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RE: The Correct Time - 1/6/2006 10:44:31 PM

Wolfie648

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Nobody like's to disappoint their owner not in the least, especially when it comes to play time. So what do you do if the only time he ever finds it in himself to play is late at night when your dead tired and you have no real energy to play. The desire is there but the energy isn't.

How can I get him to change his ways (yes I know ha ha)
Serious, It seems latley I feel like he does it on purpose so that we don't have to play, it has been so very long now, a year since I have had play.

hmm.

#1) "what do you do when" etc. well hmm <scratches head> you play when he wants to? Jeez o' wait that must have been too simple.

#2) "How can I get him to change his ways?" Good luck. Honestly I think this guy is waiting for you to see the light or not. I'd take side bets but that's rude.

D (owner of j).

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RE: The Correct Time - 1/7/2006 7:20:18 AM

MasterLark

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ORIGINAL: spoiledbrat

Just for the record and I am not in no way trying to be rude, I just would like to maybe lay out the facts a little more clearer for you.

1. Was his property for two years.
2. Job pro-submissive
3. No out to any thing other the grocery store in over a year and half.
reasons being
If I was good and deserved to go out, He was tired from work, we had no cash, he wasnt in the mood or just plain out life interferes as he says.

4. In regards to my work, that is my work, that is not my owner playing with me, that is some stranger coming over. If you serve someone you would like to have pleasure with that person not some stranger that books an appointment with you and pays for it.
Big big difference in it.

Nothing what I have said in any post is fishy, I dont have to lie or make things up. Just put it all together and you may get confused but one thing you shouldnt pull up is fish.

I'm confused. you are no longer his property? or still with Him? If you are no longer with Him, what do you need now? If you are still with Him, why?

Sounds like it's The Correct Time for you to leave, move on and spend time finding a Master that is a better fit for you and vice versa. True?

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RE: The Correct Time - 1/7/2006 2:33:24 PM

RiotGirl

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i just read your list and ug it gave me a terrible feeling.

So basically it goes like this. You were pretty much locked in the house, continuesly with no outside "friendly" contact. You were a slave, down to the very meaning of it. He brought over other girls and played with them. While he brought over other ppl that paid to play with you? the two of you having little no contact between you two?

i hate to tell you what this sounds like. Let me guess, he didnt let you keep the money?

Sounds like.. <cough cough> you were a walking money tree that never had a gardener. If you're not confused. Its NOT normal, because every tree (person), whether it a money tree or not, NEEDS to be taken care of too. You were not taken care of, yet you were prolly a great source of money for him.

Glad you left. There is better. Though, i cant believe i'm suggesting it, but you might want to go talk to a counselar about the job you did. Jobs like that can have major pyscological effects on a person. Jobs like that can and will ruin your sex life for the future. Self esteem, self worth.

there is out there, great Dominants, that will care greatly for you, that will literally take care of you while you take care of them. That wont need a money tree, that will probably value yourself more then you do so or can imagine being so. You ARE more valuable then the price that was put on you. There are many ppl out there that will see that.

Stick with the boards, try to move on, and stick with the boards. There is good ppl here. When you do start looking, stick with the ppl that come to the boards as they have a reputation and most of them are widely known. Stay here, and read, learn, find out what is more "normal" in the relationships. Many Many ppl speak out about their own relationships you will be able to get a good idea if you read alot of whats acceptable and whats not. At the moment, i have a feeling you do not know what is and what isnt acceptable. Which is how you got yourself in this mess = )

Stick with the boards and like i've said before, if you want to talk to some one, just email

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RE: The Correct Time - 1/7/2006 2:54:51 PM

DelRey

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My answer ?

You find a relitive with a home their not using, far away. You go there, Rest, call a friend, light some candels and maybe order a Pizza, have a glass of wine and enjoy some new suroundings. New beginings can be closer than you think.

a wink and a hug...

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RE: The Correct Time - 1/7/2006 4:24:19 PM

FionaFineass

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I have read this entire thread. I have read her other thread. I have read her entire web page. Interesting stuff even the inconsistencies

I'm new to the boards and they sure are full of...........
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