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eponastar -> Caning (12/26/2008 4:14:08 PM)
Hello all! I am getting ready to purchase my first cane. I have used them before but am wondering what everyone's opinion is on the subject. Do you enjoy it, what about it do you enjoy?

Lynnxz -> RE: Rattan Vs. Fiberglass (12/26/2008 4:17:09 PM)
Start out with a rattan in my opinion, fiberglass can get a little nasty. [:D]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Rattan Vs. Fiberglass (12/26/2008 4:23:18 PM)
I like fiberglass! And lexan, too. And those plastic thingys that they use to make venetian blinds open and close...

yourMissTress -> RE: Caning (12/26/2008 9:00:50 PM)
I bought my first canes at Domme Depot...different widths, had them cut to just the right length...mmm, memories.

MistressRouge -> RE: Caning (12/27/2008 1:31:29 AM)
A rattan or kooboo cane is advised, the sensation is totally different then synthetic canes, I do not like plastic canes at all. Dragons are wonderful, whippety thuddy, the thinner the cane the more likely buttock slicing will commence. Obviously it depends on the force and technique, and delivering a good warm up is essential and can actually enhance receiving more cane strokes also. I adore caning, and my slave TV joanne is upto her 300th cane strokes now, with no warm up, such a good girl! I enjoy the feeling as it connects with the buttocks, the sound it produces as I aim to produce perfect cane stroke alignment, Viewing my cane art transend into crimson stripes, and cuts, and providing a challenge of declaring a set amount of strokes that my subs must endure, and following through to the very last stroke. Caning really triggers my sadism at times, but only for the hardened CP enthusiast. I can also cane a novice, without leaving marks, a skill that I have acquired over years of practice [:D]

WILDRUBIA69 -> RE: Caning (12/27/2008 5:40:00 AM)
I Have Learn To Love Been Caned, and I Will Prefer Rattan Always, As For The Feeling, Just Getting into The Position and Knowing I am About to Get a Good Canning it Excited Me a Lot, Firts Becuase I Enjoy The Burning on My Ass and The Rewards I Get after, Make Up More than Enough For Something That I Like So Much, Pleasing My Mistress and Master. Elsita

malloves69 -> RE: Caning (12/27/2008 9:05:37 AM)
my mistress from time to time loves bringing out her cane ...but im not a real big pain slut [:)] sometimes i do endure her whacks when shes in the mood ..gotta keep the lady happy [:)] most she gave me was 51 for my last birthday after 10 i was really feeling it ..boy was she good at it too ...she said she did it to get the blood flowing before she fucked my ass with her strapon [:)] the things us sub males endure for our mistresses [:)] mal

T1981 -> RE: Caning (12/27/2008 9:11:43 AM)
We have just started experimenting with caning using a couple of dowel rods. For me, they are punishment/fear toys - definately a whole different level of pain for me - not nesscarily BAD, but the kind of pain that isn't so much about pleasure for me. Anytime he brings those out and taps me with them, the response is immediate, terrified, and incredibly hot. I would suggest not buying the skinny ones, he accidently broke one over my ass the first time we played with them. (Although the sharp point later made for an interesting poking sensation play thing....) I have also heard that binding them together is a good idea to prevent snapping. We're looking at buying a plastic one, and I have heard others say that mini-blind rods are a good thing to start with.

MsStarlett -> RE: Caning (12/27/2008 2:33:50 PM)
I love my bundled rattan canes! http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii172/MsStarlett/Toys/BundledCanes.jpg There is just nothing like the sound they make when I wave them in the air. They cut the air with that lovely 'swishing' noise. My boys tremble in anticipation when they hear that. It leaves such beautiful welts on their backs and buttocks that send me into ecstasy when I run my fingers across them. Just like an old fashioned rub board. So divine.

Reigna -> RE: Caning (12/27/2008 4:42:56 PM)
You can buy wonderful, reasonably priced rattan canes on eBay. I bought mine from an English guy who sells there, and seems to do quite a good business in them. Co-sign the recommendation for dragon/kooboo.

