loved the series when it first came around 10 or so years ago, but am now questioning what I saw in it, and now find the character Carrie increasingly irritating, whiny and needy.

  16. I'm becoming less tolerant and 'easy going' as I get older, and wondering if it is 'age', or a predisposition.

  17. My recent must see TV was Strictly Come Dancing, and Terminator: The Sarah Conner Chronicles.

  18. I'm a birdwatcher!

  19. I'm a soppy romantic.

  20. I cook amazing food.

  21. Me and my sub look forward to playing Monopoly together.



MsFlutter -> RE: Your Diversity (12/24/2008 7:13:13 AM)

 
1. Floggers, diamonds, paddles, leather and stilettos are some of my very very favorite things
 
2. I am useless without my coffee. When I find the convenience store person that labeled the pot 'regular' instead of 'hazelnut vanilla designer crap', I'm going to hurt their feelings
 
3. The local leather vendors are accustomed to me breezing thru their store just for a contact buzz
 
4. I love British comedies and old American movies. RIP John Inman. 
 
5. I have every one of Sarah Brightman's CDs and now I'm working on my Josh Groban collection. They sit next to James Otto and Massive Attack in my CD rack :)
 
6. I have no idea what a 'grok' is (thetammyjo #13) but I know that I learn at least one new thing here every day
 
7.  I've learned to prepare many Middle Eastern dishes from scratch. I'm a definitive foodie when you can get me out of my sewing room !
 
8. I'm part geek and have a gadget fetish.
 
9. Architecture and 'what makes it work' hold my attention for hours. The Mythbusters are gods and maybe I should have been a civil engineer.
 
10. My friends consider me to be a level-headed rock-steady individual but a lone trumpet playing Taps is my undoing. A flyover in the Missing Man formation is just more than I can handle.
 
11. I've lived all over the world and have learned much about tolerance.
 
12. I'm really a big softy - my natural tendency is to solve all the 'whatevers' for those closest to me. Took me years to learn that some things I just have to let them solve for themselves.





MsFlutter -> RE: Your Diversity (12/24/2008 7:46:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici
Maybe sharing some of the polar opposite elements of us might be fun:
(snip)
4. I ride horses


What is the polar opposite of that? [:-]


letting the horse ride her?



FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Your Diversity (12/25/2008 1:49:46 AM)

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13. I am a hideous insomniac.
Oh me too!   Fortunately, my schedule is fairly flexible and can acomodate it fairly well.   M



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Your Diversity (12/25/2008 5:57:48 PM)

Since we all seem to start with toys...
  1. I love my toys, especially the little flogger that Janette Heartwood made for me.  Still, I don't actually *need* any of them...
  2. Corsets.  LOVE THEM.  Vintage lingerie, velvet dresses, flowing fabrics...  all the things accountants can't wear to work.
  3. I would rather go barefoot than wear shoes, but I wear size 8 if someone has some Louboutins they aren't using...
  4. I am a lapsed artist, but am working on knitting again, and actually designing something from my massive stash.
  5. I thought that there was no chocolate too dark for me, but the 99% Lindt bars totally kick my ass.
  6. I am learning to play the mandolin.  Will my grey parrot start mimicking chord progressions?  Time will tell!
  7. Guinea pigs are the bestest pets EVAR in the whole universe. 
  8. I am noted for my poise, and am considered serious and reserved.  I think I am a complete goof!  Go figure.[8|]
  9. My favourite books are A Confederacy of Dunces, by John Kennedy Toole, and Cold Comfort Farm, by Stella Gibbons.
  10. My favourite film is The Big Lebowski.  The Dude abides.
  11. I adore ballet, and still buy pointe shoes as IF Fat Arthritic Woman is actually going to dance again! <snort>
  12. I believe in ghosts. 




sodsta -> RE: Your Diversity (12/25/2008 6:44:23 PM)

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5. I have every one of Sarah Brightman's CDs and now I'm working on my Josh Groban collection.


Ooooh, another Josh Groban Fan!!!! I love Josh. He's incredible, isn't he? :)



FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Your Diversity (12/26/2008 5:26:48 AM)

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Guinea pigs are the bestest pets EVAR in the whole universe.
Did you mean the human kind you can experiment on?   Because in that case, I absolutely agree. [;)]
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I wear size 8 if someone has some Louboutins they aren't using...
I think God deliberately gave me big feet so I wouldn't go bankrupt over buying shoes before...  Now, I'm no longer the shoe hound anyway, so wouldn't spend an arm and a leg.   
Happy Holidays all,   M



QueenIsis -> RE: Your Diversity (12/26/2008 9:54:08 AM)

Hmmm...
 
