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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/28/2008 3:31:27 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Okay, now, put your doubts away, I have a serious question.  I know, I know, hard to believe, but it's true.

When a woman writes to you on CM, do you automatically assume she is interested in you in that way?  Whether for a potential relationship, a casual throw-down, whatever?

Does it occur to anyone that if a woman comments on something in your profile or journal, or asks a question about it, that's all it is?  Or is it pretty much a given that such a thing does not exist (and I'm just fooling myself)?


Cali



As an aside....I have found some women who use the "who's looking at you" thing to subtly tell a guy she's interested. (Kinda the modern day equivalent of having their girlfriend telling you she'd love to go out).

(But I know she's really just afraid to tell me she wants to fuck me)

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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/28/2008 3:41:51 PM   
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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/28/2008 4:21:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
(Wait....you mean if a woman writes me....it doesn't mean she wants to fuck me?)


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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/28/2008 4:32:04 PM   
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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/28/2008 5:18:21 PM   
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Depends what they say in particular.

Some people are just saying they agree with me or don't agree with me.

I don't usually assume things and even if I did most of the people that contact me aren’t local to me so it's kind of irrelevant anyway what I assume. Nice to have a pleasant conversation between two people sometimes is all I take from it.

There was one person on here who I'd always disagree with but he'd misread what I wrote on the message boards and assume I agreed with what he wrote. Then he'd write to me and say something like "Yeah you are right we know the truth but they don't see it." and I'd have to explain I didn't agree with him, he never really listened though and instead understood what I wrote as he wanted to. Three times he did this.

It was a nice conversation anyway, the problem with having admirers is at some point you are bound to type something and disappoint them. People will like you to a point and want you to be something you aren’t but eventually you'll show them the truth and you’ll hate disappointing them, that's life.
 

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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/28/2008 7:01:30 PM   
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That's basically what prompted this.  I have commented on more profiles than usual lately, and several of them, instead of responding to the question I asked, said something like, "thanks for writing, but I don't think we're a match"... HUH?  Who said anything about that?  Match?  What?  I mean, I didn't specifically say, "hey, I'm not really interested in you, but I'm writing because...."


LOL I know that...when I contacted someone he got straight away defensive that we can only stay in touch as friends as he would not leave the USA...hello??? I am not asking anyone to relocate with a simply line I dropped, ok??? needless to say I didn't bother to get back to him...

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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/28/2008 7:49:56 PM   
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ummm, you know you don't have to actually send a note because you looked at a picture?



yeah.. I know  

but since he had clicked on my profile after I clicked on his, I kind of thought it would be a nice gesture just to 'splain why I did...

I learned my lesson...
no more c-mails 

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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/28/2008 10:57:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Okay, now, put your doubts away, I have a serious question.  I know, I know, hard to believe, but it's true.

When a woman writes to you on CM, do you automatically assume she is interested in you in that way?  Whether for a potential relationship, a casual throw-down, whatever?

Does it occur to anyone that if a woman comments on something in your profile or journal, or asks a question about it, that's all it is?  Or is it pretty much a given that such a thing does not exist (and I'm just fooling myself)?


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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/28/2008 11:15:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		But what if she wasn't wearing panties to begin with? Tsk!

As for the question Cali, somehow I don't think it's ever really come up as an issue. Well, except for this one chick who was really forward! Damn, forget who that was though...


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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/29/2008 2:01:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Okay, now, put your doubts away, I have a serious question.  I know, I know, hard to believe, but it's true.

When a woman writes to you on CM, do you automatically assume she is interested in you in that way?  Whether for a potential relationship, a casual throw-down, whatever?

Does it occur to anyone that if a woman comments on something in your profile or journal, or asks a question about it, that's all it is?  Or is it pretty much a given that such a thing does not exist (and I'm just fooling myself)?


Cali



Besides, considering I look like a cross between Sasquatch and a were wolf, with a bit of mangy scoundrel mixed in, with the attitude of a mercenary, without the good looks..........(1)

Most women that look at my picture and run for the hills....



(1) Paraphrased from Henry V, Scene IV, Act II, King Henry's speech to Katherine.  
In other words, I took the words of the great bard (see I be an educated critter type person) to poke a bit of humor into the conversation.


