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Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 11:56:12 AM   
Sensualips


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I started the New Year with a new experience - needle play. I know some of you are pros in this area, but I thought my story might be of interest to some considering trying it.

I went to a play party last night, with no specific plans to scene but always open to what might happen. I was introduced to a Dom I knew by reputation only. As we talked, the discussion turned to needle play and I mentioned I wanted to definitely try that at some point. As it turns out, this was one of his areas of proficiency and so we talked some more and negotiated a scene for after midnight.

Almost as soon as he walked away I was hit with temporary anxiety and all the typical symptoms I exhibit from that. A little queasy, almost imperceptibly shaky, and an overall prickliness. (Yes, I am SUCH a wimp!) I took a few minutes to sip some water and breathe through that while I double-checked myself to be sure I was prepared for this unexpected turn. I was.

After the midnight festivities we headed for the scene space and he did some preparation. He briefly walked through exactly what would happen, hygiene things, what to expect and so on. He decided to do a pattern on the inside of each breast. Then he took some time to “connect” with me through some yummy talking with deep eye contact and general touching/holding. At that point I thought I was already completely relaxed and centered, but as he pressed his hand on my back or his head next to mine, I definitely felt myself let go even more.

As the first needle went in the sensation was similar to…well…a needle entering my skin. Not particularly stingy or burning – just a pinch. He told me we would wait for a minute and see how I responded. I lay on the table, feeling like I had a needle in my breast. He put his hand on my forehead and that warmth and pressure was very comforting and centering. After a minute or so he did the second needle and almost immediately after it entered I felt a little head rush. Just a pleasant buzz – a little floaty. After about the fifth needle on that side, I really didn’t even feel the pinch as they went in. Periodically he would pause and place his hand on my forehead or verbally ask how I was. He also continued to talk quietly, reassuring me that I was a natural, doing very well, etc. This Dom was a very good hand-holder for a new girl like myself.

The left side was a little trickier. The submissive in the scene space next to us was very verbal and her sounds plus the whacking/slapping sounds intruded a little. It is my voyeuristic nature to wonder what is happening over there. I am not sure if that is the reason, but the first few needles going in seemed a little more painful than the other side and I was starting to shake just a teeny bit. With the first 2-3 I got a little muscle cramp in my back as they entered, so I asked to move and stretch that out each time. By the third time I realized maybe it was just my lack of focus, so I took some breaths and consciously relaxed and surrendered and then it was MUCH easier.

When he was done I lay there for a while and just enjoyed the drowsy, smiley, pleasant feeling. Eventually he helped sit me up and he poked and prettied his work. I waved down one of the dungeon owners and asked for permission for some pictures. She retrieved my camera and obliged. In the end he did twelve needles on each side. I think he said they were 22 gauge?

Although I am a pro at achieving orgasms (bwaaaahahahahah!) this was the first time I had approached anything even close to an adrenaline/endorphin rush or subspace or however a person might label that lazy, warm, dreamy feeling. For me it was not an intense oh-my-god sensation, but just an all over pleasantness.

Then came the removal. I was not expecting much from this part – just take ‘em out. The first one to be removed was on the bottom right and it bled. Not just a drop but a little trickle. I have never been grossed out by blood, but never considered it terribly erotic either. Until now. I think it was partially my own internal reaction and partially feeding off the reaction of the Dom, as both his nonverbal cues and words revealed that he found that sensual and arousing as well. Yummy. On the right side the bottom 4-5 were near a large vein and bled quite a bit. Not gushing by any means, but more than a trickle. Unfortunately it was enough that, because of the setting, we needed to hold gauze over it and not just let it run down off my breasts and trickle over my thighs. Darn! I was very surprised at the powerful sexual feelings I had from this. If it would have been the appropriate circumstances, I definitely would have jumped him. :)

When it was all over there was some concern I might be spacey or have a delayed reaction of shakiness or lightheadedness or whatever. I was fine though, maybe a little pumped up. I ate and drank a little, talked with people and actually left about 30 minutes later and drove an hour home and went right to bed. No problems at all except a bit of a headache when I woke up this morning.

Needless to say, I look forward to future play in this area. Mmmm.
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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 12:44:50 PM   
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Thank you for sharing. That sounded like a fun evening for you. I am not so sure that I would have enjoyed it at all; horrible fear of needles. But the blood play I could really get into.

Thanks again and Happy New Year.

Knight's kyra

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 1:06:03 PM   
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Hello Sensual

Thank you sooo much for your article. It was perfectly timed for me. I've never done any needle play or cutting, but I've started to play with a Dom couple who are definitely interested in taking me to this area, so it's a bit of a confidence boost.

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 1:25:07 PM   
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Thanks for your sharing;)

I definatly and absolutly love needleplay and had been one of the few things this newbie has actually done.. And i reckognize yr reactions, its not at all overly painful in any way, it just gives me an overall good happy feeling;) And for me it is suuuuuuuch a turn on;)

Needleplay is my fav spare-time activity:)

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 1:30:57 PM   
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Thank You so much. Needle play is something I have always wanted to experience but have not had the opportunity to yet. Hearing the details of how You were feeling and what exactly was happening makes it even more of a "I want to do that!" thing for me now.