A. No favorite toy yet, but I do so love pervertables, as they cater to my overwhelmingly strong creative side.
B. I LOVE "Gone With the Wind", makes me cry every time.
C. I have a MAJOR thing for vampires; my favorite movies are the "Blade" trilogy and my favorite Christmas gift was the book "Twilight". And when the mood's right, I can come just from having my neck sucked in just the right way. Mmmmmmm...
D. I love a male that can cook, as I hate to do it and  - unless I get a cooking sub - will probably only have sandwiches, salads, Ramen noodles, and fast food once the UMs are gone.
E. I'm 40-years-old, and I love "Blue's Clues"! There, I said it.
F. I also love the toys that come in kiddie meals at McDonald's and Burger King.
G. I HATE high heels and only started wearing them when I discovered BDSM. Even now, I ONLY wear them for play and not even always then.
H. I love felines, and currently own 4.
I. I also love pussy.
J. I'm way sentimental and will cry at certain TV commercials.
K. I love face-slapping and face-sitting.
L. I can be amazingly cruel when angered.
M. He's dead, but I still have a major crush on the Christopher Reeve of the old Superman movies.
N. I love the San Francisco 49ers.
O. I'm totally addicted to collecting memorablia and will probably soon need another room just for my stuff.
P. I can sing the "ABC's" backward, even the "...now I know my ABC's..." part.



CatdeMedici -> RE: Your Diversity (12/26/2008 10:07:58 AM)

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P. I can sing the "ABC's" backward, even the "...now I know my ABC's..." part
 
Ok Im major impressed with that one. 



QueenIsis -> RE: Your Diversity (12/26/2008 10:22:46 AM)

"Me with sing you won't time next, ABC's my know I now" 
 
*lol* I just gotta be different; I knew a few others who can do the ABCs backwards, so not to be outdone - or same-done - I learned that part, too!



espguy -> RE: Your Diversity (12/26/2008 4:15:52 PM)

This is a great thread, I wanted to try it as well.
  1. I'm fairly new to this site, this is my first post I believe.
  2. I love cm because of all of the amazing people here.
  3. I don't have favorite toys as of yet, but I imagine that I will.
  4. I aspire to be an amatuer guitar player
  5. I love history, specifically the study of what ordinary people did in extrordinary times
  6. I love to cook, for me its more of an art than a preparation of food.  The more complex the dish the more fun it is.
  7. I'm happiest when making someone else happy
  8. I love complex things, figuring out how they work or learning about them.
  9. I have no ability to detect bad acting, almost all movies are really good to me.
  10. I'd love to have a time machine
  11. I love learning and never want to stop.
  12. I'm not the person i want to be yet, but that's ok I'm still learning.



CatdeMedici -> RE: Your Diversity (12/26/2008 5:54:50 PM)

well nicely done, welcome aboard, may you find what you seek!



chezzy71 -> RE: Your Diversity (12/26/2008 9:19:54 PM)

I can't do anything backwards as it messes with my frontwards so i am equally impressed...ok so i can back out of the driveway..that doesn't count..lol.



teacherpet -> RE: Your Diversity (12/27/2008 5:06:03 PM)

I'll be happy to contribute
1) I need to watch Singin In The Rain every few months to restore my faith in humanity
2) I am an atheist (who still believes in the golden rule)
3) I love a woman in sheet stockings and high heels
4) Only topped by a woman in a corset
5) I never ceased to be amazed by the potential in human beings to do good and creative things
6) I never ceased to be amazed by the horrible things humans are capable of
7) I adore giving massages
8) I love and fear canes
9) Tiger Woods is amazing
10) Nothing is more beautiful than golfing in Ireland at sunset (except my Mistress)



AlexandraLynch -> RE: Your Diversity (12/27/2008 11:21:49 PM)

1) I am in a nearly twenty-year (sixteen years married) relationship with another dominant, and we couldn't be happier.

2) Lead, follow, or get out of the damn way. Nothing pisses me off faster than a whole lot of people of whom none will just get started on some project or whatever. If you won't speak up, you don't have any right to complain.

