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jakelogan01 -> laundry... (12/29/2008 8:56:46 AM)

ok, so...i have this weird thing...i like doing laundry. some say it's not a dommy thing to do, but really, i don't care much about them. i see it as just a personal kink. do subbies also see it as not a dommy thing to do?




CalifChick -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 9:06:26 AM)

I don't know, I think you'll have to come and try it out at my house first, and then I'll know.

Okayyyyyyyyyyyy, seriously... I do not see activities as dominant, it is the mindset behind it.  So dom the hell out of that laundry!


Cali




beargonewild -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 9:08:16 AM)

Personally I don't see the chore as being a submissive or a dominant thing to do. Granted in many d/s relationships, the dom will delegate this to their sub though I know of many who prefer to do the laundry themselves even if the identify as a dominant. 




angelspassion4u -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 9:12:51 AM)

     We all have chores to do whether we are Dominant or submissive.  I don't see it being one way or the other. It has to get done.  If someone likes doing then more power to them. It is a life long chore not BDSM thing. 




sirsholly -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 9:20:55 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick



Okayyyyyyyyyyyy, seriously... I do not see activities as dominant, it is the mindset behind it.  So dom the hell out of that laundry



wonder how he handles a set-in stain.....[:)]




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 9:31:40 AM)

I don't see any sort of household chore as being more subly or domly.  If anyone tells you otherwise, tell them that being a dominant means you do what you want, how you want, when you want.... and you want to do the laundry dammit!  [sm=laundry.gif]  LOL!

You could always beat them with the wet towels to prove your point..... if you're a laundry sadist that is. [;)]




jakelogan01 -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 9:33:36 AM)

my point precisely, brnaughtyangel, lol




CalifChick -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 9:53:39 AM)

So Jake... I'm going to be up your way later this week, can I just go ahead and bring you my dirty laundry and you can show me how a dom does it?  Please?


Cali




Mercnbeth -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 9:59:19 AM)

as soon as we were old enough to hold a rag and wipe, this slave and her sister did the cleaning of the house, with one exception...laundry.
 
Mom, in her extremely dominant fashion, declared that she would be the one doing it...because she liked to.
 
we were taught how, of course...but she insisted on doing it.




jakelogan01 -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 9:59:43 AM)

are you begging, cali? lol




VampiresLair -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 10:02:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: jakelogan01
i see it as just a personal kink. do subbies also see it as not a dommy thing to do?

When I meet someone who does my laundry exactly the way I like it done, they are more than welcome to do so. Until then I am Dominant and control that. Fox does the dishes, the vacuuming, and the other chores. The only one he doesnt do is laundry.

DV




utopicus -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 10:02:49 AM)

You'd be surprised how many Doms (as well as subs) do chores.... out of necessity...




Phoenixpower -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 10:06:07 AM)

I would love a Dom who would be keen on doing that...I never enjoyed it and was always forced to do it at home and so tend to do it when I have no other choice then to do it as my cupboards are running empty and my baskets are getting full *sigh*




jakelogan01 -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 10:24:38 AM)

out of necessity? baskets full? nononononono...just for the pleasure of it...the aroma... the sound...the weight of wet clothes coming out of the washer...the undrfinable texture of lint in the dryer...




servantheart -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 10:26:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: jakelogan01

ok, so...i have this weird thing...i like doing laundry. some say it's not a dommy thing to do, but really, i don't care much about them. i see it as just a personal kink. do subbies also see it as not a dommy thing to do?


I see it as a hygiene thing...unless one's kink is stinky, dirty clothes [:'(]




myotherself -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 10:28:30 AM)

I HATE doing laundry!  And although not a slave, I'd worship any Dom who did mine!  [:D]




CalifChick -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 10:33:38 AM)

Not only am I begging, Jake, cuz I'm all subbly and know how to do that, but I even kneeled down to do it.  Now THAT is saying something!


Cali




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 10:45:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: jakelogan01

out of necessity? baskets full? nononononono...just for the pleasure of it...the aroma... the sound...the weight of wet clothes coming out of the washer...the undrfinable texture of lint in the dryer...


Oh I love the smell of certain laundry soaps.  In fact, Febreeze makes a deodorizer that is called "clean cotton or linen" or something of that sort and I use that around the house.  It smells so clean and fresh!




devotedinSD -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 10:46:43 AM)

Doing laundry is VERY dominant, I in fact think every man should master this skill to perfection. I have plenty of learning material at home by the way...




Phoenixpower -> RE: laundry... (12/29/2008 10:48:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: devotedinSD

I have plenty of learning material at home by the way...


*lol* me, too [:D]




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