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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/7/2009 11:37:46 PM   
marie2


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When I approach the subject with most woman they think its disgusting and they think there is something wrong with me.   Now I know this crowd has a much different perspective.   My question, in your experience am I that weird?   I have no desire to cross dress or to be a woman, its just the lingerie is a huge turnon.  Opinions?



In bdsm circles, it's not all that uncommon.  I've seen a lot of male submissives around who seem to enjoy being sissified, or men who simply enjoy wearing women's undergarments.  So I don't think anyone would really blink an eye over it.  However, at the same time, you can't expect the women you "approach" to not see it as "disgusting" if that is the way they genuinely feel about it. At least they're being honest with you about the way they feel. There are many people who have similar opinions about various other kinks that others may practice.  

If you're going to be involved in kinkiness, you have to develope a belief in yourself, and not feel invalidated by someone who might think you "weird".  You have to be ok with it yourself.  And then seek others who enjoy the same things.  Why concern yourself with strangers who don't share your desires? 

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/7/2009 11:40:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Not so wierd. I sometimes like to try on womens boots. Im not gay, it just turns me on. Not a cross dresser either. Just love womens sexy footwear.

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/7/2009 11:44:08 PM   
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If you're going to be involved in kinkiness, you have to develope a belief in yourself, and not feel invalidated by someone who might think you "weird".  You have to be ok with it yourself.  And then seek others who enjoy the same things.  Why concern yourself with strangers who don't share your desires? 



The difficulty is finding a woman accepting and into it

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/7/2009 11:47:30 PM   
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As far as Wearing womens Underwear and Lingerie, Guess what THIS IS VERY COMMON. Many Men are into it. andthe most common reason is because womens underwear and lingerie feel good against thier skin.

No you are not weird and the whole MOST men don't do it. Do what you like that is what this lifestyle is about expressing your Kink and knowing that it is OKAY.

Steel



Jaz says

I agree with steel. I think this is a lot more common than what people let on.
During my married years my husband (X husband) often wore my panties for work.
More recently I was house sharing and the guy that was sharing was a panty thief!! I lost nearly all my nice sets because he raided my washing line for anything frilly or lacy.

Steve and me often do a swap so that I wear his and he wears mine. I know what he means when he says he likes the feel of me on his skin because that is exactly how I feel when wearing his.

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/7/2009 11:48:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ddogg2

...My question, in your experience am I that weird?...


In my experience, no you're not weird at all. Generally speaking, I can kind of relate...

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I have no desire to cross dress or to be a woman, its just the lingerie is a huge turnon.  Opinions?


I was under the impression wearing women's clothes to enhance the sexual experience is by definition cross-dressing. Did I miss the company memo?

Seriously though, and more importantly, if its something you like and its not hurting you, your relationships, or anyone else physically or emotionally, I don't see the harm in experimenting. Perhaps just be sure to check in once in a while to be certain the fetish doesn't begin to impact your life or emotional health in a negative way, especially in the self-esteem department.

Also, keep in mind that for some folks it is possible that what you're doing can become somewhat...compulsory.


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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 12:45:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		1. most woman they think its disgusting because maybe you look better than they do or maybe they fear the fact you might look better than them!
2.i dont think the word disgusting when i see a woman wearing boxer shorts amd wearing my sport socks (its not what they wear it is inside those shorts that counts)
3.a word of advice if some females dont approve then your with the wrong person (s)


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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 1:16:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		In my opinion men wearing women's lingerie isn't weird.  Your question was do people think YOU are weird and I can't answer that because I haven't met you.

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 1:29:20 AM   
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1. most woman they think its disgusting because maybe you look better than they do or maybe they fear the fact you might look better than them!
2.i dont think the word disgusting when i see a woman wearing boxer shorts amd wearing my sport socks (its not what they wear it is inside those shorts that counts)
3.a word of advice if some females dont approve then your with the wrong person (s)


I think you can probably squeeze societal programming in there too, no? Isn't that what tells us that men have to be manly, and women are supposed to be soft, sexy, never sweat, and always smell good?


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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 2:19:09 AM   
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Even if that was to be the case, I will not subject innocent people to seeing me in a teddy! That's be too damn scary!


Bear - dont be so hard on yourself. I'm sure you'd be stunning in the right color ;)

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 2:34:34 AM   
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...My question, in your experience am I that weird?   I have no desire to cross dress or to be a woman, its just the lingerie is a huge turnon.  Opinions?


Is *that* weird - not so much
are you that weird: no idea - stick around and I'm sure someone will let you know :)
 
In an episode of 'Private Practice' a fire chief (played by Ernie Hudson) wore women's lingerie as a stress reliever. He found it comforting.
 
Klinger was (may still be) a cult hero
 
If you like it, if it brings you joy - happy shopping !

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 2:43:26 AM   
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Yes, its 'weird' because most men don't do it.  But its a fetish I'm sure a lot of people have, even if they're a minority, so I'm sure you'll find someone who likes it just as much as you do.


So even though a lot of people have this fetish it's still "weird?"  Think before you type....


If someone calls me weird i take it as a compliment and love it.  That comment was not meant to be insulting so maybe you should think before you type...

Personally i would not like to see my Master dressed in women's undies, or women's clothes, but that is just coz it's not my kink.  Each to their own in this wonderful and yes weird world we all live in!

gabrielle x

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 2:44:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Weird is in the eye of the beholder, but no I don't think it is weird. It is a desire, perhaps a fetish for you, that exists inside you like every other desire. I don't think expressing those desires makes you weird. It makes you a human being who wants to be happy with someone and mutually enjoying each others desires.

I also don't think you should worry about what other people think. As long as you are happy and its between consenting adults, go for it.

Keiko

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 2:59:10 AM   
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No, but it better not be mine!


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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 3:06:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		I find it adds to the flavour having a Dom force You into a role as a Slut, not a woman. The fact that women to are kind of looked upon as objects if they dress out of line, it is this sence of beeing put on display in outraging clothes that gets it hot. Dressed with class and provoking too makes it hard not to arouse certain feelings - and perhaps beeing treated as a toy for the Doms pleasure. That at least is what i like ;)

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 3:07:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		~FR~ I see nothing at all weird in wanting to have soft and silky next to your skin especially your delicate parts. I think it's weird NOT to want to wear soft and silky! So there! 

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 3:42:18 AM   
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My question, in your experience am I that weird?  


Yes I do find it weird that a male wears female underwear, but why would you care what I think.
I prefer happy weird people above unhappy weird people also....so enjoy.

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 3:52:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ddogg2

My question, in your experience am I that weird?   I have no desire to cross dress or to be a woman, its just the lingerie is a huge turnon.  Opinions?



Doesn't float my boat and I wouldn't be with a man who had this desire, but if it works for you and who you're with then enjoy and have fun.

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 4:01:55 AM   
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No, but it better not be mine!



It caused one of My divorces, were it today, I'd just make sure he had his own set!

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 4:24:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Why care what others think.  As it has been stated earlier, one persons weird is another persons yummy.

I could really care less what other people do or how they dress.  What ever gets them where they are going.  Those that enjoy this fetish engage in it and those who don't, don't.

If I listened to every person who said I was weird, I would not be the person I am today. 

Of course, this is coming froma guy wearing a French Maid outfit in his profile picture. 

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RE: Is a guy wearing womans lingerie wierd? - 1/8/2009 4:44:19 AM   
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Of course, this is coming froma guy wearing a French Maid outfit in his profile picture. 


and a very nice one at that

Maria

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