3) I love the look in a sub's eyes when xhe submits in word or deed.

4) I am a devout worshiper of the pagan concept of deity, consider myself a pagan theological student, and believe that sex is sacred, and BDSM is holy.

5)I can't stand to watch people make fools of themselves in public.

6)I'll go to Mass before I go to a concert that is "An Evening In The Vienna Woods".

7) I don't have cable TV, rarely watch movies, and consider a trip to a bookstore more delightful than shopping for anything.

8) I have a divided uvula and syndactyly on L-R II-III. The first thing I did when my sons were given to me was to look at their feet....they both have it too, but only on one foot.

9)I am writing a novel.

10) I like to make food that is an orgasm in the mouth.



MsStarlett -> RE: Your Diversity (12/28/2008 8:55:48 AM)

I'm a little late jumping into this one, but enjoyed reading everyone's responses. 

Hmmmmmm..... Where to start?

1.  I am a costumer.  First and foremost.  I love everything about it from Halloween to Science Fiction conventions to BDSM.  I have been designing clothes that looked more like costumes since I was 6 or 8 years old.  Learned to sew when I was 10 and have been honing and expanding my craft ever since.  I can make just about anything wearable, as in I go to every kind of  shop and look at things wondering "How can I wear this?" 

2.  I love flogging because of the physical exertion gets my blood pumping so much better than a tread mill.  Followed by caning because I adore the swishing sound of my bundled canes cutting the air and the sight of my boy bracing for the inevitable impact.

3.  I have most recently been learning to do my own leather work.  My husband always did my leather for me, but as stated in the first section, I always want to learn new methods to make my own things and to turn unusual items into costume parts, props, haunted house decorations or BDSM toys. 

4.  Did I mention that I also run haunted houses?  So much fun!  Nothing better than sneaking around in the dark making people scream.  If you can't do it with a flog or a cane, do it by scaring the crap out someone.  I love watching 6 foot plus line backers throw their 5 foot nothing cheerleader girlfriends to the monster to save themselves. 

5.  I used to read a lot of Steven King back when his books were good.  Now it just seems like he's pumping out huge word count boring crap just to keep the pay checks rolling in.  Now I prefer sword and sorcery fantasy like David Eddings or Piers Anthony... anything with lots and lots of sequels.  I kind of like the stories that never seem to end... sort of like soap operas in print form with a fantasy twist.

6.  Did I mention that I like to play 'dress up'?  Yeah, thought so.  I'm an attention whore from way back.  The youngest of three children, I think I came into the world trying to find my place in the spot light.  My first born sister was the perfect brain child who got all the love and adoration of her teachers and the family put her on a pedistal that no one could live up to.  The middle brother was the handsome screw up who was always in trouble and soaking up all that 'negative attention.'  Me?  I was the charming baby girl who had to be extra cute to get some little splash over of attention.



hereyesruponyou -> RE: Your Diversity (12/28/2008 12:14:05 PM)


1. I love canes and paddles and impact toys that really make an impact. The patterns made make me smile. My best "weapon" is my teeth. A nice love bite that doesn;t break the skin but leaves a nice impression to be licked and blown upon after always gives chills.

2. Love the smell of leather, but prefer the feel of rope on me or my sub. There is nothing more beautiful to me than someone wearing my bondage and adoring me for it.
 
3. I love to bake, and do it better than most i know. I am a good cook, working on becoming a better chef. My forte has always been homestyle favorites ( chicken and dumplings..mmmm), but we are trying to eat better so experimenting with lighter styles with more flavor is my new thing.
 
4. I love four legged furry friends. Currently have 3 dogs and 2 cats.
 
5. My favorite activities are doing anything with my daughter. She's no longer a um, and i think that makes life even more interesting around here

6. I work with people with disabilities and experiencing even the simplest of successes for them makes me smile. Bringing my therapy dog in and watching him ride around with one of the guys on his wheelchair like he is king of the world is amazing

7. I do not prance around in stilettos and leather. Prancing has never been my thing, although i love to dance.
 
8. I look damn good in jeans and bare feet, and beautiful to the people who's opinion actually matters to me in anything or nothing.
 
9. I love to read and do it ALOT!  My guilty pleasure is supernatural romance, which btw tends to have quite a bit of kink interlaced. Too many good authors to name them all.