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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/29/2008 5:53:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Okay, now, put your doubts away, I have a serious question.  I know, I know, hard to believe, but it's true.

When a woman writes to you on CM, do you automatically assume she is interested in you in that way?  Whether for a potential relationship, a casual throw-down, whatever?

Does it occur to anyone that if a woman comments on something in your profile or journal, or asks a question about it, that's all it is?  Or is it pretty much a given that such a thing does not exist (and I'm just fooling myself)?


Cali



As an aside....I have found some women who use the "who's looking at you" thing to subtly tell a guy she's interested. (Kinda the modern day equivalent of having their girlfriend telling you she'd love to go out).

(But I know she's really just afraid to tell me she wants to fuck me)


(GAWDAMMIT!!!!! The last 3 "who's looking at you" {at me} have all been MEN!!!!!...and while I totally respect the whole gender bending thing....I swear to GAWD I REALLY don't want to fuck you!!!!!)

(Okay maybe that first guy.........)

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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/29/2008 7:34:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick
Does it occur to anyone that if a woman comments on something in your profile or journal, or asks a question about it, that's all it is? Or is it pretty much a given that such a thing does not exist (and I'm just fooling myself)?

Cali



Never......I have been on Collarme since 2005. I have yet to get a comment on my profile. And if the woman makes first contact I generally assume it a scammer. Once in a great while I am wrong though.

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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 12/29/2008 7:52:33 PM   
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Does it occur to anyone that if a woman comments on something in your profile or journal, or asks a question about it, that's all it is? Or is it pretty much a given that such a thing does not exist (and I'm just fooling myself)?

Cali



Never......I have been on Collarme since 2005. I have yet to get a comment on my profile. And if the woman makes first contact I generally assume it a scammer. Once in a great while I am wrong though.


What he said!!!!!!!!


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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 1/3/2009 5:53:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		I typically don't assume any women are interested in me in "that way," so no.

It depends on what they say, really.

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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 1/3/2009 8:02:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Okay, now, put your doubts away, I have a serious question.  I know, I know, hard to believe, but it's true.

When a woman writes to you on CM, do you automatically assume she is interested in you in that way?  Whether for a potential relationship, a casual throw-down, whatever?

Does it occur to anyone that if a woman comments on something in your profile or journal, or asks a question about it, that's all it is?  Or is it pretty much a given that such a thing does not exist (and I'm just fooling myself)?

Cali



A serious question deserves a serious answer.

I assume that every woman on this board/earth/stratosphere wants to spend the night at my home - regardless of whether or not they write to me. A mail along the lines of: "NG, you really are an arrogant fucker aren't you"....reads to me as "NG, I'm only 5'3 and thus won't take up a great deal of space in your bed; I'm quite tidy, pleasant and kind, too, so you can count on me to behave and prepare myself for your pleasure".

I can state in all confidence that 'such a thing' does not exist.

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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 1/5/2009 3:04:57 AM   
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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 1/5/2009 3:38:39 AM   
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I don't assume anything, unless the mail comes from Africa...


Love that one - I don't do text speak but if I did it would be a ROFL moment.

To answer the OP, yes if they contact me then I would tend to assume they are interested unless it is clear from their message that they are contacting me about something in my Journal.  And as others have said, I wold like more people to comment upon my Journal - as I message females about stuff in theirs.  Having said that I rarely get messages from new contacts, only in reply to mine to them.




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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 1/5/2009 4:41:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Okay, now, put your doubts away, I have a serious question.  I know, I know, hard to believe, but it's true.

When a woman writes to you on CM, do you automatically assume she is interested in you in that way?  Whether for a potential relationship, a casual throw-down, whatever?

Does it occur to anyone that if a woman comments on something in your profile or journal, or asks a question about it, that's all it is?  Or is it pretty much a given that such a thing does not exist (and I'm just fooling myself)?


Cali



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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 1/5/2009 7:12:21 PM   
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If she pervs/writes/waves at  me....
She officially makes my "I'm gonna stalk her this week" list....
Cali.....I see you


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RE: For the Men... a serious question - 1/5/2009 7:32:31 PM   
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