LPslittleclip -> RE: Caning (12/28/2008 8:20:18 AM)
rattan and large diameter for the first ones, if you get blind rods get the round ones as the edges of some can cut if not careful. getting several small diameter ones and bundling one end for a handle is good as well it can be used like that or have rubber bands to hold it in a bundle, and as a bundle they can be used to hold nipples tongue or other things in it.

MistressRouge -> RE: Caning (12/28/2008 8:59:57 AM)
Ooo I love the look of that [:D] quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett I love my bundled rattan canes! http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii172/MsStarlett/Toys/BundledCanes.jpg There is just nothing like the sound they make when I wave them in the air. They cut the air with that lovely 'swishing' noise. My boys tremble in anticipation when they hear that. It leaves such beautiful welts on their backs and buttocks that send me into ecstasy when I run my fingers across them. Just like an old fashioned rub board. So divine.

MsStarlett -> RE: Caning (12/28/2008 9:50:31 AM)
Best part? It was $20! Best bargain I ever found.

jstmi -> RE: Caning (12/28/2008 10:21:06 AM)
i have not felt a cane ever but a couple of years back my former Mistress and i went to a demo at the monthy discussion group before the monthly munch. i wasn't as terrified of the cane afterwards, in fact i took it off my hard limit list immediately, She was going to purchase a cane in the future but was looking for an ideal one and well W/we never got around to it. i do hope to someday experience this, i have had sensual play with a flogger and hard play so as long as i was brought up to my tolerance on a slow basis i think i may enjoy this on the ass, not sure of across the thighs though,, that looks like it could sting,. jstmi

MistressRouge -> RE: Caning (12/28/2008 1:38:54 PM)
No way [:D], was it from an online site :) quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett Best part? It was $20! Best bargain I ever found.

DelilahDeb -> RE: Caning (12/28/2008 2:14:15 PM)
There's two extremes to caning: * The historical "Victorian Terror Weapon" with counted strokes is the sadistic end. * Senuous caning is another whole universe. (Run a web search on the name "Conrad Hodson" for an excellent article about how to select a cane, use a cane, warm up a sub with a cane, etc.) I prefer the latter. Any technique that draws blood is more extreme than I use. That doesn't stop me from having a sjambok as the heavy end of my own cane collection! But I do agree with those who recommend rattan. www.bossbondage.com has canes both rattan and Lexan. I can also recommend the eBay store called "A Gentleman's Retreat" as a supplier of hippo-hide sjamboks in various length. Good prices, ecologically sound source (only culled hippos, no poaching), and inexpensive shipping. Lady Delilah Deb

beeble -> RE: Caning (12/28/2008 3:01:39 PM)
quote: DelilahDeb wrote: [I have] a sjambok as the heavy end of my own cane collection! I'm a little confused. Isn't a sjambok a whip, rather than a cane? beeble.

MistressRouge -> RE: Caning (12/28/2008 3:33:51 PM)
I purchased my sjambok from that store also, I was very impressed on first use. Very whippetty, yet intense full on impact, nice heavy stroke [:D] It leaves some wonderful long stripes too, without wrapping, which I never do. quote: ORIGINAL: DelilahDeb But I do agree with those who recommend rattan. www.bossbondage.com has canes both rattan and Lexan. I can also recommend the eBay store called "A Gentleman's Retreat" as a supplier of hippo-hide sjamboks in various length. Good prices, ecologically sound source (only culled hippos, no poaching), and inexpensive shipping. Lady Delilah Deb

MistressRouge -> RE: Caning (12/28/2008 3:35:16 PM)
Correct beeble [:)] Mine is made from hippo hide [:D] quote: ORIGINAL: beeble quote: DelilahDeb wrote: [I have] a sjambok as the heavy end of my own cane collection! I'm a little confused. Isn't a sjambok a whip, rather than a cane? beeble.

MistressRouge -> RE: Caning (12/28/2008 3:36:41 PM)
Correct beeble [:)] Mine is made from hippo hide [:D] I wish I could get my hands on some british birch!! quote: ORIGINAL: beeble quote: DelilahDeb wrote: [I have] a sjambok as the heavy end of my own cane collection! I'm a little confused. Isn't a sjambok a whip, rather than a cane? beeble.

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