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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 4:32:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: colouredin

Newly created deal breakers

Addicts
No job
Needs looking after
Stupid

(yup been out with all of them)

Long standing deal breakers
Dishonesty
Still in love with ex's
No sense of humour

Look; you know I'm going to work on the addiction thing. Soon. I'm just not quite ready for that step this year.

And sheesh - did you have to make the other little niggles so public? I don't find that amusing at all.

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 4:32:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Hey Lookie,

I am one sharp lady with large bossoms. But your profile shows you being out of state.

(And she says she's schmaht......SHE's the one out of state!!!!!)

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 5:23:02 PM

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When he says, "No forced play with other women? I can cure you of that. It is a fear.. da da da.."
That guy may look like Brad Pitt one moment, but the minute he says that.. my eyes start looking around and finding Jack Black handsome.
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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 5:27:36 PM

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Ya know.. I keep seeing these listed as deal breakers..
But from my point of view, they would be dismissed right out of the gate. LOL it wouldn't even reach deal breaking.
Guess I must be snobbier than I thought.
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ORIGINAL: sblady

My dealbreaker list may seem harsh, but hey....you "gotta do what you gotta do"

Liars
Addictions (drugs, alcohol or gambling)
Prison record
Horrible relationship with their offspring (get a court order for supervised visitation and pay child support)

Poor hygiene
Unable to accept "me"
Rude/mean spirited
Lack motivation
No sense of humor
As Michigan's economy is in the toilet, if they've recently lost their job, they need to actively seek some form of employment, go back to school and if possible, relocate.

Wow!! Thanks for starting this post Luscious! This has helped me appreciate my relationship that much more.

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 7:15:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Ya know.. I keep seeing these listed as deal breakers..
But from my point of view, they would be dismissed right out of the gate. LOL it wouldn't even reach deal breaking.
Guess I must be snobbier than I thought.
Kyst
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Missokyst, sometimes these can be hidden issues. You know, put your best foot forward and all that jazz. I've been blindsided twice and also fell for the "hard luck" story. D'oh!!

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 7:38:55 PM

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1) Overseas after stating in profile they live in this country.
2) Will not agree to my purchasing a non refundable ticket from my travel agent.
3) dislikes smokers
4) Drinks.
5) Uses illegal drugs
6) Is not female.

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 7:43:44 PM

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 8:35:28 PM

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Hitting with a 13 and getting a 9
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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 9:50:23 PM

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A closed mind.

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 10:56:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: marie2
Other deal breakers for me are:

Emotionally unavailable.
Boring and non-creative sexually.
Penny-pinching cheap bastards.
Drug/alcohol abuse or addiction.
Lacking in passion and intensity.
Mental disorders.

I think you may be dating some of my exes.

Sorry to hear, M

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 11:03:40 PM

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Well if he was just to lazy a slob to get his own place I'd agree, but my partner lived with his mom well into adult hood, and it was because she needed him to care for her. And even now at 37,David Daddies brother jokes he*Daddy* and his mom should get an apartment, So that the mom is not Davids problem any more since David has washed his hands of his mom living with him and his wife.

So I wouldn't call it a deal breaker cause he still lived at home,I'd call it a deal breaker cause someone who's the soul care taker of someone else, won't be likely to have the time and energy I am looking for in my relationships.

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

In relationship or getting to know someone, what is/are your biggest deal breakers?

Deal breakers for me:

No job
Lives at home with mom at 40+
Bad hygiene
No time into looking nice(showing up fro a date in a baseball cap or in shorts)

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/7/2009 11:06:43 PM

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Inability to stand up to nosey meddling family members has sky rocketed to number one deal breaker for me, after 3 partners in a row who were pussies when it came to telling the family to mind their own business and butt out.

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/8/2009 4:13:35 AM

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Smoking

Drugs

Police record ( no matter how small)

Debt

No gainful means of income

Lives at home with Mom/Dad ( although I would have to look at the situation as many people My age are moving back to care for aged parents)

Ex baggage

Procrastination

Lying

Hygiene Issues

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/8/2009 5:16:44 AM

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Warning!

Warning!

Living with Mom and Dad at 40+ (GOING to get his own place as soon as he gets a full time job or wins the lottery.)
Looking for a "second" before moving the "first" in to his home.
Telling everyone he is poly while still living with Mom and Dad.

Lying. Fibbing. Misrepresenting.

Smoking

Alcohol abuse

Dogs, cats, horses, ... any pet larger than a fish.

Going to get a divorce... Still going to get a divorce after 2 years.

Still living with "ex-wife" because he can't afford to move out.
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i'll think of more later - that's it for now.

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/8/2009 5:25:14 AM

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Lying
Being irresponsible
Unemployed
Lazy
Bad Hygiene (Doesn't include someone who is unkempt because he just got out of work to come see me.)
Living outside of the USA
Being from Georgia (I know this one is silly)
Strictly Gay
No means of transportation
Someone who doesn't like four legged animals
No sense of humor
Drug or Alcohol addiction

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/8/2009 7:03:56 AM

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Whoooooooooa....what exactly is so wrong with those of us who live in Georgia?

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/8/2009 7:19:36 AM

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No job
No car
Lives at home
Smokes,does drugs or drinks alcohol
Poly or swinger
Bad teeth
Poor Hygiene
Married
Christian
Obese

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/8/2009 7:53:19 AM

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Georgia people talk funny.

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/8/2009 7:59:31 AM

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Yanno Ray, after reading all the deal breakers with the women here, I have come to one conclusion: I'd be in one hell of a dilemma if I was bi! Either way I'd still be single....sigh!

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RE: What are your biggest deal breakers? - 1/8/2009 8:00:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: SilverMark

Whoooooooooa....what exactly is so wrong with those of us who live in Georgia?

I just want to know what's wrong with not being licensed to drive and therefore not owning a car?

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