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RE: Define kinky - 1/6/2009 9:36:55 AM   
chezzy71


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define kinky?????let' see...hmmm referencing childhood books....see chezzy...see chezzy tied and gagged..see chezzy try to escape with his dog Spot..see chezzy trip and fall from his restraints...ok that was fun..smiles

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RE: Define kinky - 1/6/2009 9:53:03 AM   
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Reminds me of a joke I heard once. 

Erotic is using a feather

Kinky is using the whole chicken. 

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RE: Define kinky - 1/6/2009 9:59:15 AM   
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Haven't read all of the replies here. 
Kinky used to mean bdsm stuff but has somehow broadened. 
Something similar has happened with the phrase 'the Lifestyle'; it used to reference the swing lifestyle but now every alt lifestyle seems to be dubbed 'The' Lifestyle. 
The advent of the internet has brought on some odd liberties with terminology (Best for me not to even get started on the term <psychological diagnosis> of fetish; that's been completely popularized and inaccurately used).  I dislike the fluidity of word definitions.  Yes, terms are just a starting point of a greater conversation but if there is too much fluidity, the phenomenon obfuscates rather than illuminates the opportunity for communication. 
As far as a personal perception of kinky as related to me or others goes, I don't really have one.  I will sometimes use the old-style definition when self-describing: ie: I am kinky because I am interested in aspects of bdsm. 
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RE: Define kinky - 1/6/2009 7:37:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: manxcat

quote:

ORIGINAL: GeminiDominant

Insert old joke here:

Kinky is using a feather, perverted is using the whole chicken.



hmmm as i heard it
Sensual is using a feather, kinky is using the whole chicken
and i think it was in Playboy, about a billion and 2 years ago


And perverted is eating the chicken afterwards.


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RE: Define kinky - 2/28/2009 12:34:29 AM   
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I like the old adage - to tie some one up and tickle them with a feather is kinky, to use the whole chicken is perverted!

Smile :-)

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RE: Define kinky - 2/28/2009 5:38:46 AM   
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Kinky means nonaverage sex. Anything that falls under the umbrella of alternative sexual practices could have the label kinky applied to them. Now that the op knows her definition is not one used by most people, she needs to find other ways to describe herself.

Or she could keep on insisting that everyone else understands exactly what she means and she can continue to be shocked that they aren't what she's looking for.

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RE: Define kinky - 2/28/2009 9:45:29 PM   
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My definition of "kinky" is: anything beyond just inserting a man's penis into a woman's vagina for the pure purpose of procreation.  

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RE: Define kinky - 3/1/2009 11:27:52 AM   
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Kinky is Sindley Whiplash tying the bitch to the railroad tracks, Then some moron "Dudly DoRight"  rides up jacking up Snidly's plans.

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RE: Define kinky - 3/1/2009 7:07:34 PM   
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Kinky used to be understood to reference bdsm but it seems to have broadened in usage and scope.  I think it's another one of those terms that has broadened out to mean more than it originally did, so it muddies the waters but gives the opportunity for further conversation. 
  Davan

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