10. I rarely cry. I rarely get truly mad. I never hate. I get over things fairly quickly.
 
11. I do not trust easily and while i forgive when hurt or disappointed, i find it very hard to forget and trust again.
 
12. I don't grok people who are mean or rude to others for no reason. It's generally so much easier to just be polite.
 
 
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ChainGoddess -> RE: Your Diversity (12/28/2008 12:51:58 PM)

Great post.

1.  I don't have a favourite toy,  I just adore using chains, ropes and handcuffs.
2.  My heart breaks when I  hear of any animal being abused.
3.  Chocolate can almost bring me to orgasm.
4.  I have been a vegetarian for over twenty years.
5.  I do not like tv, it bores me to death.
6.  I adore strap-on play.
7.  I adore watersports.
8.  I am a very good cook,  my roast potatoes are to die for.,  though my hubby/sub is the expert in cooking more exotic food. 
9. I love Steven King,  Charles Dickens, Jane Austen and Mark Twain.
10.  The mention of the Mississippi river makes me go weak at the knees.  (dunno why, Mark Twain's fault I believe)
11. When my little doggie Georgie looks at me,  my heart melts.
12. I love gardening and grow my own flowers from seed.
13. I love Bruce Springsteen, Queen, Guns'n'Roses and listening to the Blues turns me on.
14. I used to be a biker chick,  and still love bikes.   Harley Davidsons will always do it for me.
15. If I am your friend,  you can trust me with your life.

And thats me, well some of me.




MistressRouge -> RE: Your Diversity (12/28/2008 1:12:25 PM)

  • I like a hands on approach, so love feeling, inflicting with my hands, nails, palms as much as possible.
  • I adore all my implements, especially floggers, whips, crops and the fact that they provide different sensations on a subs flesh is enjoyable for me.
  • Also my collection of rattan & kooboo canes, and I have been know to break and split them in my sadistic moments.
  • I am a wonderful cook, and find cooking very theraputic, aswell as eating out once or twice a week at resturants, especially sundays I never cook on sundays.
  • I love travelling abroad 2 times a year. I really enjoy exploring different cultures & sometimes the fetish/BDSM scene abroad too. Failing that I always visit their erotic or torture museums lol.
  • I have a very strong leather fetish, so I dress for the feel, scent and they way it warms and clings to me, not only for my leather fetishist subs, so a selfish slant on my fetish, yet generous too, I smile with glee when I session with a leather sub.
  • I can sign BSL, well I passed stage one of British Sign Language, some years ago, maybe time for a refresher course.
  • I wish to learn spanish this year, I say that every year, and the fact my grandfather spoke fluent spanish it really drives me more as tribute to him. Shame I didnt get the chance to meet him in person [:(]
  • I like going to the cinema & watching DVD's  and my favourite films are horror, thrillers and factual/true story adaptions.
  • I have an avid interest in criminology, factual only, and my perfect career if I was qualified, (not a chance) lol would to be a forensic detective, or a criminal profiler (dream on me [:D]).
  • I am intrigued by the way BDSM & Fetishes is so diverse, yet personal to every single individual in the lifestyle, thus enriching and  fulfilling many, including myself.
  • I love all kinds of music, and it really sets a particular mood in me whatever I am listening to :).
  • I love the colours red and black, and most of my leather and rubberwear are red & black :)



Steponme73 -> RE: Your Diversity (12/28/2008 4:34:23 PM)

My diversities are not unlike others.
1.  I love to see dominant women in their natural habitat...Ie., if they like jeans and flip flops that is for me too.
2. Being in love with women's feet, I prefer women to be comfortable in flats, etc.  Not that I don't like high heels too.
3.  I buy and sell houses as a hobby.  I also buy lots of fixups....they are very trying.  I do almost all the work myself.
4.  I like to play Texas Hold 'em.  Small stakes only
5. I also play the commodities market.
6.  I don't watch much TV unless it is the history channel or the Discovery Channel
7.  I am conservative in my thinking.
8.  If I read, I read books that will help me.  I don't read fiction or stuff that is not going to educational in some way.
9.  I drive a pickup truck.
10.  I have cows and horses.  25 cows, 3 horses....they all have names.  No I don't sell them for meat, nor will I eat them.
11.  I love being outside rather than inside.  I really like hot weather the best.  I don't do well in cold weather.
12.  My normal attire is blue jeans, western shirt, hat and boots.
13.  Kind of a nutrition nut.



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