pettaurus
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I never drive when we are together. He always drives. Took me a while to become comfy with that one. I hate not being in control of the vehicle I am in.
He will address me as Pet.
He pays for everything when we are together. No matter whos account it is from, it flows from His hand to the cashiers hand. Never touches mine.
He will give me the "look". Yeah, you know that look I am talking about. Every Dom has it lol
He approves all clothing that is bought for me.
More obvious ways He has shown His Dominance:
When questioned by His family about BDSM and such. I was the one that was told to answer said questions. I think it was because He knew it would make me blush. His family is very open about sex and such, so it wasnt a HUGE leap.
Told me in the middle of a store, very loudly, "I dont like those panties, go get thongs". Yes, I got looks and blushed.
Orders my food for me at times. I am a picky eater and will balk at times <ya know, the look when ya turn around and look at Him in the eyes, with but, but, but plastered all over your face>, but never argue. Have gotten both questioning and knowing looks with that one.
He has a hand signal for me for when He wants me to shut up. Yes, I say shut up even though I hate that word. But, I tend to get long winded and don't know when to stop. He knows how to stop me, and has used that in front of friends that have no clue about our lifestyle. First time He did it, I asked Him, what would you have told them had they questioned it? His response? I suppose, everything LOL. More attentive people pick up on it. lol.
On the flip side:
Ways I show my submissiveness to Him:
We often share drinks. When D/s was incorporated, was a natural thing for me to automatically offer Him a drink before I take one. You bet He notices and says something if I slip up. Which I do sometimes. Especially when we are apart for an extended period of time.
I am actually comfortable and relaxed when He is driving. No matter how He is driving. Only started AFTER D/s started. I have only told Him to slow down once. And that was when He was going a lil too fast with the kids in the car. But, mom overtook sub. Happens often.
I dont sleep well. Suffer from insomnia. When He is here, I will not get out of bed until I am sure He is sleeping.
I will call Him Master in public.
If we are in public and He "asks" <yes, I know it is an order>, me to do something, I do it.
Since He enjoys my car more than His now, I try to make sure He has mine, unless I absolutely need it. Grocery shopping and a mustang dont mix well LOL. Before the D/s? Well, I would have been like, well, i prefer mine over yours too, so I'm going to drive mine. You bought yours, deal with it lol. I know, sooo bad. But, I'm honest.
Its not that I dont like driving the mustang, I love it, just tires me out sometimes LOL. Malibu has much easier handling
I always ask permission for a kiss.
When shopping, I head for the departments He likes first. <that way, I can judge just how much I get to spend after He is done LOL>
I put Him on my bank accounts, without asking to be put on His, nor have I been put on His. I havent shared an acccount with someone in ten years.
There are more if I sat here and thought longer. But, it is late.
pet
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RE: Small gestures in public? - 
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