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 2:25:14 PM   
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Wow.
Thank you so much for sharing that.
I am not afraid of needles... (i'm insulin dependent diabetic after all, so face needles often).
But perhaps as a result have not been all that interested in trying this.
it just didn't sound like something i would get into.
But also, i'd never seen it done, and had no idea what it involved. Thanks for educating me. It just might be something i try some day.
And this Dom sounds like he was really good. Great to hear how patient and gentle some Doms can be.

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 2:38:36 PM   
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quote:

I am not so sure that I would have enjoyed it at all; horrible fear of needles.


And yet the clothesline zipper that you love makes me plead RED at the mere mention of it. Ahhh, the complexities of individual minds.

I am glad some liked the blow by blow. I have a few pics if you are interested:

Photo 1

Photo 2

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 3:17:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sensualips

quote:

I am not so sure that I would have enjoyed it at all; horrible fear of needles.


And yet the clothesline zipper that you love makes me plead RED at the mere mention of it. Ahhh, the complexities of individual minds.

I am glad some liked the blow by blow. I have a few pics if you are interested:

Photo 1

Photo 2


He made me look at the pictures... the first one just makes me shudder... I'll take zippers any day. Maybe I'll ask him to take pictures next time so I can share that with you since you were so kind in sharing yours *hope the sarcasm came through*

Glad you had a good time *ss*

kyra

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 3:49:27 PM   
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Well Kyra, I do have some more pictures -- including a few close ups. If you are interested, I could send them to you privately. (Insert evil grin here.)

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 3:55:52 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sensualips

Well Kyra, I do have some more pictures -- including a few close ups. If you are interested, I could send them to you privately. (Insert evil grin here.)




*laughing evily* OH PLEASE DO!!!!!! *EG*

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 3:58:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sensualips

Well Kyra, I do have some more pictures -- including a few close ups. If you are interested, I could send them to you privately. (Insert evil grin here.)



I have a few choice words for you that we could exchange in private as well *eg*

You are not helping.. now he says "I need to go get a bunch of needles". Now he wants to learn to use them. He was just so pleased over my reaction to your pictures.

Edited to add: BTW Sensual.. do you like getting kicked in the ass?? *smiles sweetly*

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 4:57:00 PM   
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Hmmmm kyra I know just the person who would be more then willing to show KoM how to use them. Of coarse I would be more then willing to be the one he demonstrates on *weg*. I am so looking forward to my first time with them. Hopefully early this spring I will get to...lol.

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 5:17:22 PM   
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This is something I have wanted to do for a very long time. I know a few who would do this but the timing hasn't been right. It will happen, when it's meant to be..
I am so glad your time was so good. That Dom is on the ball..You found the right person to start with.

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 6:00:06 PM   
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quote:

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Hmmmm kyra I know just the person who would be more then willing to show KoM how to use them. Of coarse I would be more then willing to be the one he demonstrates on *weg*. I am so looking forward to my first time with them. Hopefully early this spring I will get to...lol.

aurora


No more hijacking thread! The sadistic bastard doesn't need anymore help. His evil mind is creative enough. The topic is Sensual's New Year's Eve and not kyra's inability to keep foot out of mouth... it's a horrible affliction and I think I caught it from denika. *g*

Back to the thread now... *walks away muttering with compatriots like these, who needs enemies...

Knight's kyra

btw, I must be a serious masochist because I am getting some peverse pleasure out of his glee over discovering this button of mine.



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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 6:45:26 PM   
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Mmmm needles...whenever I think of needles, I think of clothespins lol

gets me all excited just thinking about them

Congratualations on a wonderful experience Sensualips :)

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 8:54:17 PM   
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kyra
*s* I'm always glad to pass on the foot in mouth torch. Hmm I think I can get you some lovely 14 and 12 gauge needles *eg*


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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/1/2006 10:03:45 PM   
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woo hoo and another needle slut is born ~giggles~ i'm glad it was suck a good experience for you. It's the only thing that really gets my dolphins swimming that we've found so far anyway.
BTW a friend of mine has a needleslut site on live journal i'm sure we needle sluts would love your current and future pics and there are some wonderful pics to look at there. if you or anyone is interested contact me and i'll pass on the link
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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/2/2006 6:22:11 AM   
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Thanks for sharing...my first needle play experience unfortunately was NOT ideal and I haven't met someone since who I had a good connection with to try again. Glad you got somewhere nice and found a new place.

And all without having to go through a whole bunch of "limit pushing" hoops.

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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/2/2006 6:55:03 AM   
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You know it is strange. When I first started in the lifestyle these are the things I never ever did. Now I'd like to learn. I was updating my bondage.com profile, and my purity rate went from 78% down to the 50's somewhere. I was actually kind of shocked.
I definitely would like to learn how to do it, along with knife play and using a whip.
It's always good to know details from the submissive's side. Thank you, you did teach me a lot.
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RE: Needle Play - First Timer - 1/2/2006 6:58:33 AM   
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Sensual,

What a wonderful story! Thanks for sharing it.

It's pretty typical of a first time story, though. I wish I had a nickel for every time someone has said 'no sharps' and then later, after trying it, realize that not only is it not necessarily painful but NOTHING brings the endorphins up quicker than sharps. It's a simple biochemical reaction that happens when your skin is broken but it sure is a great way to get floaty quickly. Of course, it's possible to do needles in a way that is painful, but I'm glad that wasn't your first experience.

I'm glad you were in a safe place with a competent and compassionate top.

I love sharps play. LOVE it. I've been known to achieve orgasm placing needles, what's not to like?!?

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