LadyShoshin
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Joined: 7/19/2004 From: Burlington, Ontario Status: offline
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The DMs at the parties I go to know when I bottom, they are likely going to hear "the shoshie yell" and have to assist with getting me down off the chains or cross. It isn't any specific tool, it is the energy in the room, how whatever the Top is using gets used on me. When I was strictly sub, the DMs would watch the scene & when they saw the telltale signs, they would head for the newbies in the room to reassure them that the noise was a good thing. I had to apologize once to a female bartender for scaring her. One Dom told me that when it would happen he could tell half the room was thinking "what did that beast do to her?" and dislike him, the other half would say, "oh, that was just shoshin". When I was put up tandem with another sub, I left her deaf in one ear for two days. Since I am Domming, the shoshie yell is a thing of the past, but one never knows, I still may bottom to a trusted friend.
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