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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/26/2008 10:01:39 AM   
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These are good suggestions, we're working on deep throating, too. I have mentioned to Him, though, that it's easier for me to deep throat when he doesn't expect me to swallow. Swallowing requires air  and deep throating does make it harder to breath. (Which is part of the fun). 

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/26/2008 9:02:10 PM   
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LOL...I didn't realize it was possible to breathe while deep throating. Or maybe I should say that I've just never figured out how hahahaha. But seriously, feeling a cock slide down the back of my throat is one of the most sensual sensations that I know of...I absolutely love it. There is a line in a book called Erotic Surrender, where the author talks about deep throating. It's something about the secretions produced when you gag, making things so much slicker and wetter...she calls it the throat's orgasm. I LOVE that line and have held it near and dear to my heart ever since reading it. I try to make my throat cum as often as possible *laughing*

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/26/2008 10:30:10 PM   
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My FAVORITE thing to use as a teaser, is get one of those popsicle Lik-A-Color things.  I like to put the whole thing in my mouth, and deep throat it.  Drives the guys NUTS!  and it's not that hard since it's like ice and it numbs the more you do it.  And if you do the whole deep throat thing afterwards, the coldness feels great to them!

Give it a try.  it's worth the 85 cents right?!?  lol 



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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/26/2008 10:59:50 PM   
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MarksFantasyGirl - oh my god!!! What a fantastic idea!!! I've gotta try that!

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/27/2008 4:56:14 AM   
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relaxing your throat, you can open up more space in your throat by relaxing
i do a kind of "pulling down" thingie with the back of my tongue? =p if you put your fingers  on either side of your windpipe and open your mouth and do the "pulling down" thing, you can feel your throat open
i actually learned it from playing a woodwind instrument =p


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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/27/2008 5:43:15 AM   
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You might find this link useful

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/27/2008 8:23:19 AM   
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My Master is too thick to deep throat.  I can get Him far enough to cause me to gag or choke, but no further. 

I have heard that you should swallow as they slide in deeper, but I have my mouth open so wide as to try and accomodate His cock, I can't even swallow. 

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/27/2008 8:28:55 AM   
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I've heard that trick, too, about swallowing as they move further back into your throat, but I can only do that once or twice before needing air becomes an issue. For some reason swallowing seems to trigger my gag reflex.

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/27/2008 12:30:48 PM   
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i am talking to a Dom who says He likes it when a girl can deep throat Him, i have tried in the past but never been able to. He says He will teach me, but He wants me to practice when He is not around too. can Aanyone give me tips/tricks on how to do this?
-jen-


You ask for tricks??? I am quite proficient with size and width when it comes to throat fucking or deep throating, but I did come upon a trick for others who need to learn the technique.  Brief background ~  my medications come in many sizes ~ tiny and huge.  I use to take all the small ones first, about 8 all in one swallow.  Then I worked on the bigger ones, one at a time.  That is just too labor intensive for me and one day I thought ~ just do all of em like a cock fuck.  Really, I did say that !! So I take a bit of milk or juice in my mouth, to get it wet.  Then I toss 7 huge oblong (2 greater than an inch), 6 medium size and 8 smaller ones into my mouth take another swallow wetting all the pills, toss my head back and swallow.  Kind of in the position that your mouth is throat fucked as it lays off the side of the bed.  Your would be "re-training" your gag reflex. So if you take this route to learn ~ I suggeststart with 4 m&m's then 6, then 8, then 16 !!  If you miss one or two at least its choclate instead of 2 huge fish oil pills. (and so nasty when they want another vote!).      

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/27/2008 4:49:48 PM   
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Glad I can help!!!  I LOVE teasing with that!  (Yes, that was before I was collared... I'm really not allowd to tease Him much anymore. lmao)

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/27/2008 5:45:58 PM   
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My FAVORITE thing to use as a teaser, is get one of those popsicle Lik-A-Color things.  I like to put the whole thing in my mouth, and deep throat it.  Drives the guys NUTS!  and it's not that hard since it's like ice and it numbs the more you do it.  And if you do the whole deep throat thing afterwards, the coldness feels great to them!

Give it a try.  it's worth the 85 cents right?!?  lol 




Gosh ... what a fantastic idea - thank you so much for sharing!  ... its almost worth the punishment for being a brat ... almost!!

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/27/2008 5:47:39 PM   
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LOL, no doubt on the popsicle thing.  I have a friend whom I've banned from eating them in my presence.  It's too damn sexy for his own safety. ;)

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/28/2008 2:13:16 AM   
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I am good at deep throating and have taught other subs via web cam.Its very easy if you can learn to relax,the largest Dom I took was 10 inches.

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/28/2008 5:04:26 AM   
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Vicks Cloraseptic spray is a good one to numb the throat and lessen the gag reflex. 

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/28/2008 7:31:09 AM   
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thank Eeveryone for the great ideas...m&m's and popsicles now on my shopping list lol

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/29/2008 10:42:14 AM   
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Positions play a part as well.

I find laying on my back with my head tipped back makes your throat into a straight line and Master can go straight down my throat. But if i'm kneeling or facing him so that his natural curve is going up my nose instead of down my throat it's a total no go.

Think of angles. if he's pointing up and your throat is going down it's going to be hard as hell to get the two to go together effectively. Not impossible but a hell of a lot harder.

Laying on the bed on my back with my head tilted over the edge and him standing works great as does 69 with him on top. OR even me laying on my back and him kneeling above my head works great.

Ball on forehead works better then balls on chin hehe

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/30/2008 5:12:56 AM   
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quote:

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My Master is too thick to deep throat.  I can get Him far enough to cause me to gag or choke, but no further. 

I have heard that you should swallow as they slide in deeper, but I have my mouth open so wide as to try and accomodate His cock, I can't even swallow. 


i have this issue sometimes, but i kind of like the gagging =p
didn't know that swallowing would help, i've done it accidentally on occaision and it just set of the gagging thing

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/30/2008 9:04:01 AM   
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utopicus - solo, He suggested hot dogs...or sausages.....how do i exersize and stop the urge?


I haven't read all of the responses so forgive me if someone already said this, but, I wouldn't try practicing with hot dogs or sausages (or any soft food like that).  I would be afraid that a piece could break off and you could end up choking.  Try something firmer that won't break, like a vegetable as was suggested, or, better yet, go buy yourself a dildo that is approximately the same length and width as his cock and practice with that.

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/30/2008 2:27:13 PM   
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original:  T1981

I've heard that trick, too, about swallowing as they move further back into your throat, but I can only do that once or twice before needing air becomes an issue. For some reason swallowing seems to trigger my gag reflex.


sorry for the late reply ~~

my former Dom was very large.  the one thing i haven't seen here, that He worked on with me when we were together, was to talk me through holding my breath with His cock deep in my throat.

think about it.  you know you can hold your breath for 10-20-30 seconds when you're simply .... holding your breath.  why can't you hold your breath for 10-20-30 seconds when His cock's in there?   at first i had a bazillion reasons!!!  LOL   but truly, He would talk softly and hold His cock there and count.  He never forced me to keep it there longer than i thought i could, although He would sometimes hold it one second longer than i thought possible.  i panicked often but it slowly got easier.  His patience and soothing teaching helped immensely.  and i got lots of praise when He counted to 10 while His cock had my throat totally closed off.  i loved pleasing Him that way!

we broke up not to long after we began the practice so i didn't get too good at it at that point.  but with the advice given above, and some work not to panic cause ya know you can hold your breath, i think you'll do great!

gemmie

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RE: How to deep throat? - 12/30/2008 5:59:19 PM   
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that sound really helpful actually! :) neat!

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